The Lancet: Black women in the USA were murdered six times more often than White women between 1999 and 2020, state-level analysis indicates

[Kasgoinjail]

Black women. They've also been shown to target Black boys in school more than any other teacher. It's clear a lot of Black women have very negative stereotypical views of Black men and boys based off their Black feminist theories and it extends to their sons. That's why we'll never have a real conversation about this, it just makes people uncomfortable

Black women in America commit more statutory rape in schools?

Black women in America commit more infanticide?

Black women in America commit more child trafficking crimes?

Black women in America commit more paedophilia?

Not disputing you as I live in Great Britain, would just like to know the source of your facts please so I can gain better perspective.

My observation is Black women in general physically beat their children more which is defo a form of abuse, I dont whoop my children. But the other forms of chilld abuse I would not have thought Black women in America were the forerunners

 

[The Burger King]

I’m going to say this and then dip out for a bit, cause I got shyt to do.

If I can’t be apart of the prevention, don’t ask me to be apart of the solution.

Y’all want productive black men to step in and try and fix things AFTER the damage has already been done.

But how many of these young women would actually listen if we went into the streets preaching:

“Hey, be more selective about who you sleep with. If he isn’t gainfully employed with a good head on his shoulders, don’t spread your legs for him.”

“Don’t let excitement and how a man makes you ‘feel’ impact how you choose a mate.”

“Manage your finances wisely so that you can live in a decent area and not have to worry about ducking stray bullets.”

Or even better

“Since men as a whole are being held responsible for women’s choices in men, let’s go back to the days of a woman’s father and brothers choosing her mate.”

No one would listen. We’d be shouted down and told that these women are grown and can make their own decisions.

Black men who preach common sense are called “incels” and told that we’re “controlling” and “patriarchal”.

Okay, cool. If you don’t want us involved when poor decisions are being made, don’t lecture us after the fact about how we need to do better.

I can’t constantly ask my parents to let me borrow money from them to pay my bills, then when they suggest that I better manage my finances, I turn around and tell them that I’m a grown adult who can spend my money how I want.

Again, if I can’t be involved in the prevention then don’t ask me to be apart of the solution.

 

[Marlow Stanfield]

Looks like you're having an emotional moment, and can't discuss things calmly and rationally.

Take a moment, take some deep breaths and calm yourself. (Were you raised by a strong black man by any chance? Or a single mom? No judgment)

Like I said at the start of this thread, what steps do you think the Black Community should be making to save these women from the choices they willingly made?

I'm here for solutions...

You're here to point the finger at Black Women while offering nothing.

 

[O.J. Simpson]

That was a very very disingenuous post knowing the population numbers and ratios younstill pulled that outta ya ass.

Knowing black women make up less than 20% of the population yet neck and neck with white women (the majority) for homicide rates is appalling.

Shame on you

I hate to be a "pick me" type of nikka in this bish....

But nikkas in here argue like white men argue about nikkas.

Deflection and all that.

You don't have to be part of the problem to recognize a problem.

But then again, you can't tell who's white and trolling and who's really mentally caught up in this black Incel movement. shyt is deep.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

If refering to your women as bytches in music for the past 30 years isn't social engineering I don't know what is.

Black men need to learn to respect Black women thats not their mammy and it starts with self don't @ me

@Marc Spector says white supremacy is the reason why black men call black women bytches. do you think that's true?

 

[ShackZilla89]

 

[NYC Rebel]

I had the soul of my old neighborhood ripped out of its chest two years ago when one of the purest women I know was gunned down by her ex-husband (with no priors) on a Brownsville street. Upset that she left him 10 years prior and was in a Lesbian relationship.

I just want men to look in the mirror and at each other for once instead of looking at "who she______" as a copout. I've spent countless hours talking to my son's, living with me and one not, on how to deal with women and to handle their emotions.

I just don't see enough of us being willing to have these talks. It's annoying.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

A large part comes down to black women's love for dealing with criminals. Then followed by bw unfortunately being victims of crimes such as random robberies and stray bullets due to living in high crime areas.

Bingo

To begin the process of reversing the numbers , one big part is for sisters own decisions not to get involved with criminals, ex cons, non working nikkas who just sit up in the crib playing call of duty all day smoking weed..

If this is true, why do black women date thugs? Do thugs far outnumber regular black men?

 

[O.J. Simpson]

I’m going to say this and then dip out for a bit, cause I got shyt to do.

If I can’t be apart of the prevention, don’t ask me to be apart of the solution.

Y’all want productive black men to step in and try and fix things AFTER the damage has already been done.

But how many of these young women would actually listen if we went into the streets preaching:

“Hey, be more selective about who you sleep with. If he isn’t gainfully employed with a good head on his shoulders, don’t spread your legs for him.”

“Don’t let excitement and how a man makes you ‘feel’ impact how you choose a mate.”

“Manage your finances wisely so that you can live in a decent area and not have to worry about ducking stray bullets.”

Or even better

“Since men as a whole are being held responsible for women’s choices in men, let’s go back to the days of a woman’s father and brothers choosing her mate.”

No one would listen. We’d be shouted down and told that these women are grown and can make their own decisions.

Black men who preach common sense are called “incels” and told that we’re “controlling” and “patriarchal”.

Okay, cool. If you don’t want us involved when poor decisions are being made, don’t lecture us after the fact about how we need to do better.

I can’t constantly ask my parents to let me borrow money from them to pay my bills, then when they suggest that I better manage my finances, I turn around and tell them that I’m a grown adult who can spend my money how I want.

Again, if I can’t be involved in the prevention then don’t ask me to be apart of the solution.

My guy, the fact that you are not apart of the problem IS the solution.

You are the solution.

Understand that you are an innocent man, and move accordingly.

No need to take offense to something that you did not cause.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

I hate to be a "pick me" type of nikka in this bish....

But nikkas in here argue like white men argue about nikkas.

Deflection and all that.

You don't have to be part of the problem to recognize a problem.

But then again, you can't tell who's white and trolling and who's really mentally caught up in this black Incel movement. shyt is deep.

You are not a pick you are just rational

We can have rational conversations about sensitive topics without getting emotional and playing the blame game

Oy through communication can Black couple get through this trauma


I say that because I was a victim of domestic violence, not because the dude was abused or I attracted to thugs. But because we couldn't realise that what we thought was passionate love was just two broken people trauma bonding.

We BOTH needed therapy

 

[Voice of Reason]

That was a very very disingenuous post knowing the population numbers and ratios younstill pulled that outta ya ass.

Knowing black women make up less than 20% of the population yet neck and neck with white women (the majority) for homicide rates is appalling.

Shame on you

You are not even American mind your business.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

You are not even American mind your business.

I'm a Black women business shall be enquired

 

[High Art]

the point, the data is showing we need more.

Let’s not turn this into an “not all black men” thing it wasnt

There is no data showing that these killers are ex cons. Three girls I came up with who were murdered by their partners weren’t men who fit the “my gut” profile you guys crafted.

There is a clear lack of emotional teaching our boys are being reared with. The evidence is clear yet the willingness to open and shut case these problems to ex-cons is

The data is just showing a correlation. You're the one tacking on a causation. You actually invalidate your whole point with that line I bolded since the data is not showing anything in regards to the emotional states of these dudes either. You're literally assuming. I'm tired of people pretending as if they understand how studies work.

 

[The Burger King]

My guy, the fact that you are not apart of the problem IS the solution.

You are the solution.

Understand that you are an innocent man, and move accordingly.

No need to take offense to something that you did not cause.

You’re saying what it is that I’m saying though.

But that’s not what is being preached in here.

We’re being told that we need to somehow “protect” these women from domestic violence and involve ourselves in the issue, when in actuality there is nothing really that myself and black men like myself can do to solve this problem.

We’re not the ones making the decision.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

You are not even American mind your business.

Why would You neg me and call me Tether when I live in Great Britain

Did my tone of questioning trigger you?

Would you have hit me if I was in your Vicinity?

Your voice isn't very reasonable today Sir