They usually use the word intimate partners, which could be same sex and opposite sex.
The Lancet: Black women in the USA were murdered six times more often than White women between 1999 and 2020, state-level analysis indicates
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No one said hunting.
These are obviously women who majority are being killed by men they know
And same goes for men too, who you think their opps are.
Yeeeeeeea we’re essentially talking about intimate partner violence.
This isn’t about men. Why do some of y’all like to switch the subject or make comparisons when talking about WOMEN?!
The percentage of Black women being killed by men they know VS the percentage of White women being killed by men they know.
That is what the TWENTY YEAR study was about.
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Good luck getting through that thick headed dudes skull.Yeeeeeeea we’re essentially talking about intimate partner violence.
This isn’t about men. Why do some of y’all like to switch the subject or make comparisons when talking about WOMEN?!
The percentage of Black women being killed by men they know VS the percentage of White women being killed by men they know.
That is what the TWENTY YEAR study was about.
Bingo
To begin the process of reversing the numbers , one big part is for sisters own decisions not to get involved with criminals, ex cons, non working nikkas who just sit up in the crib playing call of duty all day smoking weed..
NYC Rebel
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Why is it never niqqas being raised to learn how to control their emotions?
Like....why?
Even when niqqas kill, it's still at the feet of women.
The lack of accountability is astonishing.
Plenty of black men know how to control their emotions, myself being one of them.
The issue is, our discipline and ability to walk away from unnecessary conflict makes us “boring”.
Sisters want a man who is exciting, right? They want a man with some edge, do they not?
I’m sure that some of these murders are committed by 9-5 brehs, but let’s not be disingenuous and act like the average brother who has had to work his ass off to succeed academically and in terms of his career is about to throw it all away over a woman.
I’m in the gym right now, but when I am done I can find the study that shows that the majority of black women’s baby daddies have criminal records.
I wouldn’t be surprised if we can find a study that the majority of these men committing domestic violence have similar backgrounds.
NYC Rebel
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the point, the data is showing we need more.
Let’s not turn this into an “not all black men” thing it wasnt
There is no data showing that these killers are ex cons. Three girls I came up with who were murdered by their partners weren’t men who fit the “my gut” profile you guys crafted.
There is a clear lack of emotional teaching our boys are being reared with. The evidence is clear yet the willingness to open and shut case these problems to ex-cons is
Marlow Stanfield
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Better question is, "How have I protected women in abusive relationships?"
When one of my homegirls was getting her ass beat by her ex-bf several years ago, she hid it from everyone. She also stopped coming around because dude isolated her away from the group. Within the first year of them dating, she stopped answering the phone, wouldn't show up to birthday parties, etc. She was ghost and it raised all kinds of red flags. I had to pull up to her job just to check on her and we talked for a minute, but I could tell something was off. Eventually, she confided in our other homegirl that he was abusing her, and made wild threats about tearing her life apart if she left, etc. Well, it came to a head one night and I had to go pick her up on a random street corner in Queens. I took her back to my place where she stayed for a few months. She bounced around the friend group camping out at our places until she could move into a new place. NYC is a big fukking city and it's easy to get lost or to lose someone. He fell back over time and ultimately got himself arrested for being a drunk POS. My friend's life tho? fukked. She had to break the lease on her apartment and move out, almost got fired from her job for excessive absence (thankfully her boss was a woman who understood), dude maxed one of her credit cards out of spite which was hell to get out from under. It was ugly.. but she got away.
TL;DR - Not al DV stories go like this, but the simple answer to your question is... you do what you can without risking your own safety. Even if it's just calling in a welfare check, something is better than sitting on your hands.
Marlow Stanfield
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Who's primarily raising Black Boys?
Black women.
Where are the fathers? They are not absolved of responsibility.
NYC Rebel
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Your cop out.Who's primarily raising Black Boys?