The Internet Is Smoothing Sex Into Oblivion

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he's not black though. 200k is a lot in california, but it is not crazy-money like it probably is in other places in america.

I see some of you guys on the Coli say that 60K is comfortable salary, and I am like WTF? where the hell is that at and can i live there?


Even though he is not black, what you're essentially saying is right. It needs to stop looking for love and just play the field until he actually finds something that is worth keeping.


Did your wife ever come back?
 

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Great article...

I think of this and then this thread I made describing my own predicament with sex, relationships, and dating.

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/sometimes-i-feel-like-ill-never-have-sex-again.187119/

Shyt, I'm a good looking, tall, athletic, slightly muscular, intelligent, hung like a motherf*cking redwood (no homo) cultured, black male, women check me out...but in this climate, it just feels like I'll never have any sort of flesh and blood relationship with a woman ever again and I've been single for almost 6 years (haven't had sex in almost 2). Not making excuses, but this landscape is extremely difficult to traverse at times.

It doesn't help that I'm not really making that much money either at this point in time...:manny:

I'll be honest, sometimes I wish I could just turn off my sexuality and just be mute...sad to say with how f*cking difficult this shyt is.

I deleted all of my online dating accounts as well. Till I get my life right financially and professionally, I could care less about getting laid.

It's frustrating, depressing, and extremely anger inducing. Especially when I just want to stick my d!kk deep down in some warm wet p*ssy.

Humans have become f*cking worthless pieces of garbage in my eyes lately with this new atmosphere...fukk em all they disappoint me. I'll walk alone.

And what do you do when you catch them checking you out?
 
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And what do you do when you catch them checking you out?

Nothin. I'm just afraid to talk to them cause I'm obviously not making enough money and don't have that much going on with myself at the moment. Plus I just assumme they already have boyfriends or something or aren't interested in me. I haven't initiated a convo with a woman I've been into since last year. I don't care at all.
 
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i used watch anime in the 80s and early 90s. it feels different now. It was more cutting edge, darker, adult. The art was more "gritty", the women characters were more mature and sexy. Now, the women always have child-like proportions and everything centers around "cuteness". The themes and stories seem really childish now too.

In Zeta gundam almost all the main characters died and Kamile had his brain scrambled. It ended on the most depressing note possible.

Kamile had his parents crushed alive right infront of him during the first episode.

They remade Zeta for today's generation and gave it a happy ending? WTF? Are peope too weak
To handle realistic stories now?

All that naruto shyt and like looks like little kids cartoon. Just feels different.

Good insight and I agree.
 

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Nothin. I'm just afraid to talk to them cause I'm obviously not making enough money and don't have that much going on with myself at the moment. Plus I just assumme they already have boyfriends or something or aren't interested in me. I haven't initiated a convo with a woman I've been into since last year. I don't care at all.

These are limiting beliefs man. And I guarantee they're seeping through into your body language and your entire vibe. You mentioned that chicks are warmer to other guys in social settings where people are greeting/introduced and I am sure it's because you're giving off the vibe that YOU are uncomfortable.

The following are true statements that you should think about:
*broke dudes date/fukk attractive women
*deadbeats date/fukk attractive women
*a lot of people end up marrying someone they met while they were in a relationship with someone else

Yeah, you should get your money up and start doing something with yourself, but that has to start w/ you getting your mind right. Your whole frame is fukked up and you really need to take some time, sit down, and think about what makes you you...makes you a worthwhile individual, what untapped or currently undeveloped potential you have. You already listed some of your qualities that have "market value" out there, just realize it is what it is. Women like tall guys. Women like muscular guys. and no homo but women like guys who are well endowed. if you're all of those things, what's the problem.

oh, and another thing, other dudes are intimidated by the above as well. some of the more "successful" guys are successful because they have no choice to be to compensate for lacking in the above qualities. if you have both, you're golden. but physical attractiveness lends itself to success more than success lends itself to physical attractiveness.
 

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i used watch anime in the 80s and early 90s. it feels different now. It was more cutting edge, darker, adult. The art was more "gritty", the women characters were more mature and sexy. Now, the women always have child-like proportions and everything centers around "cuteness". The themes and stories seem really childish now too.

In Zeta gundam almost all the main characters died and Kamile had his brain scrambled. It ended on the most depressing note possible.

Kamile had his parents crushed alive right infront of him during the first episode.

They remade Zeta for today's generation and gave it a happy ending? WTF? Are peope too weak
To handle realistic stories now?

All that naruto shyt and like looks like little kids cartoon. Just feels different.
such a disappointment :scusthov:
you have to sift through a lot of "cute" crap to find a watchable anime.
currently awaiting the latest episode of GITS Arise:blessed:
 

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The crazy part is, they used to be the freaks\deviants of the global sex culture...I think they still are....This may have a propaganda angle to gain hits
They are but it's different over there...there's a market for shyt like that. Thus the vending machines with panties and all that other shyt.

If America was'nt so stuck up, best believe it would be just like that over here.
 
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These are limiting beliefs man. And I guarantee they're seeping through into your body language and your entire vibe. You mentioned that chicks are warmer to other guys in social settings where people are greeting/introduced and I am sure it's because you're giving off the vibe that YOU are uncomfortable.

The following are true statements that you should think about:
*broke dudes date/fukk attractive women
*deadbeats date/fukk attractive women
*a lot of people end up marrying someone they met while they were in a relationship with someone else

Yeah, you should get your money up and start doing something with yourself, but that has to start w/ you getting your mind right. Your whole frame is fukked up and you really need to take some time, sit down, and think about what makes you you...makes you a worthwhile individual, what untapped or currently undeveloped potential you have. You already listed some of your qualities that have "market value" out there, just realize it is what it is. Women like tall guys. Women like muscular guys. and no homo but women like guys who are well endowed. if you're all of those things, what's the problem.

oh, and another thing, other dudes are intimidated by the above as well. some of the more "successful" guys are successful because they have no choice to be to compensate for lacking in the above qualities. if you have both, you're golden. but physical attractiveness lends itself to success more than success lends itself to physical attractiveness.

I feel ya.

It's hard when I spent the last 12 years (from my college years in 2002-2012)...to now broke/poor as a goddamn joke. Being broke will make you feel unnattractive.

Sometimes I barely have enough money to get food to eat until payday and aside from not getting regular (or any) p*ssy I'm just in an angry/aggro mood most of the time.

I currently work at a frozen yogurt joint in DUMBO for a measley 8 dollars an hour at almost 30 and it's f8cking depressing. That was the ONLY job I could find as of late that wasn't a f*cking door to door sales scam. I thought my life would be ten times better than this at this point.

Shyt, I'm just in a really f*cking bad mood right now...I don't need this shyt.
 

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I feel ya.

It's hard when I spent the last 12 years (from my college years in 2002-2012)...to now broke/poor as a goddamn joke. Being broke will make you feel unnattractive.

Sometimes I barely have enough money to get food to eat until payday and aside from not getting regular (or any) p*ssy I'm just in an angry/aggro mood most of the time.

I currently work at a frozen yogurt joint in DUMBO for a measley 8 dollars an hour at almost 30 and it's f8cking depressing. That was the ONLY job I could find as of late that wasn't a f*cking door to door sales scam. I thought my life would be ten times better than this at this point.

Shyt, I'm just in a really f*cking bad mood right now...I don't need this shyt.
What's your education like?
 
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