The Internet Is Smoothing Sex Into Oblivion

[tmonster]

Breh..Give it a rest.

ok breh

 

[Cabbage Patch]

I think its the 200k a year salary that really brings him inner peace bruh

 

[Cabbage Patch]

i used watch anime in the 80s and early 90s. it feels different now. It was more cutting edge, darker, adult. The art was more "gritty", the women characters were more mature and sexy. Now, the women always have child-like proportions and everything centers around "cuteness". The themes and stories seem really childish now too.

In Zeta gundam almost all the main characters died and Kamile had his brain scrambled. It ended on the most depressing note possible.

Kamile had his parents crushed alive right infront of him during the first episode.

They remade Zeta for today's generation and gave it a happy ending? WTF? Are peope too weak
To handle realistic stories now?

All that naruto shyt and like looks like little kids cartoon. Just feels different.

That's because it is different, and articles have been done on why that is, and why it's a negative.

 

[Big Jo]

Honestly, porn pisses me off and depresses me. Everyone getting laid except me.I just get to hear about everyone's good time while I got nothing but my left and right and that's gotten played out. fukk em all and they can burn in hell.

I don't even check the stuff out anymore...I see so much of it on tumblr I'm just desensitized to it now.

Feelings of sexual frustration, depression, social anxiety, mood swings, desensitization, all very common among heavy porn users

I'm not trying to "diagnose" you here, just saying you are not alone. It's only so many times we can watch beautiful women getting fukked on a screen while pleasuring ourselves until it starts to make us feel bitter and doubt our own self worth

I just focus on creative shyt and working on myself.

This is key at the end of the day. Just ease off the porn as best you can, avoid potential "triggers" (dont go on tumblr or JBO as much for example) and start to focus on being a better person -- volunteer work, going to the gym, reading more, learn a new skill or hobby, whatever you can do to stay productive and motivated.

You'll start feeling a lot more optimistic and your all around situation will improve greatly

 

[Chris.B]

I think its the 200k a year salary that really brings him inner peace bruh

:eddie:

 

[Amulet of Immortality]

I'm stuck in the demonic loop of porn viewing Tryin to break out of this shyt by starting to exercise in a week or two Then I won't beat off because I'd lose energy for exercising etc.

Hopefully...


































Right?

 

[Scott Larock]

nah man... Hes a humble engineer. Still drives a 2005 Acura TSX. Dude drops like 15k on those bikes though. I didnt even know they could be so expensive, and they are so lightweight.

A few years ago, he still made a lot of money, but he was fat, played videogames and watches sports all day. he would also eat at 3.5 to 5 star resturuants nearly everyday.

He turned around to disciplined life, and now he weighs less, doesnt play games or watch tv. He also much more successful in his career.

Don't matter with 200k a year he can easily find happiness and plenty of vag

 

[TLOL is back]

Does the article even present evidence that sex is on the decline?

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Great article...

I think of this and then this thread I made describing my own predicament with sex, relationships, and dating.

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/sometimes-i-feel-like-ill-never-have-sex-again.187119/

Shyt, I'm a good looking, tall, athletic, slightly muscular, intelligent, hung like a motherf*cking redwood (no homo) cultured, black male, women check me out...but in this climate, it just feels like I'll never have any sort of flesh and blood relationship with a woman ever again and I've been single for almost 6 years (haven't had sex in almost 2). Not making excuses, but this landscape is extremely difficult to traverse at times.

It doesn't help that I'm not really making that much money either at this point in time...

I'll be honest, sometimes I wish I could just turn off my sexuality and just be mute...sad to say with how f*cking difficult this shyt is.

I deleted all of my online dating accounts as well. Till I get my life right financially and professionally, I could care less about getting laid.

It's frustrating, depressing, and extremely anger inducing. Especially when I just want to stick my d!kk deep down in some warm wet p*ssy.

Humans have become f*cking worthless pieces of garbage in my eyes lately with this new atmosphere...fukk em all they disappoint me. I'll walk alone.

I think I kind of understand where you coming from....Not completely, but kind of

 

[bnm8907]

Great article...

I think of this and then this thread I made describing my own predicament with sex, relationships, and dating.

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/sometimes-i-feel-like-ill-never-have-sex-again.187119/

Shyt, I'm a good looking, tall, athletic, slightly muscular, intelligent, hung like a motherf*cking redwood (no homo) cultured, black male, women check me out...but in this climate, it just feels like I'll never have any sort of flesh and blood relationship with a woman ever again and I've been single for almost 6 years (haven't had sex in almost 2). Not making excuses, but this landscape is extremely difficult to traverse at times.

It doesn't help that I'm not really making that much money either at this point in time...

I'll be honest, sometimes I wish I could just turn off my sexuality and just be mute...sad to say with how f*cking difficult this shyt is.

I deleted all of my online dating accounts as well. Till I get my life right financially and professionally, I could care less about getting laid.

It's frustrating, depressing, and extremely anger inducing. Especially when I just want to stick my d!kk deep down in some warm wet p*ssy.

Humans have become f*cking worthless pieces of garbage in my eyes lately with this new atmosphere...fukk em all they disappoint me. I'll walk alone.

I get where your coming from but the older I get and the more I grow, I think the the two(personal and work life) go hand in hand.

I know it sounds like if you just focused solely on work you can make so many positive strides in that area because you are not focused as much on p*ssy.

But what I've found it doesn't work like that. It stays in the back of your mind and being in a culture or environment with women, couples, and sex on all entertainment mediums it makes it really tough to ignore.

You end up finding an outlet one way or the other. If it not directly with a female, its through porn, or some other form of escapism.

I think the best coarse of action is to focus on them both. Which ever your stronger at will improve faster but you want to keep working on both because they help each other by balancing you out.

I'm not even saying necessarily get a gf or even have sex everyday just whatever will make you truly feel comfortable about your social/private life.

Just my .02

Hope it helps.

 

[Camile.Bidan]

Don't matter with 200k a year he can easily find happiness and plenty of vag

I wouldn't say that... He lives in a 3 bedroom house that he owns, there is also a nice pool in the back. He lives by himself, and he has been single for the last 3 years.

He was in a 7 year relationship with a girl that ended after she cheated on him, then he took her back, then he she dumped him a few months afterward.

In his previous relationship before that, he stumbled upon an Email where he found out that girl cheated him as well. To makes things worse, she started hanging around all the hood types from our neighborhood, and got turned out. I was at party where it was "train-time" with that girl..... I couldn't do it.

So this guy has taken MAD L's when it comes to women. He's my friend for sure, but I feel that he needs to get tough on women. My wife would clown on him a lot. Always would call him "square-ass p*ssy" or she would say things like "Is that your square friend calling?". Funny thing is my wife called it out of the blue one time. She was like "you know his girlfriend is cheating on him right?" just by reading her body language. She would also say things like, "He's not manly, is he gay? lol!!!" Damn bytches are ruthless.

 

[Scott Larock]

nah man... Hes a humble engineer. Still drives a 2005 Acura TSX. Dude drops like 15k on those bikes though. I didnt even know they could be so expensive, and they are so lightweight.

A few years ago, he still made a lot of money, but he was fat, played videogames and watches sports all day. he would also eat at 3.5 to 5 star resturuants nearly everyday.

He turned around to disciplined life, and now he weighs less, doesnt play games or watch tv. He also much more successful in his career.

Don't matter with 200k a year he can easily find happiness and plenty of vag

I wouldn't say that... He lives in a 3 bedroom house that he owns, there is also a nice pool in the back. He lives by himself, and he has been single for the last 3 years.

He was in a 7 year relationship with a girl that ended after she cheated on him, then he took her back, then he she dumped him a few months afterward.

In his previous relationship before that, he stumbled upon an Email where he found out that girl cheated him as well. To makes things worse, she started hanging around all the hood types from our neighborhood, and got turned out. I was at party where it was "train-time" with that girl..... I couldn't do it.

So this guy has taken MAD L's when it comes to women. He's my friend for sure, but I feel that he needs to get tough on women. My wife would clown on him a lot. Always would call him "square-ass p*ssy" or she would say things like "Is that your square friend calling?". Funny thing is my wife called it out of the blue one time. She was like "you know his girlfriend is cheating on him right?" just by reading her body language. She would also say things like, "He's not manly, is he gay? lol!!!" Damn bytches are ruthless.

I feel you, I really do but I can't cosign what you wrote..

He needs to realize he's on top of the food chain, dude is too humble and too nice. I don't know what state you live in but 200k a year for any brotha and the whole city getting ran through


Some dudes got that natural cockiness and aggression, some dudes like your boy needs other things, once he realizes what he has he's good.

Making some lame cheat on you while you pulling 200k

He just needs a little confidence, tell him to look hard at that paycheck and he'll wake up

 

[Camile.Bidan]

Don't matter with 200k a year he can easily find happiness and plenty of vag



I feel you, I really do but I can't cosign what you wrote..

He needs to realize he's on top of the food chain, dude is too humble and too nice. I don't know what state you live in but 200k a year for any brotha and the whole city getting ran through


Some dudes got that natural cockiness and aggression, some dudes like your boy needs other things, once he realizes what he has he's good.

Making some lame cheat on you while you pulling 200k

He just needs a little confidence, tell him to look hard at that paycheck and he'll wake up

I already had a talk with him. He is on some dating site now, and I told him to put his income on there or at least put "engineer" in the title. He refuses to do it. I told to him to upgrade to a newer car to attract women. He refuses to do it.

I told him to mess around with some more "trifling" girls to get his confidence up, and he hits me with a "A care about a girl's mind man!".... I just shake my at that stuff. he needs to have fun with women

 

[Scott Larock]

I already had a talk with him. He is on some dating site now, and I told him to put his income on there or at least put "engineer" in the title. He refuses to do it. I told to him to upgrade to a newer car to attract women. He refuses to do it.

I told him to mess around with some more "trifling" girls to get his confidence up, and he hits me with a "A care about a girl's mind man!".... I just shake my at that stuff. he needs to have fun with women

state ya'll live in?

Tell dude to LIVE and stop "looking" for love, that don't work for black folks usually, we usually live and let love find us. Tell money to find a good happy hour, post up weekly and live a little.

 

[Camile.Bidan]

state ya'll live in?

Tell dude to LIVE and stop "looking" for love, that don't work for black folks usually, we usually live and let love find us. Tell money to find a good happy hour, post up weekly and live a little.

he's not black though. 200k is a lot in california, but it is not crazy-money like it probably is in other places in america.

I see some of you guys on the Coli say that 60K is comfortable salary, and I am like WTF? where the hell is that at and can i live there?


Even though he is not black, what you're essentially saying is right. It needs to stop looking for love and just play the field until he actually finds something that is worth keeping.