The importance of Charisma

[Dave24]

OJ Simpson is one celebrity who has tons of charisma. Just watch this video:

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Does Charisma get you the draws or the friendzone?

Breh if a chick ever calls you charismatic, she's all yours.Normally I get terms like "handsome" "cute"..But I've had a few chicks refer to me as "Hella charismatic".Puzzy galore, breh.Multiple rounds any time I wanted it.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Its bullshyt. Just like you said.

No it’s not… Y’all saw the word “magic” and went haywire…. It’s the same nerd ass reason ol boy wanted “concrete” examples…. Ain’t shyt concrete when dealing with the opposite sex

 

[RickyDiBiase]

No it’s not… Y’all saw the word “magic” and went haywire…. It’s the same nerd ass reason ol boy wanted “concrete” examples…. Ain’t shyt concrete when dealing with the opposite sex

Stop thinking with your dikk breh. More to life then these hoes

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Stop thinking with your dikk breh. More to life then these hoes

Not sure how you came to this conclusion in your reply to my post

 

[RickyDiBiase]

Not sure how you came to this conclusion in your reply to my post

Nvm breh you right

 

[SunZoo]

The irony of it all is that people want charisma to be liked, accepted by the opposite sex, etc, when in actuality, charisma is developed by being authentic and holding deep conviction in yourself, ideas, regardless of how you’re perceived

People seem to have narrow definitions of who is/what is charasmatic/charisma.

I remember when Lavar Ball was a thing, you had a lot of people on here comparing him to Trump. I mean yes, both loud, abrasive but also 100% buying their own bullshyt, to their benefit.

Charles Manson is charasmatic too...it manifests according to the individual.

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

I'm happy we have a resident charisma guru

Tell us more about your cool personality

I been on this site for years and interacted with a lot of people offline and the coli certainly got a demographic. It is what it is. I really never gave a fukk about telling y’all nikkas the truth. But like I said, damn near every person been cool. It’s not a diss at all. I’m not sayin my I got more or less charisma than anyone. I’m saying the averge coli nikka is definitely not oozing with charisma and a lot of dudes on here got negative charisma

 

[SunZoo]

This is actually very, very true.

It’s something that you have or you don’t. You can’t teach charisma/charm.

It’s developed based on your experiences and how they mold you/how you learn to react to and interact with the world.

That’s why it’s special and why we all notice it.

I disagree with this, though I understand the logic.

Not to say you can take anyone and make them Malcom X...but 'charisma', or even what people may have called animal magnetism is real and innate in all human beings. Yes you can come out the box more wired to do certain things than other people, but tapping in to ones authentic self and weilding influence over your surroundings and the people within that sphere is something that CAN be taught.

The notion that it's some quality only a select few have comes from the fact that it's relatively easy to go your whole life without knowing your own power. The people who run things count on such people to pass on the tradition.

 

[Jazzy B.]

You can definitely "learn" to be charismatic to a certain degree, don't listen to anyone who says otherwise.

It boils down to becoming confident in yourself. Yea , I know that's hella vague , but that's the core of what being charismatic is (there's different types of charisma also btw).

Somebody in here touched on it...life experience. It plays a major part and also the ability to articulate yourself. These are the 2 biggest components of charisma. These 2 components gives you the ability to teach. The majority of people are drawn to people who are able to teach...to receive game from. The words that come out of your mouth are magic spells and the more knowledgeable you become and the better you learn to manipulate those words (for good or bad) the more charismatic you can become. (Not trying to brag but once I learned this my rate with women shot up because I literally could manipulate women with my mouthpiece but that's another story. Women love to LEARN from a man).

You don't have to be a larger than life cartoon character like a young Busta Rhymes or DMX to be charismatic....you can be a smart intellectual nerd like Neil Degrasse Tyson, there's different levels to this.

I could keep going and type up a novel on this subject because this is what I do in my real life (put brothas up on game on how to gain confidence) but I'm going to end this here because I'm not really a big fan myself of posts that are too long.

We still running this “mouthpiece” bullshyt in 2023?

A woman is either interested or she’s not which is dependent on physical attraction. If you’re an ugly nikka to a woman there are no words that will change her mind. Words cannot trump lack of physical attraction

 

[Blackrogue]

All these people were themselves. The moment you try to echo other people and are posturing automatically you lost. Ironically. Just be the best version of yourself. Keep your own counsel. And be yourself. ( Ironically women say this)

People trying to be alpha but spend their time following some other person's thoughts and opinions like sheep. Be self taught. Run real life simulations over and over, gain experience and you'll trust your own judgement

So. In summary, you shouldn't listen to me.

 

[Blackrogue]

For the most part you have it or you don't upon a certain stage of life.

It's actually simple.. most people only have a few moments of actually building on things like hitting on women etc..get tied up in results. Like take my friend. Talkative ass mofo. Who is about women but I've noticed only hits on women we introduced to him. And whenever we with groups of women he talks about the woman who did him wrong and how women aren't shyt. And these women were going to introduce him to another woman but are like nah this dude too negative.. so for the negative brehs. That shyt standing in your way. Despite whether you right or wrong. All you need is the one.

So how many times is my friend actually building experience? How many times a month? A year. If I wasn't dating..I'd do his numbers in a week that he does in a year and I'd be more ready. Hell I hit on women in front of him just to be instructional cause he didn't have the s to have a normal conversation..and I have no intents.

So just fukking do it and you'll in a year's time be light years ahead just off of feel, experience and not giving a fukk. That's the real difference. Those who do and those who don't. The fact you are thinking about a thing like charisma means you are off track because everything works together. But it'll all tie in with experience.

Do that before you start thinking about anything else these dudes are saying or preaching. like my boy will be telling me about all these red pill stuff that's being preached and I won't give a fukk cause I don't care what they got to say or what they are going through. Y'all not talking to girls and you are mad at all of them. Yes some are trash. but those ones are for fun.

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

That’s why porn and all that shyt is free they want us out here releasing being weak lacking charisma

 

[Shadow King]

It's actually simple.. most people only have a few moments of actually building on things like hitting on women etc..get tied up in results. Like take my friend. Talkative ass mofo. Who is about women but I've noticed only hits on women we introduced to him. And whenever we with groups of women he talks about the woman who did him wrong and how women aren't shyt. And these women were going to introduce him to another woman but are like nah this dude too negative.. so for the negative brehs. That shyt standing in your way. Despite whether you right or wrong. All you need is the one.

So how many times is my friend actually building experience? How many times a month? A year. If I wasn't dating..I'd do his numbers in a week that he does in a year and I'd be more ready. Hell I hit on women in front of him just to be instructional cause he didn't have the s to have a normal conversation..and I have no intents.

So just fukking do it and you'll in a year's time be light years ahead just off of feel, experience and not giving a fukk. That's the real difference. Those who do and those who don't. The fact you are thinking about a thing like charisma means you are off track because everything works together. But it'll all tie in with experience.

Do that before you start thinking about anything else these dudes are saying or preaching. like my boy will be telling me about all these red pill stuff that's being preached and I won't give a fukk cause I don't care what they got to say or what they are going through. Y'all not talking to girls and you are mad at all of them. Yes some are trash. but those ones are for fun.

Green Tea Edition of "It's Your Fault" babble

 

[Ces1ne?]

Does Charisma get you the draws or the friendzone?

If u gotta ask….u don’t have it