The importance of Charisma

NoirDynosaur

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This is actually very, very true.

It’s something that you have or you don’t. You can’t teach charisma/charm.

It’s developed based on your experiences and how they mold you/how you learn to react to and interact with the world.

That’s why it’s special and why we all notice it.
You can definitely "learn" to be charismatic to a certain degree, don't listen to anyone who says otherwise.

It boils down to becoming confident in yourself. Yea , I know that's hella vague , but that's the core of what being charismatic is (there's different types of charisma also btw).

Somebody in here touched on it...life experience. It plays a major part and also the ability to articulate yourself. These are the 2 biggest components of charisma. These 2 components gives you the ability to teach. The majority of people are drawn to people who are able to teach...to receive game from. The words that come out of your mouth are magic spells and the more knowledgeable you become and the better you learn to manipulate those words (for good or bad) the more charismatic you can become. (Not trying to brag but once I learned this my 😺 rate with women shot up because I literally could manipulate women with my mouthpiece but that's another story. Women love to LEARN from a man).

You don't have to be a larger than life cartoon character like a young Busta Rhymes or DMX to be charismatic....you can be a smart intellectual nerd like Neil Degrasse Tyson, there's different levels to this.

I could keep going and type up a novel on this subject because this is what I do in my real life (put brothas up on game on how to gain confidence) but I'm going to end this here because I'm not really a big fan myself of posts that are too long.
I agree that charisma can be teachable. I also agree that experiences one undergoes does play a role on developing it.

Putting the focus on providing value and merit in other people's life. The words we speak, the emotion we exert and how we present is highly influential.

For attracting women, charisma is a cheat code. If a man can make a woman smile or laugh, he gets a pass.




Making a woman FEEL makes the man unforgettable in her eyes. Just look how Jada can't stop talking about Pac. She even shaved her head to look like him:pachaha:




Alas, the quote strikes again "People will forget who you are but remember how you feel"
 

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I agree that charisma can be teachable. I also agree that experiences one undergoes does play a role on developing it.

Putting the focus on providing value and merit in other people's life. The words we speak, the emotion we exert and how we present is highly influential.

For attracting women, charisma is a cheat code. If a man can make a woman smile or laugh, he gets a pass.




Making a woman FEEL makes the man unforgettable in her eyes. Just look how Jada can't stop talking about Pac. She even shaved her head to look like him:pachaha:




Alas, the quote strikes again "People will forget who you are but remember how you feel"

*Make them feel
 

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I agree that charisma can be teachable. I also agree that experiences one undergoes does play a role on developing it.

Putting the focus on providing value and merit in other people's life. The words we speak, the emotion we exert and how we present is highly influential.

For attracting women, charisma is a cheat code. If a man can make a woman smile or laugh, he gets a pass.




Making a woman FEEL makes the man unforgettable in her eyes. Just look how Jada can't stop talking about Pac. She even shaved her head to look like him:pachaha:




Alas, the quote strikes again "People will forget who you are but remember how you feel"



I was telling my boys that the gym, money, and being good looking or well kept as a man is nothing if you can’t keep a woman smiling like the world is only you and her. I’ll never forget a fat ass transporter smashed a doctor because dude knew how to make her feel good about herself and he was very confident around her.


She would see him and go like “hey, are you picking up so and so?” And dude would come up with the quickest and corniers pickup line and brighten her day.


Any male nurse will tell you too. When you have charisma, your female coworkers would let you get away with even changing their hairstyles. 🤣

Trust me brehs, OP is telling the truth

I seen so many buff dudes get turned down at the gym for regular dudes
 
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