Not really... charisma is something you ascribe to others, and oftentimes, it is not warranted. For example, If you speak at a meeting or event, people might come talk to you during a break. It looks like charisma, but it's just because you showed up and spoke.
The importance of Charisma
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Not true at all. People change. Look at all the famous people who were ugly or nerds before and now every chick wants to fukk them
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It's not just money. They actually physically look better and have more confidence than before
Of course, being a nerd doesn't mean you can't be charismatic (Rizza Islam is a very charismatic nerd, but he's also like 6'7" lol) but it's more difficult
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Or she didn’t like you like that
)Respectfully, the examples were ppl like Obama, Clinton, MLK, etc. Actual charismatic people. That’s who I was referring to; not the random person who worked up the nerve to read the announcements at church.
I’m referring to people who make a lasting impression; enough so that they have the ability to galvanize people.
AGAIN:
You can’t teach charisma/charm.
It’s developed based on your experiences and how they mold you/how you learn to react to and interact with the world.
That’s why it’s special and why we all notice it.
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You literally proved my point.
The number of ppl who were “ugly or nerds” who glowed up and command attention PALES in comparison of people who were “ugly or nerds” and NEVER CHANGED.
THAT is what makes those individuals so interesting and what makes them standout.
Those bad experiences in their youth could’ve molded them two different ways:
-Force them to change and improve: become stronger, have more mental fortitude, develop more interests which would naturally make them MORE INTERESTING
or
-Continue fading into the background being invisible
Guess what? The pressures of life make MOST of us fall into the second category.
But some ppl react to life’s stressors and experiences differently. The ppl you described are in the first category. Things were shytty, they changed and now they are the center of attention.
Idk if Im charismatic or not truthfully….
BUT I honestly feel like I can talk myself out of most fukked up situations. & into good 1s. And have before.
I guess experience is the best teacher.
BUT I honestly feel like I can talk myself out of most fukked up situations. & into good 1s. And have before.
I guess experience is the best teacher.
I’m the exact same way LOLOL
But the gift of gab is worthless if there’s nothing backing it up
ima agree to disagree with you... I believe people are sheep and follow whoever has the most clout not because they are charismatic
There's reason why boondocks made this song
A list including MLK and Malcolm X, and op starts with pac and DMX 
IDK breh I got some people who aint shyt but charismatic as fukk....can stop a whole room
The ability to communicate is a (soft) skill - speaking, listening, mirroring, tone, modality, humor, subject matter etc. There are people without a single lick of classical education or physical intimidation. However, their ability to understand human interaction whether consciously or subconsciously is a sight to behold.
