The importance of Charisma

[Dave24]

Semen Retention the answer to everything

Prostate cancer

 

[Stir Fry]

The importance of charisma is known and understood. The challenge is how to obtain and cultivate it. Is it nature vs nurture. This thread would've been more productive deeply exploring methods of improving charisma. The average well adjusted human isn't a great conversationalist much less the autists on the coli. If one were to improve this aspect of themselves, they'd present the illusion of charisma. An understated part of charisma comes from the confidence of possessing a skill. It could be physical or intangible - nonetheless charismatic people are exceptional at something that gives them the confidence to present as such. Finally, there's different types to charisma. Obama and Russell Brand are all charismatic but their manner is different. However, one factor that ties both is their oratory skills. I would recommend brehs read The Like Switch to explore their approach.

Just a couple pages in, but this seems like a pretty good read so far

The Like Switch by Jack Schafer - PDF Drive

www.pdfdrive.com

 

[Jazzy B.]

Does Charisma get you the draws or the friendzone?

Only play it safe brehs end up in the friendzone

 

[MasterThought]

You can definitely "learn" to be charismatic to a certain degree, don't listen to anyone who says otherwise.

It boils down to becoming confident in yourself. Yea , I know that's hella vague , but that's the core of what being charismatic is (there's different types of charisma also btw).

Somebody in here touched on it...life experience. It plays a major part and also the ability to articulate yourself. These are the 2 biggest components of charisma. These 2 components gives you the ability to teach. The majority of people are drawn to people who are able to teach...to receive game from. The words that come out of your mouth are magic spells and the more knowledgeable you become and the better you learn to manipulate those words (for good or bad) the more charismatic you can become. (Not trying to brag but once I learned this my rate with women shot up because I literally could manipulate women with my mouthpiece but that's another story. Women love to LEARN from a man).

You don't have to be a larger than life cartoon character like a young Busta Rhymes or DMX to be charismatic....you can be a smart intellectual nerd like Neil Degrasse Tyson, there's different levels to this.

I could keep going and type up a novel on this subject because this is what I do in my real life (put brothas up on game on how to gain confidence) but I'm going to end this here because I'm not really a big fan myself of posts that are too long.

 

[Gloxina]

Let me tell y’all something. If you ain’t got no mothafuking charisma by now, then you not getting none. You dying charismaless. No impact having ass nikkas. If you wasn’t know for making people laugh, smile, and being excited by you precense or energy, then you not about to start now. Most nikkas on here some real fukking nerds. And most people cool. But I actually done interacted with several people off the coli and I’m telling you, only a small percentage not coming off like straight nerds. Swag, drip, charisma….man hell naw. But like I said, folks be cool though

This is actually very, very true.

It’s something that you have or you don’t. You can’t teach charisma/charm.

It’s developed based on your experiences and how they mold you/how you learn to react to and interact with the world.

That’s why it’s special and why we all notice it.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

Draws.

No it doesn't

At least not by itself.

I know this because I've been described as extremely charismatic.

People hang on to my every word and open up to me easily.

But I still get rejected by women who don't consider me their type.

You need to have something of value and charisma is your way of promoting that value. It creates interest.

You know what happens when a woman is interested but realizes you have no tangible value to her?

Disappointment.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

The words that come out of your mouth are magic spells and the more knowledgeable you become and the better you learn to manipulate those words (for good or bad) the more charismatic you can become. (Not trying to brag but once I learned this my rate with women shot up because I literally could manipulate women with my mouthpiece but that's another story. Women love to LEARN from a man).

I don't like vague and abstract shyt like this.

Give of an example of some words you used to manipulate a woman into giving you p*ssy. Tell that story.

Give us some "spells" that you used.

You can even make it up if you want. But we'd like CONCRETE examples.

 

[360dagod]

No it doesn't

At least not by itself.

I know this because I've been described as extremely charismatic.

People hang on to my every word and open up to me easily.

But I still get rejected by women who don't consider me their type.

You need to have something of value and charisma is your way of promoting that value. It creates interest.

You know what happens when a woman is interested but realizes you have no tangible value to her?

Disappointment.

If a women is interested and you failed to seal the deal, YOU went wrong somewhere...

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

If a women is interested and you failed to seal the deal, YOU went wrong somewhere...

By "interest" I mean "attention". Basically, you're no longer invisible to her like 99% of men are.

You're on her radar now and she wants to see what tangible value you have. With good looking men, that value is hard and tangible, so they don't even need to get a woman's attention as often

 

[Stir Fry]

Just a couple pages in, but this seems like a pretty good read so far

The Like Switch by Jack Schafer - PDF Drive

www.pdfdrive.com

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[CBalla]

very few people have that true gift of gab that no matter where they at or what race they dealing with, they can start speaking and everyone gravitates to em

you either born with it or you aint, its levels ( i aint got it it )

ex: joey diaz , corey holcomb , patrice o neal

 

[360dagod]

By "interest" I mean "attention". Basically, you're no longer invisible to her like 99% of men are.

You're on her radar now and she wants to see what tangible value you have. With good looking men, that value is hard and tangible, so they don't even need to get a woman's attention as often

If you on her radar, your at the 50 yard line...

Which means whatever got you to the 50 yard line gets tougher when you get close to the red zone...

That means she will begin to test all the traits that got you her attention in the 1st place...

Whether directly or indirectly using other men

If you give her the vibe that it "rattles" you, it's pretty much a wrap from there..

All I'm saying is if your having an issue in the same spots, you gotta review the and see where it's going wrong at..

 

[LeaveMyHairLineAlone]

But I still get rejected by women who don't consider me their type.

That's bcus you're a slob

 

[RickyDiBiase]

I don't like vague and abstract shyt like this.

Give of an example of some words you used to manipulate a woman into giving you p*ssy. Tell that story.

Give us some "spells" that you used.

You can even make it up if you want. But we'd like CONCRETE examples.

Its bullshyt. Just like you said.

 

[LadyJ2]

IDK I think men with charisma tend to have two things going for them:

1) They talk less than other men on average
2) They are ok with long periods of silence

For women it’s probably the same.