AZBeauty
Stop lyin' nicca.
Seriously you niccas act like a bunch of bytches. Just like in that Scandal thread. All you psychology majors. FOH This thread is stupid as hell.
Whose hair is these black men cutting off?
the majority of black men are bald (at least in america). If they were so damn proud they'd at least grow a one inch fro
OR because they work in a place that says NO ONE can have facial hair. These standards don't just exist for black men in corporate america.
I work in a profession where I'm valued for my WORK and my INTELLECT...not appearance. They need me more than I need them.
So yeah. I've got a beard.
I never said that black males hating their natural hair and putting grease in their hair to hide it is a good thing so cut the crap.
Seriously you niccas act like a bunch of bytches. Just like in that Scandal thread. All you psychology majors. FOH This thread is stupid as hell.
Um, I not even going back and forth with you all. It is just retarded. I say I'm happy with the skin I'm in and you say I'm not. You dont know me or any other lady in this thread to say the things you say. Yall all just gang up and respond and dap each others stupid ass theories.Yeah. They're running out of options so now the "gay" comments gotta come out
First of all
Second of all,
This is why I say men shouldn't get in the hair debate. Y'all have no idea about hair at all because as I said y'all just shave yours off or brush it constantly to look less Black/mixed. Ask a white/asian/latina woman if she can use her straight her and "install" the styles Black women can when they do. Their hair will not hold. They cannot achieve those styles anymore than any other race can "achieve waves". So explain to me how Black men's behavior is somehow not self hate and Black women's is?
White people didnt tell me shyt. Again this isnt the old days, this is 2013.White people told you what "black" people look like. The traits that you attribute to "black" people are the traits that they attributed to black people.
You keep trying to distance what you think are "black" and "mixed" trates, when in reality, they told you what those traits should be in the first place. So by trying to reject what you say is "white women beauty" you are holding black women to standards that are still not their own.
SOME black women do dislike "natural" hair. SOME black men do as well.
But just because a woman wears weave/relaxers it doesn't mean she is a part of that group.
Black women (and men)in general are under oppression, you adding to that oppression with hateful rhetoric does not help the cause.
My daughter has "black" hair just as much as anyone else. She is black.
You have not promoted self acceptance, you have promoted what you deem as attractive. And what you deem as "natural"
"It's to protect my natural hair" when it really damages your real hair
"I like being able to change my hair" no you only change it when it's too stink and ratty
"I'm a strong black woman" but why do you play dress up with European hair?
Bottom line is that weaves are ok, but nobody cared to ask how men feel about it. We dont like it. Please ladies, retire the hair hats in 2014 and stop making these asian beauty supply stores rich. We love you, bald head to afro and everywhere inbetween. If we wanted a woman with European hair, we'd date an authentic European, not an asian beauty supply knockoff european.
But whose hair is it? is it their own hair or not?there cutting it off because they don't want to take care of it or they hate the texture just like the weave wearers
Nice deflection from Afc00nistan.
This thread is about weaves, not about NATURAL hairstyles.
Keep trying.
You all don't make it a point to berate and insult Black men like you do Black women so you cut the crap and stop pretending as if you aren't horribly biased. Or as if this whole natural hair wave on your part has anything to do with making Black women feel good in their own skin as much as it does having something new to pick at our collective self esteem with.
But whose hair is it? is it their own hair or not?
Seriously you niccas act like a bunch of bytches. Just like in that Scandal thread. All you psychology majors. FOH This thread is stupid as hell.