The fact remains, women have no good reason to wear weaves.

[Pursuit & Seduction]

White women wear weaves and Asian women put both relaxers and texturizers in their hair.

In reality the average woman does not look like the western idea of beauty regardless of race. They all make alterations to themselves in order to look like that idea of Beauty.

You gone make me punch you in your face

NO THEY DO NOT WEAR WEAVES!! Did you see how weave is installed into your head? White women hair would break and fall out. That's why they wear FILL INS to FILL out their hair. Even if they do wear weaves, they wear the weaves that matches their hair texture. I don't see them putting Afro patches in their hair.

 

[marcuz]

meach pulled out his banjo and decided to outsimp willstyles and no_bammer_weed

 

[Desirous]

There's no good reason to wear baseball hats or to dye your hair a different colour or to wear it curly vs straight or to rock the latest fashions...but, it's all preference. I don't think it's self hate, personally. I had extensions in my hair a few years back for like 4 months...and my real hair's long af as you can see...I just wanted to try it and see what it would look like. Ended up hating it - my head was always itchy and the hair was so heavy, but now I know for myself it's not for me. If I ended up liking it, I'd do it again *shrug*

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Never knew black men wore conrows, dreads, or fades to "fit" in with society. Or are we talking about fitting in with black society?

Y'all have this silly idea that "black society" in America is somehow different or within a bubble excluded from American society.

It's not, our "culture" is a direct result of what we were taught when we where brought here. All of our ideas of what is attractive came from our experiences here in America. Cornrows, fades, waves are just as much "western" culture as weaves and relaxers are.

Natural hairstyles for black men would be dreads and Afros. That's it

 

[Pursuit & Seduction]

They'll rap from sun rise to sun set about European cars, European clothes, European watches, European women

Logic just being thrown RIGHT out the damn window. Looking like 9/11 in this b!tch.

 

[LA Fisher]

There's no good reason to wear baseball hats or to dye your hair a different colour or to wear it curly vs straight or to rock the latest fashions...but, it's all preference. I don't think it's self hate, personally. I had extensions in my hair a few years back for like 4 months...and my real hair's long af as you can see...I just wanted to try it and see what it would look like. Ended up hating it - my head was always itchy and the hair was so heavy, but now I know for myself it's not for me. If I ended up liking it, I'd do it again *shrug*

Don't cape for the weave wearers since you got exposed for lowkey shytting on black women

 

[Busted_Toes]

Getting a weave has nothing to do with other races.

The average weave/wig/relaxed hairstyle on a black woman is not something that a white woman could do with their hair. No one goes into the store and says "Gimmie the white people looking hair"

If you want to attribute altering hair to meat societal standards to trying to look white, then you have to say the same for the things black men to do their looks as well. We didn't crate the standards, we are following the "white people standards" just like everyone else.

What do black men do to their looks to look white? I'll wait.

The only sistas i see on television with a natural hairstyle is the black samurai woman from The Walking Dead and Inyala Vanzant.

The rest wear weave. I can understand that is a requirent to meet "white people standards", i'm not attacking them for that.

But the rest of the majority of women, even on continents without majority white people and they still wearing weave .

 

[ebonykiss]

leas than 1% of black men are rappers. 80% of yall rock perms and weave. yall arent even trying to make equal comparisons.

80%of ya'll use the same logic, if not most of you would drive cars designed by black men, wear clothes designed by black men, wear watches designed in black men, visit and travel to countries run by black men, aspire to live in neighborhoods/nations control by black men, follow your own standard of beauty ... until then we are in the same boat

 

[MeachTheMonster]

You gone make me punch you in your face

NO THEY DO NOT WEAR WEAVES!! Did you see how weave is installed into your head? White women hair would break and fall out. That's why they wear FILL INS to FILL out their hair. Even if they do wear weaves, they wear the weaves that matches their hair texture. I don't see them putting Afro patches in their hair.

White women wear weaves that are straighter than their hair, and they also wear weaves that are more curly then their hair. They also have a myriad of chemical options in order to get the desired texture. I work with an Indian girl who relaxes her hair just as much as a black woman cause otherwise it is too frizzy and difficult to manage.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Well we all make mistakes. As long as she learned from it Im cool.

Plus wear all the weave you want the real you has to come out eventually. When that happens you will find out if you man truly loves you or not.

Not to mention a relationship based off of fakeness is more likely to fail.

The relationship isn't based off of fakeness. Women just like to be versatile when it comes to our hair, our style, our makeup.

I'm still me at the end of the day but I'm going to enjoy trying different things. My SO will tell me if he loves it or hates it. I'm going to dye my hair a reddish brown in a few days, will that make me fake?

 

[Desirous]

Don't cape for the weave wearers since you got exposed you for lowkey shyttong on black women

I don't do shyt low key. If I wanted to shyt on someone, I would Women like to change their look up - weave, wig, extensions, hair dye, short, long...just date the girl that rocks the look you like and fukk cares about what the others do?

 

[LA Fisher]

Y'all have this silly idea that "black society" in America is somehow different or within a bubble excluded from American society.

It's not, our "culture" is a direct result of what we were taught when we where brought here. All of our ideas of what is attractive came from our experiences here in America. Cornrows, fades, waves are just as much "western" culture as weaves and relaxers are.

Natural hairstyles for black men would be dreads and Afros. That's it

 

[Pursuit & Seduction]

There's no good reason to wear baseball hats or to dye your hair a different colour or to wear it curly vs straight or to rock the latest fashions...but, it's all preference. I don't think it's self hate, personally. I had extensions in my hair a few years back for like 4 months...and my real hair's long af as you can see...I just wanted to try it and see what it would look like. Ended up hating it - my head was always itchy and the hair was so heavy, but now I know for myself it's not for me. If I ended up liking it, I'd do it again *shrug*

As a white woman on a 99% black message board, when weave and self-hate is being discussed in the black community, you felt nervous and pressured to make this post because you didn't want yourself to look like the enemy behind all this....

Am i right... or left ?

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Ive heard many women get indian hair weaves so I dont know what rock you live under.

Straight hair is also something a white woman could do with her hair.

White women get Indian hair weaves as well. It's not about looking like a certain race, it's about looking like the women on TV.

And a lot of white women have to treat their hair in order to get the styles they see on TV as well

 

[Desirous]

As a white woman on a 99% black message board, when weave and self-hate is being discussed in the black community, you felt nervous and pressured to make this post because you didn't want yourself to look like the enemy behind all this....

Am i right... or left ?

What?