luvaznpoon
All Star
No we don't people have excuses from here to fukking there and that shyt is annoying. If you don't like where you are do something about it and try your hardest to stay away from things that will hold up your process. It's like cats need they hand held like a toddler but I bet when it's time to get chicks, party, whatever things you really wanna do nobody need no manuals for that. Even if they do you know what they find out how to get that shyt done that's why it's hard for me to really hear all the bullshyt esp coming from the same type of environment some of the complainers come from. Maybe it was my upbringing but I do feel most people esp with the Internet can find ways to get stuff done that was never in such abundance before and with that the excuses get harder to take seriously.
Well obviously if it were as simple a matter as 'stop making excuses and go get it', then we wouldn't see these social problems - not just in the black community - persist for decades. You're taking a very simplistic approach to a problem which is multi-faceted. You and yours made it, so why can't everyone else, right? With that having been said I'm not against criticism of the culture, but there needs to be more to it than that. It's not enough to just say something is wrong. Don't do it. You've got to break it down and get into the why/how/what are the consequences etc and at the end of it all, put them on to the correct answer/path/mentality. It's great that you yourself have apparently found the key to Black success in this world, but obviously given the state of our community, many have not. And they need help. And I don't see anything wrong with helping them out if you're in a position to do so as opposed to telling them they ain't shyt and leaving it at that. You seem like more of an individualist, something I would be in support of in an ideal world, but this is not an ideal world. And, whether you want to hear/believe it or not, there are a number of cultural, political and economic factors which inhibit our potential for growth as a race in the Western world (and everywhere else, for that matter). http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room...s-white-gets-ton-job-offers.html#.UbtrLmKn6tM Tell me what 'acting right and not making excuses' could do in a situation like this? Until the culture which allows this type of fukkery to continue is either reformed, abandoned or destroyed outright, merely telling people to try harder and do better is only going to get us so far. And it's amazing to me how legitimate complaints about a blatantly racist society are more annoying than the blatantly racist society itself.