I read this thread enough times that I might as well contribute something, but I won't be clarifying anything after the fact, statements speak for themselves.
I've always been a bit of a slacker, but I think it's gotten worse over the past couple of years. I probably should've taken my oncologist's advice to see a psychologist (psychiatrist?) after my treatment was done before he left for another hospital. At least I've been reading books about this stuff lately.
I often think threads like this are a trick. I think going into a profile or selecting "find all posts by user" from the drop down menu is a better way to gain insight on who a poster is (or at least pretends to be). The posts and thread titles say a lot, at least to me.
Many times when I see phourtay posting, I
sometimes and just think I'm staring at an alternate universe version of me had I grown up in a slightly different environment and maybe different parents.