Iโm six year and two kids in. Sh-t is hard. From new born to 5 can make or break a marriage. Everything is about them, the have to dos become overwhelming, and you can lose yourself and each other.
Bring in unresolved childhood issues and that tinder for a fire.
My wife is a pessimist, home body, loves hard, and has a tiny circle. Iโm an optimist, enjoy exploring, loves everybody and can make friends with anybody. I grew up a military brat and was โabandonedโ by my parents. I donโt let anybody in and donโt make emotional connections. My Wife yearns for that deep connection.
We do the marriage therapy and both have therapists as well. Through God we are together. She dwells, has intrusive thoughts and creates whole stories. Sheโs working on that. Iโm working on becoming more emotionally available. I love my Wife and will never cheat nor leave her.
I canโt imagine going through life alone. Itโs too hard but finding the perfect one is difficult as well. You have to be self aware and willing to sacrifice.
Marriage is hard and many people donโt want to do the work. If we donโt make it, I would never do it again.
Women be crazy.

GMB
