“Swirlr” First Interracial Dating Reality Series Is About To Hit YouTube

[GiGi]

It is what it is. A lot of it stem from this competition they have with white men and not because they care about the happiness of black women. Many seem to think that black women are not aware that racism exist. Black women are very aware of racism, but that cannot stop them from healthy romantic relationships.

What is most surprising for me to really and truly see is that many black men use black women as scapegoats and view black women as the obstacles to their true desires. Black women are simply collateral damage regarding racism yet black men are the real (and only) target. Its as if there is a belief that black women are not really affected by racism so our issues are trivial and of little importance.

However, in regards to IRR, black men never seem to have an issue with reconciling their lust for white (or non-black) women with racism, prejudice and injustice. They don't care that Becky's granddaddy lynched Jethro and that her daddy doesn't hire blacks at his construction company but these same black men want to call black women bed wenches for even the slightest attraction to a white man.

 

[filial_piety]

They can entertain it all they want, it won't be reciprocated by WM to most BW.

I've been saying this forever.

Black women have been pushing this for 15 years now, and men of other races have yet to 'push' with them.

Here's a blast from the past...this is nothing new....black women have been pushing this agenda for more than a decade on the internet...check this one out from circa 2001.
http://mindkandysinterracialdebateandrelations.yuku.com/directory#.VANVQsVdWSo

EDIT: Now mind you...this is a majority black female interracial dating site, ran, controlled, populated and owned by primarily black women....they have the same topics, talk the same rhetoric and have the same concerns that they have today, nearly 15 years later....

Interracial Dating is like the Parthenon to these women....lol, they became all philosophical like Plato and Socrates lol

 

[Arishok]

What is most surprising for me to really and truly see is that many black men use black women as scapegoats and view black women as the obstacles to their true desires. Black women are simply collateral damage regarding racism yet black men are the real (and only) target. Its as if there is a belief that black women are not really affected by racism so our issues are trivial and of little importance.

However, in regards to IRR, black men never seem to have an issue with reconciling their lust for white (or non-black) women with racism, prejudice and injustice. They don't care that Becky's granddaddy lynched Jethro and that her daddy doesn't hire blacks at his construction company but these same black men want to call black women bed wenches for even the slightest attraction to a white man.

Welcome to the logic of the Coli, where no one wants a black woman besides black men and black men are the most desired.

 

[Poitier]

Never denied it but a small segment of the population size of 300million people vs black women limiting them selves to half of 30million people. It's all down to numbers.

The size discrepancy being that big with only 3 % WM dating out mostly to Asians does not help your case.

If Black Americans could assimilate and phase themselves out, they would.

 

[GiGi]

So why when you pick white men, they are poorer than black women?

This has never been my experience. All of the white men that I have dated are from upper middle class (or higher) backgrounds. All of the black women that I know who are married to white (and non-black men) are married to high income professionals, etc.. Many of these women have husbands whose income is large enough to allow the women to be stay-at-home moms/wives without changing their quality of lifestyle.

Most of the black women that I know (including myself) who have IRRs are involved with men who are on our level or higher.

 

[Warren Moon]

This has never been my experience. All of the white men that I have dated are from upper middle class (or higher) backgrounds. All of the black women that I know who are married to white (and non-black men) are married to high income professionals, etc.. Many of these women have husbands whose income is large enough to allow the women to be stay-at-home moms/wives without changing their quality of lifestyle.

Most of the black women that I know (including myself) who have IRRs are involved with men who are on our level or higher.

How many couple you know like this?

 

[Poitier]

How many couple you know like this?

She is

 

[Yup]

I've been saying this forever.

Black women have been pushing this for 15 years now, and men of other races have yet to 'push' with them.

Here's a blast from the past...this is nothing new....black women have been pushing this agenda for more than a decade on the internet...check this one out from circa 2001.
http://mindkandysinterracialdebateandrelations.yuku.com/directory#.VANVQsVdWSo

EDIT: Now mind you...this is a majority black female interracial dating site, ran, controlled, populated and owned by primarily black women....they have the same topics, talk the same rhetoric and have the same concerns that they have today, nearly 15 years later....

Interracial Dating is like the Parthenon to these women....lol, they became all philosophical like Plato and Socrates lol

Black women are not pushing for anything. Men like yourself get a sense of superiority out of feeling that nonblack women eat out of your hand when it is far from the truth.
You have not dated black women since 2002 as you claim and are married to a white woman...why do you care about the desirebility of black women from men of other races.
Again, time will tell and trends change.

 

[GiGi]

On another note: why do black men think that trying to shame black women into not being open to non-black men is going to work in the age of information? That may have worked on black women in the 60s, 70s and 80s where a lot of black women didn't realize that other men desire and see the beauty of black women...but it certainly ain't gonna work today.

I know that a lot of white (non-black) guys in the past didn't approach black women in which they had an interest because there was a belief that black women don't date white men (do to the vocal chorus of black women who yell that at the top of their lungs) but that has changed. Black women, in general, are waking up to how stupid that stance is considering that black men weren't/aren't doing the same. So a LOT of white guys are starting to just go for it and I'm glad for my sisters who are waking up to their options.

 

[Yup]

She is

Just cause you say the sky is green...doesn't make it make so.

 

[filial_piety]

Blavk women are not pushing for anything. Men like yourself get a sense of superiority out of feeling that nonblack women eat out of your hand when it

LOL I always enjoy jumping into these conversations because of how deluded some of you are.

Nah, black women are definitely behind it...yall are the mathematical physics behind it all....white, asian, latin, Indian men etc etc...put little to no effort into it.

And men in general feel "superiority" when they can get women eating out of their hands....and in general, the idea that women of other races are doing so for black men is nonsense.

 

[Yup]

On another note: why do black men think that trying to shame black women into not being open to non-black men is going to work in the age of information? That may have worked on black women in the 60s, 70s and 80s where a lot of black women didn't realize that other men desire and see the beauty of black women...but it certainly ain't gonna work today.

I know that a lot of white (non-black) guys in the past didn't approach black women in which they had an interest because there was a belief that black women don't date white men (do to the vocal chorus of black women who yell that at the top of their lungs) but that has changed. Black women, in general, are waking up to how stupid that stance is considering that black men weren't/aren't doing the same. So a LOT of white guys are starting to just go for it and I'm glad for my sisters who are waking up to their options.

The same ones who date white women...who claim not to care about black women dating options are all here talking about what black women can and cannot do. SMH

 

[GiGi]

How many couple you know like this?

I know more than a dozen black women (family members and friends) with non-black husbands. Two of my previous bosses (white) have black wives. I'm from CA.

Numerous black women at my current company (in AZ) have white husbands. My aunt is engaged to a white man (AZ)

 

[Poitier]

the age of information

the age of information says they don't want you

 

[Yup]

LOL I always enjoy jumping into these conversations because of how deluded some of you are.

Nah, black women are definitely behind it...yall are the mathematical physics behind it all....

And men in general feel "superiority" when they can get women eating out of their hands....and in general, the idea that women of other races are doing so for black men is nonsense.

No delusions...these posts speak for themselves. Some black men have delusions of grandeur about their desireability but I'd never say they are unwanted. Attractive is attractive.
I say let's see how it pans out.