Yeah cause everlasting peace, tranquility, love > the shyt life you can afford your child, what a dikk this God.? Those prayers aren't wasted, they just get trumped by God's will. I personally would be sad if my child died but also happy they were going on to a better place. My love for them would make me miss them but also make me accept that they are with God. See how that works out. That's why passing, IMHO, is to be celebrated and why I have in my will "NO WEARING BLACK". ..i'm also looking at having a "stand up" comic show up
. I don't want people sad when I'm gone, celebrate that shyt, be happy.