PhonZhi
Veteran
Actually its the opposite. Atleast for me it was. The thought of randomly approaching a stranger had always terrified me. I could never do it.
One day i said fuk it and cold approached a female for the 1st time in life. I got rejected but it was one of the BEST feelings i had ever experienced. Why? Because i had conquered a fear and also because the actual "rejection" wasn't bad at all. All she did was smile and say "awww, thank u but i have a boyfriend". Thats it!!!! It was a huge obstacle i overcame that day. An obstacle that 90% of this board deals with im sure.
I would tell anyone that getn rejected is all apart of the game. No man on Earth that consistently gets puzzy has never NOT been rejected. You have to build up a tolerance to it.
Ive been rejected many times and ive gotn the puzzy many times. You never know unless u try. Getting "rejected" feels sooo much better than wondering "what if"
don't be mean to matt, he's right 99% of the time.
you forgot to add and non black
Obviously he kept coming back for a reason. 
not because i havent been on positions to get it, though. I measure risk vs reward, and sometimes a nut isnt worth the time or money, whereas i can go spend 20 on kung pao and beer and sit at home and play some video games. Whats most important is when you are happy doing your thing as a dude, if you dont look like a piece of shyt, opportunities come up all the time to talk to women. Opportunities, mind you, that dont require slick talk and wit. shyt just happens.
Only difference is when you have in mind a very particular kind of woman in mind to get with, otherwise you have yo take whatever shows up that day.
no he took me out for my bday and was like "you know this is a date right?"
