STOP TALKING TO WOMEN. Don't say anything to Random women. #HOH

[OfTheCross]

If you or anyone goes out in the world...don't be upset when a human being attempts to interact with you.

I love going out and striking up random conversations.

That's how I know the Coli mentality is not real life

 

[PlainSight]

It's all about learning how to read social cues and non-verbal communication. I'm autistic and I have had lots of trouble in the past on picking up social cues, reading body language and other stuff. The whole point is to check for the ones checking for you. I don't just approach a girl because she looks good. I need more than that. I like a challenge, but that's not the kind of challenge I think is appropriate.

Learning to read people's behavior is like looking at patterns for me. If I see the right patterns, it's a green light. If not, most of the time I keep it moving. Since I adopted this way of doing things, I approach women far less than most normal rates, but when I do approach, it's 100% every time - because majority of the time it's been anticipated (correctly) that my interest is reciprocated. If it's not, I just apologize and keep it humble, regardless of the reaction.

I don't catcall, whistle or any of that shyt - I also don't touch girls I don't know (mainly because I don't always like being touched by people I don't know). I recognize because I've been disturbed on the few occasions I'm not interesting in socializing when I'm going about my business on the street (yeah, even by girls) so I know how annoying it is, but it can also be dangerous for women. Read #YouOkSis on twitter to see what I'm talking about. Not isolated incidents. Having more social awareness is usually the answer. Because it didn't come innate to me, I had to do the research and actually learn to read people (even people watch) to really get it down, so now I can easily mitigate these problems. The next step for me IMO is educating other men how to navigate these things and why a lot of stuff is problematic to women. I expect lots of "" comments along the way but you can lead horses to a trough - doesn't mean they'll drink. They'll continue to be thirsty

 

[KOOL-AID]

There's nothing wrong with approaching a woman even if she doesn't give you "signs" that she's interested, but if she says she isn't interested, just walk away.

How did yo man approach you and why did u give him a chance

 

[Flychologist]

You should never feel bad for trying to to talk to a woman that you're interested in, you're a man doing what nature intended for you to do. You as a man need to read the signs to know if she's being receptive and knowing when to move on. Men in Japan stopped talking to women and that's not working out too well for them.

 

[MercuryHayes]

It's a numbers game

 

[Loose]

Are you nikkas gay? So we not approaching women now

 

[I_Q]

There's always someone that gives the homeless person money though...

 

[thewiz]

fukk type of shyt is this? The easy solution is approach women but don't give a fukk if she says no.. move on to the next joint. Keep a roster and if a joint does or says some shyt you don't like cut her off

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Be afraid to talk to another human being breh

Fukkin weirdos

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

I can't remember the last time a approached a woman cold, with out obvious signs beforehand shyt is ineffective as fukk and now a days you get the thirsty label for merely having eye contact too long lol

 

[Taadow]

I agree with your point, but not your applications.

 

[Ashley Banks]

How did yo man approach you and why did u give him a chance

lol I knew him before he approached me but he just said hi and was like "Do you remember me" then asked me out.

I actually turned him down a few times because my ex knows him.

but I eventually gave him a chance because he's so sweet and cute

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

I'm getting tired of this KENTTV mind-frame about women on the coli. Are yall really out here Cold approaching women in 2015?

lets face facts, The cold approach of talking to women you don't know isn't efficient, and it isn't very effective. Whats worse they are creating laws for you just saying "Hi" to them.


Why do yall continue to harp on this shyt when the solution is very simple. DON'T SAY ANYTHING.


With websites like POF, Social media like Tinder, special interest groups, church, friends, work, gym, there are a ton of these options for people to have a greater success rate at approaching, and yall still want to go with this previous level cold approach shyt


DO YOU WANT TO BE BOTHERED BY RANDOM STRANGERS WHILE YOU ARE OUT AND ABOUT?


Think about it like this, what is your reaction when an able-bodied homeless grown ass man comes up to you with his stories of hardship trying to get some money?


Well when you cold approach, you are that homeless man. NOBODY WANTS TO BE SOLICITED.

you nerdy fukk


this nikka really said lets stop talking to women in real life and get internet bytches


said it ain't working to talk them in real life


ain't working for YOU nikka

 

[PhonZhi]

Yall keep bein scared of getn at these broads. I enjoy it. The first 3 chicks i smashed when i moved here to ATL was from cold approaches. If i see a chick i like and i get that feelin to approach, im approaching. Yall being scared to make moves, gives guys like me more room.

 

[Taadow]

I actually turned him down a few times because my ex knows him.

Yuck.