STOP TALKING TO WOMEN. Don't say anything to Random women. #HOH

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Social women slightly above average get approached about 20-25 times a day, I don't blame them for getting annoyed at nikkas out of their League. :manny:

It's kind of like celebs who get repeatedly asked for autographs or pics.
 

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A smile and a nod is nice, even a tip of the hat, a good morning/evening, how do you do? It makes you seem friendly, attractive, relatable.

Do it because you are happy, not necessarily for a reply, this way you don't get disappointed when things don't go the way you expect.

Look for a positive reaction before replying. If there is none, keep it moving.

A genuine compliment is nice too. Nothing cliche, like "hey beautiful/gorgeous/sexy"
A question is also a good opener.

Lastly, don't take it personal, you're probably not the first person to approach her, or maybe she's having a bad day or not feeling well.
 

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:blessed:Im with the movement. Unless an 8/10 is walking by. Thats the only time to break protocol, cause she is worth the effort if you win. There is no excitement in catching Mary from around the way vs Veronica the vixen. Thats not to say dawg Mary, but she is like beanie babies. At one point she was hot. Now shes not. You can find her at corner stores, in vending machines, etc. you might meet a Mary you like on the bustop.
Veronica? Shes got places to go, and you wont be there. Get it now or forever swim in mediocre.

What if you're tall handsome and fit? Do these rules still apply?
No. Dignity and self respect gets thrown in the bushes for those dudes. They can jokingly call a woman a bytch and she finds that endearing.

it depends. i dont think there's anything wrong with approaching. but i agree that approaching randoms is inefficient like you said. i think if a chick is giving you the greenlight with her eyes/bodylanguage, nothing wrong with approaching. sure she could be playing game or be fronting, but this will be minimal once you find the sweet spot in your game.
:francis:While she sending the greenlight, she could put on her liberated woman pants and open her mouth.
That said, nothing wrong with approaching women, but gauge your thirst. Ask yourself:
If you had sex the night before, would you be approaching this woman now?
If you bought a new car and getting high off that smell from the interior, would you approach this girl?
If you are approaching out of necessity to fill a void:francis:You doing it wrong.
 

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lol I knew him before he approached me but he just said hi and was like "Do you remember me" then asked me out.

I actually turned him down a few times because my ex knows him. :skip:

but I eventually gave him a chance because he's so sweet and cute :o:
Did your ex approached you with

' yo ma let get at you "
 

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Social women slightly above average get approached about 20-25 times a day, I don't blame them for getting annoyed at nikkas out of their League. :manny:

It's kind of like celebs who get repeatedly asked for autographs or pics.
20-25

That number is waay lower


Cat calling is different than approaching
 

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lol I knew him before he approached me but he just said hi and was like "Do you remember me" then asked me out.

I actually turned him down a few times because my ex knows him. :skip:

but I eventually gave him a chance because he's so sweet and cute :o:

So he was persistent in asking you out. :jbhmm:

Isn't that harassment. :jbhmm:

Oh but you gave in and now you're about to marry the shythead. :jbhmm:

#FemaleLogic101 :jbhmm:
 

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:blessed:Im with the movement. Unless an 8/10 is walking by. Thats the only time to break protocol, cause she is worth the effort if you win. There is no excitement in catching Mary from around the way vs Veronica the vixen. Thats not to say dawg Mary, but she is like beanie babies. At one point she was hot. Now shes not. You can find her at corner stores, in vending machines, etc. you might meet a Mary you like on the bustop.
Veronica? Shes got places to go, and you wont be there. Get it now or forever swim in mediocre.


No. Dignity and self respect gets thrown in the bushes for those dudes. They can jokingly call a woman a bytch and she finds that endearing.


:francis:While she sending the greenlight, she could put on her liberated woman pants and open her mouth.
That said, nothing wrong with approaching women, but gauge your thirst. Ask yourself:
If you had sex the night before, would you be approaching this woman now?
If you bought a new car and getting high off that smell from the interior, would you approach this girl?
If you are approaching out of necessity to fill a void:francis:You doing it wrong.
sure they could. but at the end of the day, do what you feel like doing and do it for you. you have no control over what she decides to do so no need to worry about it.
 

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Social women slightly above average get approached about 20-25 times a day, I don't blame them for getting annoyed at nikkas out of their League. :manny:
They get catcalled and harassed 20 times a day (because it takes less confidence to shout disrespectful one-liners than it takes to open a convo) but they don't get genuinely approached often. Most guys don't have it in them.
 

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So he was persistent in asking you out. :jbhmm:

Isn't that harassment. :jbhmm:

Oh but you gave in and now you're about to marry the shythead. :jbhmm:

#FemaleLogic101 :jbhmm:

um I knew him for years before that :what:
 
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