STOP TALKING TO WOMEN. Don't say anything to Random women. #HOH

[Dwolf]

i negged this loser
@Wenzel Dashington and he neg responds that he'll rape my mother..

bytch you'll be too scared to do that too

Its that serious huh

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

I was raised to greet whoever I see with a "hi" and open doors for ladies. I greet them with a ma'am.
They're not used to my accent in this country so it suits me just fine. Y'all some negative nancies.
I feel you, though...Many jawns are angry and don't have the common courtesy to say hello back.
I say: "I SAID HELLO" in an grown tone...and they will say hi back.
#BEMYFRIENDbytch

The hashtag tho.

Might have to start a movement.

 

[VFib]

I was just comin on to edit this into my post in the one thread but I'll put it here instead:

Here's an example of why u wait for the chick to glance at u a few times/peep u before u say something:

Crap. No wonder I don't get approached anymore. I'm horrible when I comes to eye connect. I can spot an attractive man a mile away and way before he sees me. But, if he looks at me I automatically get nervous, even if I want him to approach. I'm all....

and will not look at him. SMH. I need some male friends.I'm around too many women.

 

[Ghanaian Armor]

I think the problem is Black and Latino Men approach females typically while in transit instead of at a stationary location.

And even then a lot of times cold calling is simply uncalled for. However, the problem is American culture is dysfunctional in general.

Basically in other countries you can meet Women at work and school family events etc. Here in America that is considered a No-No to many people. Then you got the Bar and the Club where Women are always on the defensive. So that leaves the streets.

The problem is there is no healthy outlet to meet females where they are receptive, and American Women have lost the art of grace in response to solicitation.

All I can advise on is my methods which have proven very successful. Keep in mind this is somewhat NYC centric:

1) Ignore Women in public (this mostly applies to Big Cities). I have never had any success with following on leads generated in public even when responses were initially favorable they typically flake at some point later in the interaction. For those of you who have, more power to you. I suspect the majority who've had success are a certain demographic (i/e - Thug Ass nikka ) Have had Women call me handsome etc. this and that. Probably just trying to get something out of me and see if I'm a SIMP. If you fail the SIMP test (i.e. - You are not some dumb nikka that will spend all your money on her) then she probably won't be interested. Many Women are looking for a free meal on the spot some get desperate and maybe they have no money in their pocket so they are trying to find some nikka to scam cause they hongry. No, I am not gonna sag my pants or act wild because I was not raised that way and I don't want Women who are into that bullshyt anyway. And if you don't aspire to be a supreme hood nikka and expect to do more with your life, don't listen to any nikka on the Coli that suggests you should change for a bytch.

2) Pre-Screen and Vet them out in social group settings: Do a social background check with mutual friends or acquaintances. If the bytch is still seeing her ex save time and energy by finding that out ahead of time and keep it truckin.

3) Certain locations are Ho-Central: Hoes come in all shapes, sizes, skin colors, varieties (attention ho, chicken-head, smut, serial baby momma, etc) and income levels. If you know nikkas keep getting shot over females on Crenshaw or on Fordham Road maybe you should not check for Women there . I wouldn't waste time on Madison avenue either. Unless you enjoy spending your paycheck on Gucci handbags for ungrateful bytches.

4) Limit the Happy Hour bullshyt to once a month, if that - The majority of Women in Bars and Clubs are there to let loose within the confines of their social group and ignore everyone else. I have never encountered even a good fukk from a bar/club interaction. The majority were lame sloshy females that talked a big game but when it came time to put it down in the bedroom they were a 100 year old cedar log

5) Stick to LOCAL interactions and HOBBY groups (Mon-Weds): A Woman's guard will be lowest in her neighborhood or if she's visiting her friend for a low key event/hangout early in the week. Later in the week she will put on a certain "face" for certain people and the interaction will generally be poor. So regarding #4, if it's a local watering hole you go to for brunch on Sunday that is a different story than hitting up downtown on a Friday night. Level of pretentiousness should be lower. In all honesty you should focus on meeting the chick sober. If she's not attracted to you sober then there's not really a point in even engaging with her period. Also find a Woman with actual interests. None of this netflix, movies, drinking and 420 with friends bullshyt type of females (about 50% of them). Ones who enjoy Art galleries, Yoga and Wine tasting are a slight step up but really see if you can find one that actually is entrepreneurial, plays a contact sport (not talking tomboys) and has at least one "Man interest". One who is trying to broaden her horizons and picks something completely against her nature is best. (i.e. - A chick that does programming for a living but is trying rock climbing)

6) At the end of the day, 9 out of 10 times you should be looking for a Foreign Born Woman via Social Game - There are some things that simply cannot be taught to a grown Woman and personally I don't have the patience to do bytch management on the daily basis. Here are some of the benefits compared to cold approaching American hoes:

- No "Swag" (Sagging While Acting Gay) requirement
- Not so much need for adult antics, constantly be entertained or gossip/drama to keep her attention span
- Usually can cook and will invite you to her apartment so you can see how she is living and continue the screening process
- Not as pretentious about sex yet responsible and will make you use protection but will give it up by the 3rd date (perfect balance)
- Will reject you respectfully early on if there is no vibe, wasting minimal time/effort/money
- Will add value to your life one way or another early in the interaction regardless of the outcome

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

i negged this loser
@Wenzel Dashington and he neg responds that he'll rape my mother..

bytch you'll be too scared to do that too

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I was raised to greet whoever I see with a "hi" and open doors for ladies. I greet them with a ma'am.
They're not used to my accent in this country so it suits me just fine. Y'all some negative nancies.
I feel you, though...Many jawns are angry and don't have the common courtesy to say hello back.
I say: "I SAID HELLO" in an grown tone...and they will say hi back.
#BEMYFRIENDbytch

 

[GoogleMe]

I appoarched this girl at the gym one time and she was like I have a boyfriend, so I ended up following her home for a couple of weeks I didn't see a boyfriend.

Why don't women just say " No." ? There's no need to lie and say you have a boyfriend when you don't.

Here's the reason why they feel the need to lie

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Shout outs to @El Caballero with that weird modified PUA bullshyt....ARTIFICIAL GAME FOR SOCIALLY AWKWARD CREEPS

 

[Arithmetic]

simps and wimps gonna simp and be wimps

I refuse to let my ancestors down. We are descendants of Kings. Kings shall stand tall and go after what they want in life.

 

[TEH]

I think the problem is Black and Latino Men approach females typically while in transit instead of at a stationary location.

And even then a lot of times cold calling is simply uncalled for. However, the problem is American culture is dysfunctional in general.

Basically in other countries you can meet Women at work and school family events etc. Here in America that is considered a No-No to many people. Then you got the Bar and the Club where Women are always on the defensive. So that leaves the streets.

The problem is there is no healthy outlet to meet females where they are receptive, and American Women have lost the art of grace in response to solicitation.

All I can advise on is my methods which have proven very successful. Keep in mind this is somewhat NYC centric:

1) Ignore Women in public (this mostly applies to Big Cities). I have never had any success with following on leads generated in public even when responses were initially favorable they typically flake at some point later in the interaction. For those of you who have, more power to you. I suspect the majority who've had success are a certain demographic (i/e - Thug Ass nikka ) Have had Women call me handsome etc. this and that. Probably just trying to get something out of me and see if I'm a SIMP. If you fail the SIMP test (i.e. - You are not some dumb nikka that will spend all your money on her) then she probably won't be interested. Many Women are looking for a free meal on the spot some get desperate and maybe they have no money in their pocket so they are trying to find some nikka to scam cause they hongry. No, I am not gonna sag my pants or act wild because I was not raised that way and I don't want Women who are into that bullshyt anyway. And if you don't aspire to be a supreme hood nikka and expect to do more with your life, don't listen to any nikka on the Coli that suggests you should change for a bytch.

2) Pre-Screen and Vet them out in social group settings: Do a social background check with mutual friends or acquaintances. If the bytch is still seeing her ex save time and energy by finding that out ahead of time and keep it truckin.

3) Certain locations are Ho-Central: Hoes come in all shapes, sizes, skin colors, varieties (attention ho, chicken-head, smut, serial baby momma, etc) and income levels. If you know nikkas keep getting shot over females on Crenshaw or on Fordham Road maybe you should not check for Women there . I wouldn't waste time on Madison avenue either. Unless you enjoy spending your paycheck on Gucci handbags for ungrateful bytches.

4) Limit the Happy Hour bullshyt to once a month, if that - The majority of Women in Bars and Clubs are there to let loose within the confines of their social group and ignore everyone else. I have never encountered even a good fukk from a bar/club interaction. The majority were lame sloshy females that talked a big game but when it came time to put it down in the bedroom they were a 100 year old cedar log

5) Stick to LOCAL interactions and HOBBY groups (Mon-Weds): A Woman's guard will be lowest in her neighborhood or if she's visiting her friend for a low key event/hangout early in the week. Later in the week she will put on a certain "face" for certain people and the interaction will generally be poor. So regarding #4, if it's a local watering hole you go to for brunch on Sunday that is a different story than hitting up downtown on a Friday night. Level of pretentiousness should be lower. In all honesty you should focus on meeting the chick sober. If she's not attracted to you sober then there's not really a point in even engaging with her period. Also find a Woman with actual interests. None of this netflix, movies, drinking and 420 with friends bullshyt type of females (about 50% of them). Ones who enjoy Art galleries, Yoga and Wine tasting are a slight step up but really see if you can find one that actually is entrepreneurial, plays a contact sport (not talking tomboys) and has at least one "Man interest". One who is trying to broaden her horizons and picks something completely against her nature is best. (i.e. - A chick that does programming for a living but is trying rock climbing)

6) At the end of the day, 9 out of 10 times you should be looking for a Foreign Born Woman via Social Game - There are some things that simply cannot be taught to a grown Woman and personally I don't have the patience to do bytch management on the daily basis. Here are some of the benefits compared to cold approaching American hoes:

- No "Swag" (Sagging While Acting Gay) requirement
- Not so much need for adult antics, constantly be entertained or gossip/drama to keep her attention span
- Usually can cook and will invite you to her apartment so you can see how she is living and continue the screening process
- Not as pretentious about sex yet responsible and will make you use protection but will give it up by the 3rd date (perfect balance)
- Will reject you respectfully early on if there is no vibe, wasting minimal time/effort/money
- Will add value to your life one way or another early in the interaction regardless of the outcome

Sounds like you either met a lot of ratchet American girls or haven't met any and are generalizing.

 

[Kid McNamara]

@El Caballero I'm bringing this over here because the other thread is closed...and I still see you spouting the same nonsense (though, I think your heart is in the right place).

Are you kidding me. The average obese American Woman feels she is worthy of Denzel in all his glory.

So to her, you in fact are on the same level as that nikka you refer to as skiddish in the video. How does that feel my nikka.

Do you still want to approach random American females knowing that the majority are programmed by media to hate and label you instantly based on superficiality?

See, I don't allow other people to qualify what I do. Or at least, I try not to.

I try not to make decisions based on some random quorum made up of the imaginary fears and insecurities of bitter internet Negroes and narcissistic obese women.

I make decisions in concert with myself. I look at my flaws and insecurities, look at what I want in life, then pursue it without regard of what average people think.

How does it feel to allows average and below-average people to control your emotions?

The only way to get an American Woman to talk to you is to completely disregard her, treat her like shyt and most importantly look good. If you aren't her "type" you don't exist.

In line with what I said above. I know how superficial, narcissistic, driven, hardcore I can be.

I know I want to be around attractive, smart, interesting, and fairly well off individuals.

I'm putting in work to make sure I'm that person myself. Not really worried about anything else.

Or as my man says:

 

[b_priest9mm]

Not really attraction is subjective. The problem here imo is that many of us can't read other people well. You can pick up cues to if a female wants you or not. This is not a natural skill for a lot of people but it can be learned through trial and error and there are other aids, books etc. The best thing is that it comes in handy in the career forget using it to get females.

Edit: Also, you're over thinking this. If a girl is feeling you, she will make no bones about letting you know. If not, she prolly wasn't feeling you like that to begin with.

I go for the ones that make it clear that they feeling a nikka. Why waste time with "ambiguity" and all that headache? I'm good.

 

[old_timer]

an old friend of mine from college usedto give each other challenges
(why is my space bar fukkign up??)
one time he chllenged me to pick up a girl without saying a word
so we were in the student uniobowling alley
first approach was.. well, charades don't work very well if only one of you knows you are playing
second approach i walked over to this coed
so i sat down at her wobbly little table and pulled out a notebook

wiseowl

• old_timer
• May 29, 2015

start writing out hello how's it going??
passed the pad to her and she wrote "hi"
then i wrote back somethign
and she wrote back a reply
it wasn't til the third exchange she wrote "can you talk??"
"laryngitis - can't talk for 48 hours"
so she was considering this, started to write something and then said..
"can you hear?" i nod "then why was i writing back to you??"
i didn' thave a good answer forthat
but this girl was trying to "study' in the bowling alley so...
then i asked for her number, she wrote it donw
then said "call me when you can talk"
so i bid her adeiu
my friend was like when i showed the notebook with ehr number
he hadn't expected me to play the laryngitis card
we were some fools back then
i might try that again just for old times sake

 

[Arithmetic]

I'll add though like someone mentioned earlier, possessing the ability to read body language is a great social skill to have. To give you an example, I've been going to this new gas station for the past two months that opened up earlier in summer for the cheap gas they got. They got nothing but 19 - 22 yr old latina chicks working up in there. The eye contact and body language two of them gave me on two separate occasions was impossible not to notice homie. I handled that.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I appoarched this girl at the gym one time and she was like I have a boyfriend, so I ended up following her home for a couple of weeks I didn't see a boyfriend.

Why don't women just say " No." ? There's no need to lie and say you have a boyfriend when you don't.

u don't see anything wrong with this?