STOP TALKING TO WOMEN. Don't say anything to Random women. #HOH

[Elle Driver]

I was raised to greet whoever I see with a "hi" and open doors for ladies. I greet them with a ma'am.
They're not used to my accent in this country so it suits me just fine. Y'all some negative nancies.
I feel you, though...Many jawns are angry and don't have the common courtesy to say hello back.
I say: "I SAID HELLO" in an grown tone...and they will say hi back.
#BEMYFRIENDbytch

I'd laugh if I was initially angry.

 

[The Nigerian]

Homeless people solicit in the street and get bites.
Religious people solicit in the street and get bites.
Fundraising people solicit in the street and get bites.
Entertainers solicit in the street and get bites.

Street solicitation exposes you to law enforcement. That fact alone has me only hitting warm leads, inside.

 

[TRY GOD]

THIS SHOULD BE A MOVEMENT.

 

[FSP]

It works better when you already have hoes

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Homeless people solicit in the street and get bites.
Religious people solicit in the street and get bites.
Fundraising people solicit in the street and get bites.
Entertainers solicit in the street and get bites.

Homeless people get rounded up/arrested/hit with citations
The rest get permits

 

[The Maverick]

I don't approach women without context. If they give me the eyes, positive body language, I'll go over and handle that. But randomly walking up to a girl with no signs, no nothing? Not unless it's Candice Patton. The thing is, if you're good looking and a girl likes you, they will throw out the rulebook.

I get by fine, too. Do what works for you.

 

[Ghanaian Armor]

All the nikkas on that "Greater than you" or that "Positive Vibes" tip

My responses to those perspectives are "Continue to do you" and "This ain't the 90's nikka" respectively

Also I can't stand those Broad Spectrum ass nikkas on the board that only address 50% of the circumstances involved in social interactions and completely disregard the other common occurrences.

 

[Broke Wave]

There's nothing wrong with approaching a woman even if she doesn't give you "signs" that she's interested, but if she says she isn't interested, just walk away.

I just wanna watch you walk away

 

[Still Benefited]

Social women slightly above average get approached about 20-25 times a day, I don't blame them for getting annoyed at nikkas out of their League.

It's kind of like celebs who get repeatedly asked for autographs or pics.

20-25 times a day? I wont say that shyt is impossible,but alotta above average,and bad chicks talk about how guys never approach them....Im sure they getting approached by a couple people in a indirect way,or cats who just had no chance


But I don't think its no damn 20-25 times a day for all fine women,and if it is,20 or more of those is probably in the nightclub if we counting that as part of the day....When I'm out with my ol lady,I see plenty of fine women going unharrassed,while surrounded by nikkas....I be lookin like "",Im tryna live through yall

I will say I don't see it goin down like this in the hood,if you sexy you getting hit on a few times...And if you stroll through a crowd of us you getting hit on 10 times all at once

But not every woman lives in the hood,plus I think alotta young dudes are too cool to face that rejection in front of a crowd of people,or just scared to speak to chicks period as this thread shows

Location and where the women hang out at plays a big part I think.

 

[The_Truth]

I'm getting tired of this KENTTV mind-frame about women on the coli. Are yall really out here Cold approaching women in 2015?

lets face facts, The cold approach of talking to women you don't know isn't efficient, and it isn't very effective. Whats worse they are creating laws for you just saying "Hi" to them.


Why do yall continue to harp on this shyt when the solution is very simple. DON'T SAY ANYTHING.


With websites like POF, Social media like Tinder, special interest groups, church, friends, work, gym, there are a ton of these options for people to have a greater success rate at approaching, and yall still want to go with this previous level cold approach shyt


DO YOU WANT TO BE BOTHERED BY RANDOM STRANGERS WHILE YOU ARE OUT AND ABOUT?


Think about it like this, what is your reaction when an able-bodied homeless grown ass man comes up to you with his stories of hardship trying to get some money?


Well when you cold approach, you are that homeless man. NOBODY WANTS TO BE SOLICITED.

I agree. I hate when I'm going about minding my own business and ni66as try to stop me so they can sell me something. I figured this must be exactly how women feel when thirsty ni66as try to talk to them. I'd hate to be that guy.

 

[Rozay Oro]

No disrespect but a lot of dudes who are scared to approach say this to justify their reservations/fear of rejection.

At the same time I feel you about those laws they're trying to make.

What laws?

 

[Kenny West]

an old friend of mine from college usedto give each other challenges
(why is my space bar fukkign up??)
one time he chllenged me to pick up a girl without saying a word
so we were in the student uniobowling alley
first approach was.. well, charades don't work very well if only one of you knows you are playing
second approach i walked over to this coed
so i sat down at her wobbly little table and pulled out a notebook

wiseowl

• old_timer
• May 29, 2015

start writing out hello how's it going??
passed the pad to her and she wrote "hi"
then i wrote back somethign
and she wrote back a reply
it wasn't til the third exchange she wrote "can you talk??"
"laryngitis - can't talk for 48 hours"
so she was considering this, started to write something and then said..
"can you hear?" i nod "then why was i writing back to you??"
i didn' thave a good answer forthat
but this girl was trying to "study' in the bowling alley so...
then i asked for her number, she wrote it donw
then said "call me when you can talk"
so i bid her adeiu
my friend was like when i showed the notebook with ehr number
he hadn't expected me to play the laryngitis card
we were some fools back then
i might try that again just for old times sake

lol that was brilliant, I love doing shyt like that

did something similar one spring break me and my nikkas played a game where one of them would point a bytch out and you had to go at her no excuses or you gave up a dollar/had to take a shot

nikkas sent me on suicide missions. Ice queens, chicks at work etc. One of them sent my homie after a chick hanging around with 3 brolic Ques. he took that shot. It was fun tho, already have one planned out next time I can have a cool vacay with some of my friends who aint too p*ssy to try it. Some dudes just really too shook. Took me a while myself so I can't hate.

 

[Biscayne]

There's nothing wrong with approaching a woman even if she doesn't give you "signs" that she's interested, but if she says she isn't interested, just walk away.

You'd think it'd be that simple. But naw, the few thirsty, aggressive, simps that are out there have foisted that image upon all Black men.

 

[Tim Dripcan]

It's a numbers game

this. if you approach 50+ girls in day surely there would be one or two or maybe more girls willing to give you a shot. if all 50 girls reject you just try again.

it's all in the numbers. If you know how to read body language quickly you'll succeed most of the time.

 

[Tim Dripcan]

simps and wimps gonna simp and be wimps

I refuse to let my ancestors down. We are descendants of Kings. Kings shall stand tall and go after what they want in life.

true, true, true. sometimes most of us don't have the right guidance or confidence to approach a women. but you're right though.