STOP TALKING TO WOMEN. Don't say anything to Random women. #HOH

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I'll add though like someone mentioned earlier, possessing the ability to read body language is a great social skill to have. To give you an example, I've been going to this new gas station for the past two months that opened up earlier in summer for the cheap gas they got. They got nothing but 19 - 22 yr old latina chicks working up in there. The eye contact and body language two of them gave me on two separate occasions was impossible not to notice homie. I handled that.

thank you for dapping my corny story.. :mjlol:
and i agre ewith your post 100%..
but the point is this:
NOT EVERY GUY GETS SIGNALS OR LOOKS
not a matter of "missing" them,, they are rarely if ever sent in his/their direction
sometimes when a guy gets nothign coming his way
he gets to aggressive trying to force a play that isn't there
i think that's the origin of 90%+ of this 'harassment" stuff
just some guys getting desperate and hoping she'll give it a shot
when she already decided she wasn't feeling him (no signal sent)
so of course she feels "harassed" quicker
because in her mind she's already said her first "no" by not giving him a silentsignal
 

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A question is also a good opener.

:ehh:
Yall really need to keep this in mind.
Once opened with a chick by asking if her wig was synthetic or human.
Granted it was her hair and I knew it, but it gave her a window of opportunity to be offended and made her want to talk.
It worked.

:leon:
 

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simps and wimps gonna simp and be wimps :ufdup:

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Didn't even read any of these pages but OP is an absolute sucker. :smugdraper:Shoot your goddamn shot, if you see somebody throughout your day that you truly believe you'd like to get to know, you owe it to yourself to at least attempt to make some connection.

If you really feel like the equivalent of a homeless person panhandling whenever you try to cold call a girl, then that has way more to do with your approach than anything else:russ:


If you're truly a thorough dude and you're respectful, then girls won't feel infringed upon if you try to talk to them. If you approach them like a fuccboi jus trying to get their number so you can text them for 3 weeks then hopefully fukk? Then they'll probably see thru that and shut you down, which you deserve anyways for being a lame.

And despite all this, there will still be girls who act brand new and won't give you the time of day on some 'all guys are the same shyt'. And if they do? That's fine, let them. That's part of the concept of shoot your shot, some shots miss. And a girl who would react that way is probably not the nicest and therefore prolly not someone you were meant to be around anyways. If you let that type shyt ruffle your game up and don't shoot anymore, then maybe you're built to be more like Jordan Farmar and less like Kobe Bryant:yeshrug:

That's my piece. OP is whack if he's suggesting that we all move to technology so dude's can just send creepy OKCupid messages, instead of communicating and taking rejection in real life.
 

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It's been stated already but I just have to chime in....most females don't know anything about catcalling/youoksis laws and movements and wouldn't give a damn if they did know about them. Females in general love attention. But if she isn't feeling you, it's not like you'll be dragged in front of a firing squad.

lol real talk I use that comparison for damn near anything I have to do in life that demands courage....if the worst somebody can do is much less than knocking me off I feel like it's worth a shot. Worse anybody can do is say no 95% of the time. :yeshrug: If you aren't a walking emotional wreck that shouldn't even bother you.

I wasn't crazy about online dating when it first jumped on the scene and not crazy now.:francis: But to each his or her own.
 
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