Stop being the boring guy

[Mike Nasty]

Rolling out the red carpet for a women that guarantees you nothing in return...not so much.

That's not what he's saying (even though the video looks that way). He's saying you should have something going on in life other than sitting on a couch. I'm surprised such a common sense statement gets so much push back.

 

[DatBoiHawk]

I just don’t understand why these nikkas get together then walk around with no shirt on and some tight ass shorts. Mad Vibes

 

[ColdSlither]

You said the bolded but then proceeded with the rest. Which one?

It's not about chasing, it's about the fact that it's unrealistic to expect an adult male to mentally prepared to go years without a release with a woman. Now you're going to say that "if a man does these things, p*ssy should be automatic". But in the dating/sexual market of 2023, it is not.

At some point 99.9999% of men will yield to the macrolevel expectations in some capacity unless they commit to soft/hardcore P4P.

Both can be the same.

 

[Kenny West]

That's not what he's saying (even though the video looks that way). He's saying you should have something going on in life other than sitting on a couch. I'm surprised such a common sense statement gets so much push back.

Because "boring" is subjective and women do not find the majority of men nor what they do attractive. If your life is going to magic the gathering tournaments, cosplay conventions and book clubs every week you'd have a life but would still be "boring guy". Especially since most chick's definition of exciting is a criminal, an abuser or someone spending copious amounts to entertain her.

Its funny tho, almost all of the nikkas i knew who moving some kinda weight had a babymom that was inside the crib 24/7 when she wasnt at work. nikkas be in the crib all day playing PlayStation while waiting for customers yet I never hear girls complaining that they're too boring etc. I rarely hear complaints at all

 

[Shadow King]

Both can be the same.

No, it cannot.

 

[Shadow King]

Because "boring" is subjective and women do not find the majority of men nor what they do attractive. If your life is going to magic the gathering tournaments, cosplay conventions and book clubs every week you'd have a life but would still be "boring guy". Especially since most chick's definition of exciting is a criminal, an abuser or someone spending copious amounts to entertain her.

Its funny tho, almost all of the nikkas i knew who moving some kinda weight had a babymom that was inside the crib 24/7 when she wasnt at work. nikkas be in the crib all day playing PlayStation while waiting for customers yet I never hear girls complaining that they're too boring etc. I rarely hear complaints at all

Only conventional/female friendly hobbies allowed as a drama free dude.

 

[Child_Of_God]

live your life for you, if a woman wants to come along with what you're already doing then so be it. but there is NO GUARANTEES TO GETTING p*ssy outside of straight up prostitution. We have to stop selling men on the idea that there is a guaranteed formula because once a dude complete the formula and still not getting the women he wants he's going to snap. You're not entitled to p*ssy just because you check off some boxes.

Y’all want to say this but then next minute clown dudes who can’t get any girls and don’t have a active sex life.

I feel like this whole red pill/mgtow movement is partly due to the expectations and pressure society has set on men in regards to success with women. If there wasn’t a stigma towards single and romantically unsuccessful men then nobody would feel the need to do a bunch of extra shyt to get women.

 

[ColdSlither]

No, it cannot.

Why?

 

[8WON6]

Y’all want to say this but then next minute clown dudes who can’t get any girls and don’t have a active sex life.

I feel like this whole red pill/mgtow movement is partly due to the expectations and pressure society has set on men in regards to success with women. If there wasn’t a stigma towards single and romantically unsuccessful men then nobody would feel the need to do a bunch of extra shyt to get women.

I don't clown those dudes. That's largely coming from the pandering to women side of the game. That side makes zero sense, same dudes that shame dudes for not getting p*ssy, will also shame dudes for passport bro-ing any other marginal dating strategy.

And men weren't chasing women because of a being single stigma, men want p*ssy. They were chasing p*ssy. So those men have tried every formula there is searching for a guaranteed method and there isn't one. Eventually they land on a redpill/mgtow channel that finally explains this shyt to them. Those guys have tried all this goofy "be exciting and be woman-friendly and pander" methodology and they still don't get results, because there is no guarantee. A woman will gladly let some simp fly her out to Fiji to ride jet-skis and not let him smash, then soon as they get back home she's smashing some dude that looks like Pete Davidson in a McDonalds parking lot. Aint no logic, it's all based on some woman's feelings.

The shadiest part is people like to keep dudes in the dark about that information. As you can see in this thread, nikkas get shamed for "giving up" aka they stop simping and go live their own lives and stop chasing some woman's validation.

 

[Thelonious Napz]

How about you just be yourself?? lol

 

[Shadow King]

Why?

Your list does not fit the bill of a person making "down time" for themselves. You claimed they don't have to do something every week, but your ensuing paragraph painted the picture of a man who is in fact going on some "adventure" weekly.

 

[dh86]

There’s a millennial female saying of “don’t introduce me to a vibe you can’t maintain”. You get at her on some hot boy shyt, you’re going to have to keep that bullshyt up and advance with time. That just sounds tiring to me.

 

[Mike Nasty]

How about you just be yourself?? lol

I know a 40yo virgin who's a diehard "I'm going to be me" guy.

....but just like this thread he'll say some off remark that there's more to life than sex, to which I think you're painfully boring on a personal level too.

 

[dh86]

Because "boring" is subjective and women do not find the majority of men nor what they do attractive. If your life is going to magic the gathering tournaments, cosplay conventions and book clubs every week you'd have a life but would still be "boring guy". Especially since most chick's definition of exciting is a criminal, an abuser or someone spending copious amounts to entertain her.

Its funny tho, almost all of the nikkas i knew who moving some kinda weight had a babymom that was inside the crib 24/7 when she wasnt at work. nikkas be in the crib all day playing PlayStation while waiting for customers yet I never hear girls complaining that they're too boring etc. I rarely hear complaints at all

Every drug dealer I know posts all day about ESPN topics, PlayStation and betting on Fanduel

 

[ColdSlither]

Your list does not fit the bill of a person making "down time" for themselves. You claimed they don't have to do something every week, but your ensuing paragraph painted the picture of a man who is in fact going on some "adventure" weekly.

That's because that's what your mind is set on.