Stop being the boring guy

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

That man gets his eyebrows done.

 

[Fani Willis fan]

Women take the quirky guy before the boring guy, but don't mistake boring for being "stoic".

 

[ExodusNirvana]

You said the bolded but then proceeded with the rest. Which one?

It's not about chasing, it's about the fact that it's unrealistic to expect an adult male to mentally prepared to go years without a release with a woman. Now you're going to say that "if a man does these things, p*ssy should be automatic". But in the dating/sexual market of 2023, it is not.

At some point 99.9999% of men will yield to the macrolevel expectations in some capacity unless they commit to soft/hardcore P4P.

Nah I wouldn't say that. That kind of thinking is gonna set a breh up for failure TBH because you can check all the boxes and still get passed over.

Such is life in our fukked up modern world.

However, I do want more brehs to focus on themselves because it seems that some...SOME...base their existence on validation from the opposite sex and that's no way for a man to live.

 

[Shadow King]

Nah I wouldn't say that. That kind of thinking is gonna set a breh up for failure TBH because you can check all the boxes and still get passed over.

Such is life in our fukked up modern world.

However, I do want more brehs to focus on themselves because it seems that some...SOME...base their existence on validation from the opposite sex and that's no way for a man to live.

That's human nature though and really many things Mama/Daddy/mentors might say is "for yourself" isn't completely for you.

More brehs may focus on themselves but when it's Year 2 of not being touched due to not playing the game and refusing to get it through asterisks the cycle repeats.

 

[King]

I mistakenly read the title as “don’t be the boring gay”. I thought to myself, “yeah, those are the worst gays…he’s right”
I reread, and here we are

 

[King]

Doing interesting shyt will not attract women to you, only after the fact once you’ve already met them

 

[EffYou]

That man gets his eyebrows done.

Lol he competing with y’all

 

[EffYou]

Doing interesting shyt will not attract women to you, only after the fact once you’ve already met them

 

[NoirDynosaur]

I don't think much of anything of n these people or those kinds of dating guru advice, which tend to regard women as monolithic, which is not true at all

I'm down to spend three days in Miami, eat at the Gucci bistro in Beverly Hills, or fly to NY just to eat at a place I have reservations for. I probably do more of that than most people I know, regardless of gender, and adjusted for socioeconomics standards. And, yes that can be a selling point, but if it's genuine, as in I am going to to do this stuff anyway, I'm just extending an invite, it makes a lot more authentic than some kind of charade to attract women.

The other counter is I put in effort to do those things. You have to get the reservations, show up on time, dress for the occasion, I really did fly to NYC for a week to go to 11 Madison. Was like 5k at least! And I ended up going with someone who was already in NY, because no one I asked, could really step up.

A lot of people aren't willing/or able to make that effort, especially, and this is great insight I had to learn, for someone they aren't in a "real relationship" with. Because to them, THAT'S what matters. I would think, well, what are you dong tonight that's better than what I am inviting you to? And that is sometimes the wrong equation.

You're very similar to me. Spontaneous trips be fun cause you're fulfilling yourself. Doing what you always planned. I got a whole bucket list of recreational activities. I'm talking about "bungee jumping" "snowboarding at ski resorts" "taking photographs of avant-garde" there's many more it's just a few I'm listing.

I tried inviting people to hang out before, they either make excuses don't respond or lack the $$$ to come along the trip. Those who come along we end up having a memorable time. Last summer, me and my bro climbed a mountain somewhere in New York. I won't front, my heart was racing faster than a mouse in a pit full of snakes I used to be afraid of heights when I was younger, but I'm also a daredevil. Crazy how it is


I agree if people aren't making the effort. It's better going solo.

I got some activities planned up with shawties I talked online. We'll probably meet up when this winter smitter goes away. Lord knows I can't stand the cold. Burrrrr haha

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

Stop peddling this bullshyt

This.

It's such a bullshyt narrative.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Bump

 

[maxamusa]

Every drug dealer I know posts all day about ESPN topics, PlayStation and betting on Fanduel

and the p*ssy come right to the front door n STILL get paid

breh in the main video wild zesty

 

[Tookalossfellbackcameback]

Bro got himself some big, white ass veneers and gets his eyebrows done.



Superficial, conceited niccas giving advice is what has a lot of these niccas lost out here today.

 

[SmarkMero]

 

[Kingofthereal]

Glad this ain’t my struggle, these bytches just wanna be in presence and they happy.