Stop being the boring guy

NatiboyB

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Brehs clown passport bros but you are supposed to spend hundreds of hours doing activities to get a woman who will clown you for going 50/50

Meaning she only likes what you provide

This is why I never understood the hate the passport dudes seem to get online. 1. People have always done it but 2. Let’s be honest they are cashing out here or there but they believe they are getting better value.

Like how am I mad about someone exploring their options?
 

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They never learn....nikkas taking hos on ATV rides.....top golf and dates every weekend just to smash....but mad a nikka eating lobster on the beach....smashing a black girl that speak Spanish for pesos


What's wrong with just taking a woman out and just having a good time? Why does everything revolve around getting p*ssy?
 

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He's not wrong. You can't do stuff every week. You need down time. You can also still do simple shyt. Go to a comedy club. Find a cool bar you can be a regular at on Fridays or Saturdays. Take short weekend road trip. Go to a museum. Find some cool pop up shops. Say to her that over the next year the two of you are going to eat at all the establishments, along the stretch of highway the two of you always ride down. Make a game out of it. Even if you're a homebody, and your girl is a homebody, if you do this basic shyt she will fukking love you for taking her on at least some sort of adventure.
 

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Look

Just like many sisters many brothers live in this fantasy world as well

Turn to YouTube and watch and u see brothers crying about “ sisters don’t like me because I’m quiet , low key, not into clubs, partying, etc like Tyrone or Willy and I work 9 to 5”

Those the same dudes who want the IG looking chick with a bbl and redbone, when the same dude probably turned away the regular nerdy sister who’s just average looking but is just as quiet as them

Motherfukkers just need to stay in their lane
Men don’t reject attractive women period stop this foolish narative

I’ve never seen an attractive nerd be rejected by nerdy men NEVER
 

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What's wrong with just taking a woman out and just having a good time? Why does everything revolve around getting p*ssy?

Because hanging out with women IN THE CONTEXT of this thread is a means to the end.

I think any normal functioning adult can enjoy someone company....but let's not act like it's healthy to be hanging out with women you attracted to and not be trying to sleep with them.
 

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I guess there will always be men who believe that impressing a woman is the key to winning her heart.

In reality, there is no man who will impress every woman he encounters no matter what personality trait may possess.

So, I maintain that a man should always be himself. To some women, a man may be boring, but there are other women will who will think that that same man is cool, fun to be around, etc.

Lastly, why isn't it discussed that women can also be boring? A woman has to bring something to the table besides what is underneath her draws.

People just need to be who they are. If a person come across someone else who isn't vibing with him/her, then chalk it up as an experience to learn from, leave that person alone and move on with his/her life.

Boringness is in the eye of the beholder. *shrugs*
 
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I guess there will always be men who believe that impressing a woman is the key to winning her heart.

In reality, there is no man who will impress every woman he encounters no matter what personality trait may possess.

So, I maintain that a man should always be himself. To some women, a man may be boring, but there are other women will who will think that that same man is cool, fun to be around, etc.

Lastly, why isn't it discussed that women can also be boring? A woman has to bring something to the table besides what is underneath her draws.

People just need to be who they are. If a person come across someone else who isn't vining with him/her, then chalk it up as an experience to learn from, leave that person alone and move on with his/her life.

Boringness is in the eye of the beholder. *shrugs*
You can be yourself and adapt. Make yourself more presentable. You might actually like the more outgoing changes. Ever think about that?

Everything shouldn't be through a 'war with women' lens fellas. There are levels to all this. It's not black or white. And improving yourself isn't a bad thing. Or make you less of yourself. That's probably one of the most negative things I have ever heard. No lie.
 

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I guess there will always be men who believe that impressing a woman is the key to winning her heart.

In reality, there is no man who will impress every woman he encounters no matter what personality trait may possess.

So, I maintain that a man should always be himself. To some women, a man may be boring, but there are other women will who will think that that same man is cool, fun to be around, etc.

Lastly, why isn't it discussed that women can also be boring? A woman has to bring something to the table besides what is underneath her draws.

People just need to be who they are. If a person come across someone else who isn't vining with him/her, then chalk it up as an experience to learn from, leave that person alone and move on with his/her life.

Boringness is in the eye of the beholder. *shrugs*
"An attractive woman without a personality is like a Ferrari without an engine. However, it still feels good to be inside one"

A lot of "attractive" women with no hobbies do have dry personalities. Women like this live vicariously through other men cause they don't have much going on with their life.

I understand as a man its our job to introduce women to our world and give her experiences. At the same time, a woman who doesn't put in the work is a lazy employee.
 
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