Stephen Jackson “why do we see black NFL draftees with white girls, no white boys with black girls?”

[Unknown Poster]

These white womens see Black NFL players as walking licks and dollar signs. Meanwhile the Black NFL players see them as a come up and a status symbol. Which makes a Russell Wilson that much more impressive. This nikka went to the big leagues and left his white woman for a black woman! That does not happen regularly!

And we all know these NFL white boys stick with their their own kind. That's no big revelation. They more than likely coming from small to mid sized places in middle America where Black folks are just as commonly seen there as traffic lights and paved roads.

 

[Ya?]

These white womens see Black NFL players as walking licks and dollar signs.

And we all know these NFL white boys stick with their their own kind. That's no big revelation. They more than likely coming from small to mid sized places in middle America where Black folks are just as commonly seen there as traffic lights and paved roads.

White girls also come from these environments. So it’s not that...women are validated by men.
White women are the epitome of womanhood as far as western society is concerned.
It makes sense that there are more white girls with black athletes than the reverse and add to the fact that the average black girl doesn’t chase white guys.

 

[The Solid One]

Which makes a Russell Wilson that much more impressive. This nikka went to the big leagues and left his white woman for a black woman! That does not happen regularly!

 

[Unknown Poster]

White girls also come from these environments. So it’s not that...women are validated by men.
White women are the epitome of womanhood as far as western society is concerned.
It makes sense that there are more white girls with black athletes than the reverse and add to the fact that the average black girl doesn’t chase white guys.

good points.

 

[Will Ross]

White girls also come from these environments. So it’s not that...women are validated by men.
White women are the epitome of womanhood as far as western society is concerned.
It makes sense that there are more white girls with black athletes than the reverse and add to the fact that the average black girl doesn’t chase white guys.

bullshyt you guys chase the fukk outta white Boys that say they like you.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Real change starts with the kids now. Adults are to


good post. Your first sentence I definitely agree. You can only have this conversation with certain people. A lot of folks and especially many women can’t admit when they are wrong or even admit that there might be a better way of doing something. Folks listen to respond instead of actually getting your perspective. This is the clap back era where you post smug retorts, memes, and reply with “ I said what I said” instead of trying to actually understand and come to a solution.

I was talking to a good female friend of mine who’s happily married and we discussed colorism. She admitted some things that women do to contribute to it and also some things that men do. But she didn’t blame black men for everything and I didn’t blame black women. It was a good conversation and productive. I also think because she’s in a good place in her life she wasn’t lashing out or or miserable. It was cool just two adults discussing a emotional topic yet it was civil and we both learned. Yet on the internet it’s just a damn finger pointing contest.

I got a story that is completely fault ...shiid give me an 1 HR

 

[philmonroe]

Real change starts with the kids now. Adults are to


good post. Your first sentence I definitely agree. You can only have this conversation with certain people. A lot of folks and especially many women can’t admit when they are wrong or even admit that there might be a better way of doing something. Folks listen to respond instead of actually getting your perspective. This is the clap back era where you post smug retorts, memes, and reply with “ I said what I said” instead of trying to actually understand and come to a solution.

I was talking to a good female friend of mine who’s happily married and we discussed colorism. She admitted some things that women do to contribute to it and also some things that men do. But she didn’t blame black men for everything and I didn’t blame black women. It was a good conversation and productive. I also think because she’s in a good place in her life she wasn’t lashing out or or miserable. It was cool just two adults discussing a emotional topic yet it was civil and we both learned. Yet on the internet it’s just a damn finger pointing contest.

Colorism doesn't exist in dating so how can you have a real convo about something that don't exist? I'm curious. Are people not allowed to date who they want to date and I know you might say then don't say nothing negative and I can agree but why is it only that way towards dark skin people? I'm pretty sure you'll say history but that doesn't really work for me when most of us aren't even around white people for,that logic to even fly. Colorism for me is just a way for unattractive chicks to complain without getting clowned like their male equivalents that don't have a way to get the same sympathy. I also don't believe in colorism because you can't strong arm nobody to date your ass anyway and if we keep it funky nikkas can babble on all day and all night but colorism is just dating shyt when its mentioned every time its discussed. Someone will throw in colorism in regards to some jail topic but damn near every time its mentioned its about what some "c00n" said about a DS girl. That's why I can't rock with this shyt even existing because if you don't get choose tough luck.

 

[Taadow]

The "predominantly white schools" argument is an excuse.

Many of these major universities are in cities/towns with a sizable black population.

Tuscaloosa(Alabama): 42.73% Black
Baton Rouge(LSU): 54.54% Black
Athens(Georgia): 27.54%
Gainesville(Florida): 23% Black
Tallahassee(FSU): 35% Black
Columbia(South Carolina): 42.20% Black
Atlanta(Georgia Tech): 54% Black
Durham(Duke): 41% Black
Raleigh(NC State): 30% Black
Nashville(Vanderbilt): 28.6 Black
Oxford(Ole Miss): 22.2% Black
Starkville(Mississippi State): 34.06% Black
Louisville(Louisville): 22% Black
South Bend(Norte Dame): 26.6% Black
Syracuse(Syracuse): 29.5% Black
Winston-Salem(Wake Forest): 35% Black
Pittsburgh(Pittsburgh): 26.1% Black
Columbus(Ohio State): 28% Black
Waco(Baylor): 21% Black


They could find a black female if they wanted one.

1. Some of these schools don’t belong in this conversation
2. 30% is not a lot of anything, so calling it “sizable” Is a reach
3. You’re assuming Black athletes have good relations with other Black students
4. You’re putting the onus on “finding” mates on athletes here, and that’s mostly the “problem”
with this issue

 

[Premeditated]

They do what they want. I went to a PWI, was surrounded by white folks, but only dated black women. I wanted a black wife. A lot of these cats in general ain't trying to find a wife so they're just dating whoever they find attractive of any race, then they end up with kids with one of them. My guess is if given the choice a lot of these cats would've maybe preferred a black wife to a white one but got caught up. Plenty don't care either way though

right, most black male ivy league grads marry black

 

[Spectre]

Damn these posts keep getting longer each page

Whole essays and mini dissertations

People are really in their feels bout this

 

[Alvin]

2019-20 Track and Field Roster - University of South Dakota Athletics

Usually at most PWI you'll find the most blacks on sports teams. With that being said there are only so many black women who even play sports compared to the abundance of white women you will find.

 

[Alvin]

I hate saying it but this is what I’ve been told to. Someone once told me too that in some cases Brehs ain’t trying to deal with that race shyt when they get home, they want a woman that doesn’t remind them of their blackness. Whites people have a way of making you feel completely accepted—they have it down pat. Have you thinking they not even racist and just like you for you. I say this because again I know how they operate. In some of these cases the dynamics of ww feminity(how submissive she is in the beginning to get the bag secured, how tolerant and accepting she appears for those Brehs who felt they didn’t have enough swag, and how much she tolerates) and how he’s treated in public(much better suddenly for being with her) the connections she has, how other whites see him now, all of it opens his eyes. Now this is what I’ve been told... and I do think this may be a factor in why some of these Brehs continue to pawg. I also do believe some want biracial children for similar reasons.

On the flip I know bw with wm who say similar shyt. One of my girls admitted that with wm was the first time she felt like she could be submissive as a woman. She said that with bm she was always having to help them so much, but with wm they just took care of shyt, she didn’t have to worry. The wm accepted her wearing weave lol, he understood protective styling and didn’t think it was a big deal. He was laid back and easy to get along with. And when they were out in public she got treated better. It made her feel like a woman. He also made good money. And again biracial children.

these kinds of experiences can make those impressionable Brehs and brehettes that weren’t raised to love and appreciate their blackness, turn white and never come back.

damn, that's sad and kinda pathetic, but like #BlackAF said, you can blame slavery, jim crow, and segregation on all that.

 

[Alvin]

exactly. Philly opened my mind up to so much Brehs. I dated two Brehs that had a long history of pawging which I’ve talked about before on here. I was friends with ww and Latina women who were with bm. I learned a lot and what I learned is basically what you said.

Some Brehs like the ease that comes with dating ww. They believe it’s easier because they think ww tolerate more(and to some extent it’s true but on the other hand plenty of bw put up with bullshyt too)
And some Brehs just like how ww look. Now don’t get me wrong these Brehs still may have an attraction to bw-the two Brehs I dated did, BUT it was only a certain type of bw. She had to be pretty and white acting, where as the ww they dated were average looking.

so question to that, were you white acting to them lol?

 

[AAKing23]

Well the white girls be choosing up hard, while the black girls wanna play hard to get

There's the other side of the game. Of the handful of white women that do like black men they tend to be relatively aggressive. A lot of times they are very aggressive. On the other side of the coin a lot of black males are kind of laid back. This makes for a deadly combination.

This is super facts and doesn't get talked about enough, white women are sharks when it comes to going after men and with these laid back black male athletes it's like they smell blood in the water

Black women ain't gonna be chasing a nikka like that

 

[CarmelBarbie]

so question to that, were you white acting to them lol?

Yep, they said it really no different than dating a white girl. Funny thing is the relationships with the pawgers we’re smoother than my relationships with Brehs that lived in predominantly black areas. I used to get roasted all the time by one of my bf’s fam when I was still living Chicago. “You sound like a honkey negro” “why you talk so white” “you built like a black girl but you don’t act like one” or they try talk in valley girl accent to copy what they said I sound like. It was funny to me, never bothered me. The Brehs I dated that always pawged had no issue with how I acted.

I think the biggest difference for them was the physical differences between me and the white girls they dated. When I was in philly I had a really huge ass smh, crazy thinking about it now, but I didn’t really work out back then. The Brehs I dated were used to girls that were thin with big boobs.

There’s literally a bw for every type of bm. I’ve seen it all across the spectrum.