Stephen Jackson “why do we see black NFL draftees with white girls, no white boys with black girls?”

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Yep, they said it really no different than dating a white girl. Funny thing is the relationships with the pawgers we’re smoother than my relationships with Brehs that lived in predominantly black areas. I used to get roasted all the time by one of my bf’s fam when I was still living Chicago. “You sound like a honkey negro” “why you talk so white” “you built like a black girl but you don’t act like one” or they try talk in valley girl accent to copy what they said I sound like. It was funny to me, never bothered me. The Brehs I dated that always pawged had no issue with how I acted.

I think the biggest difference for them was the physical differences between me and the white girls they dated. When I was in philly I had a really huge ass smh, crazy thinking about it now, but I didn’t really work out back then. The Brehs I dated were used to girls that were thin with big boobs.

There’s literally a bw for every type of bm. I’ve seen it all across the spectrum.
Even I don't think these types of relationships last. The two guys I know that both married pawg's are on their 2nd marriage to one. I don't know what they expect to be different the 2nd time around.
 

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I agree, but why be curious or question someone in the first place if it's none of your business?
Because it’s human nature. People will question anything outside of the status quo. And given the historical precedence between blks and what whites have done to blks in this country, who WOULDNT question the “Muslim sleeping with the djinn”.

The questions aren’t the issue, but if ur knee jerk reaction is a bunch of white supremacist talking points about ur own race in answering the questions you lost.
 

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Because it’s human nature. People will question anything outside of the status quo. And given the historical precedence between blks and what whites have done to blks in this country, who WOULDNT question the “Muslim sleeping with the djinn”.

The questions aren’t the issue, but if ur knee jerk reaction is a bunch of white supremacist talking points about ur own race in answering the questions you lost.

The issue with your argument is you seem to want to ignore that people have personal experiences and the fact we have generational Experiences.
 

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It's the excuses that cause a lot of the criticism...

First they blamed black women for why they date out. Then it morphed into "Preference" combined with a lot of insulting language. Now it's a combo of the previous two, but add "accessibility" and "it's white people's fault" and "white women know how to get what they want."


bolded for emphasis to what i said earlier in this thread.

I think black people male or female look over the bolded and the fact. White women are the most liberated in the world sexually.
in that, they do not readily have to endure critique.
in such as harsh a manner.
for doing what anyone else in the world is ferally in general publically scrutinized for.

meaning as a black man,...i know they have demonatrative terms in plural.
for if i am misconceived in making a move to talk, introduce and declare myself available in a physical romantic hetersexual based and rooted mating feral manner.

yet there is no demonstrative term to describe a white woman.
declaring HERSELF available in a physical non-committal mate based or feral manner.

so in that pervasive colonizer slash prejudice setup is how all this has come to be.

it is NOT AT ALL the fault of black meN.
Nor black women.

it exists because white women are the most sexually liberated in this caste racist system.

that has been made we are under.
simple as that.



ART BARR
 

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bolded for emphasis to what i said earlier in this thread.

I think black people male or female look over the bolded and the fact. White women are the most liberated in the world sexually.
in that, they do not readily have to endure critique.
in such as harsh a manner.
for doing what anyone else in the world is ferally in general publically scrutinized for.

meaning as a black man,...i know they have demonatrative terms in plural.
for if i am misconceived in making a move to talk, introduce and declare myself available in a physical romantic hetersexual based and rooted mating feral manner.

yet there is no demonstrative term to describe a white woman.
declaring HERSELF available in a physical non-committal mate based or feral manner.

so in that pervasive colonizer slash prejudice setup is how all this has come to be.

it is NOT AT ALL the fault of black meN.
Nor black women.

it exists because white women are the most sexually liberated in this caste racist system.

that has been made we are under.
simple as that.



ART BARR

I get what you are saying, but those white women are not putting a gun to black men's heads and saying they have to date them. It's still a choice, so at the end of the day you're explanation is still an excuse.
 

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This is Black Jack Johnson -- legendary boxer and the First Black Heavyweight Champion (1908-1915); he was the son of two former slaves...




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...and here he is with his THIRD white-wife.

This man lived during a time where making extended eye-contact with a white-woman could get a black man lynched and he still couldn't keep his hands off of them white girls.

Black athletes have been risking their lives to be with white-women since the day they started letting us participate in sports...so you can't expect modern-negroes to avoid white women today when the only thing their "risking" now is being called a 'sell-out' by a few thousand strangers on social-media.
Jack Johnson did that as a status symbol (which you can say still exists in modern times) but not every black athlete does that
 

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I get what you are saying, but those white women are not putting a gun to black men's heads and saying they have to date them. It's still a choice, so at the end of the day you're explanation is still an excuse.

Ultimately black people are going have to deal with the fact that we live in a White world. Whites are the dominate group. What that means is that prominent entertainers and athletes will prefer white mates. Blacks will be disappointed if they are looking for black inspiration to keep it black in those arenas.
 
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Damn his woman was ugly asf. Brehs were getting with unattractive Beckies even then.:mjlol:
they were also ex or current prostitutes lol. But Jack Johnson did that moreso because he dared a white man to come at him wrong (in a time of emmit till and blacks getting lynched for simply coughing in the presence of a white person), he felt like he was above racism
 

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they were also ex or current prostitutes lol. But Jack Johnson did that moreso because he dared a white man to come at him wrong (in a time of emmit till and blacks getting lynched for simply coughing in the presence of a white person), he felt like he was above racism
Yeah she looks like what I imagine a prostitute looked like back then. I’ve never heard of him until now. Thanks for the history lesson. :ehh:
 

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I get what you are saying, but those white women are not putting a gun to black men's heads and saying they have to date them. It's still a choice, so at the end of the day you're explanation is still an excuse.


I am not listing an excuse.
i am stating the real factual reason.
the system is racist which is why it occurs.
the system is so racist and pervasive.
you are socialized out of the arena because cognitively you do not recognize from the system and its socialization. The advantage it has grafted over you and everyone in general.

the white women are there in large volume based abundance.
just because the racist system has created that dynamic.
you can not dispute a fact.



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Honestly, the answers in here (trolling and stupid as some are) are actual pretty good and spot on
As far as athletes dating out thats a non issue, regular people dating out is the same EXCEPT when people act like they are "leveling up" that can be a broader discussion on race
 

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Ultimately black people are going have to deal with the fact that we live in a White world. Whites are the dominate group. What that means is that prominent entertainers and athletes will prefer white mates. Blacks will be disappointed if they are looking for black inspiration to keep it black in those arenas.
That’s my ultimate point. So brehs can stop with the white girl did this or did that. The ultimate point is whiteness is power an for white girls it’s power in feminine form no more no less.

a White girl can be slack, sloppy, combative, unattractive, bossy, etc...and still be redeemed by her whiteness due to what white means in our world/society.

when White people lose their power so does white girl magic.
 

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they were also ex or current prostitutes lol. But Jack Johnson did that moreso because he dared a white man to come at him wrong (in a time of emmit till and blacks getting lynched for simply coughing in the presence of a white person), he felt like he was above racism
He did it for male ego because while he was doing that many black men were being lynched for less and what did he accomplish at the end.
 
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