Spin: More Women need to start being honest with men.

[At30wecashout]

Yuuuuup.

These new age women are pretty upfront and direct with what it is they're looking for. More so than when we were coming up.

I do agree that back in the day it was more difficult to be straight forward with your intentions. Back then I would have ever-so-slightly skated around those major "what are we?" type convos and ate my cake...



But nowadays? It's so much simpler to keep things cut and dry. Could be because we are older and wiser though.

So I gotta wait till thirty to feel comfortable with uncomfortable questions?

 

[wickedsm]

Yuuuuup.

These new age women are pretty upfront and direct with what it is they're looking for. More so than when we were coming up.

I do agree that back in the day it was more difficult to be straight forward with your intentions. Back then I would have ever-so-slightly skated around those major "what are we?" type convos and ate my cake...



But nowadays? It's so much simpler to keep things cut and dry. Could be because we are older and wiser though.

and @BmoreGorilla
i do get the feeling that alot of this is real young people problems.

 

[Raava]

The road to ruin is pathed with good intentions...
I like where your head's at, but honestly this is bad advice. Women should absolutely lie to men and tell them they have boyfriends to avoid awkward confrontations.
I'm a polite guy who approaches women all the time so i'm used to rejection and honesty wouldn't bother me.
But lets be real, there are plenty of guys who take the cold approach too far. Why deal with all the unnecessary explaining just to tell a man you are not interested?
Letting him know you have a boyfriend allows him to save face. So when he goes back to his boys he can say some shyt like "she has a bf, but she was feeling me "




Honesty isn't as important as being nice/polite.

I agree.

 

[wickedsm]

The road to ruin is pathed with good intentions...
I like where your head's at, but honestly this is bad advice. Women should absolutely lie to men and tell them they have boyfriends to avoid awkward confrontations.
I'm a polite guy who approaches women all the time so i'm used to rejection and honesty wouldn't bother me.
But lets be real, there are plenty of guys who take the cold approach too far. Why deal with all the unnecessary explaining just to tell a man you are not interested?
Letting him know you have a boyfriend allows him to save face. So when he goes back to his boys he can say some shyt like "she has a bf, but she was feeling me "




Honesty isn't as important as being nice/polite.

*adds a star next to your name on 3rd husband list*

 

[Raava]

Women will start doing this when rejecting a man's advances doesn't come with the threat of physical violence.

Rejection is part of the game. KentTV type lames can't handle it whether it's blunt or gentle. Dudes like him are the ones who need to wake the fukk up and get over it.

I agree.

 

[The Mad Titan]

back to square one

 

[wickedsm]

So I gotta wait till thirty to feel comfortable with uncomfortable questions?

you gone cash out then too.
30 is gonna be a good ass time for you
<--- all that

 

[Ronnie Lott]

After the Kent thread

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/women-pulling-the-i-have-a-boyfriend-card.427647/unread

I see the need for common decency and respect from one human being to another. Ladies if you already don't, we need to be straight up with the men that approach us.

If you don't have a boyfriend, don't lie and say you do out of convenience. Deal with the awkward, uncomfortable conversation. Be blunt, tell the truth. I mean, he took the risk to approach you after all. That way you can both move on knowing the truth. Woman up, we can do that and we should encourage our fellow women.

And we will...As soon as men make sure others are straight up, and honest about their intentions and thoughts right off the bat as well. I mean surely if the truth is needed for something as small as an approach from a stranger, it is also needed when dealing with someone's body, feelings, sex, and mind . Deal with that awkward uncomfortable conversation. Possibly not getting what you want. That way you can both move on knowing the truth.

Come on guys, let’s do this

 

[Raava]

Next time I will be sure to add a or :litroll: or

or

 

[The Mad Titan]

Oh and

@Spotlessmind you still got it, you got you feature

 

[MarloStanTrill]

Women will never be honest. They are lying, manipulating, lazy, users.

Even when you think you got a good one, she has another guy or THREE that shes waiting to leave you for should you have ANY kind of HARD TIMES (financial or otherwise)

yes I am bitter and yes my girl did leave me yesterday and yes im mad!!! congrats!

 

[Bless't]

I do love honesty.

Yet I woudlnt recommend women to give it the unknown men who approach them because it risks your safety.

I recommend women to be honest to the men they have in the friend zone since at that point you will know whether he is aggressive or not and those men can move on and use all of their energy on the women who are actually interested.

The less games people play the better.

 

[SheWantTheD]

You catch a guy on the wrong day, and tell him you don't want him, not attracted you could get shot, hit, followed, cursed out etc..

Men aren't going to approach women on the "wrong day" when they don't feel confident, good, high energy etc.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I mentioned something similar in my "meeting the right female" advice thread

Guy's don't approach ladies like we use to back in the day, guys today are sensitive can can't take the L on a no response.

Let's say a girl is honest and say "no"
The male the ask why?
Then the female says I'm not interested/not attracted.

The male ego of today's man is as frail as its ever been.

When ladies have been honest I've seen the guys turn around and call the women a "b#tch, I've seen drinks thrown on girls for being honest. Now days it's easier to just say you have a man.

You are straight lying. Dudes out here ain't throwing drinks or calling a chick a bytch for saying "I'm not interested". She most likely had an attitude or tried to clown him in front of others.

 

[At30wecashout]

you gone cash out then too.
30 is gonna be a good ass time for you
<--- all that

No lie, im on track for greatness. Gonna be 80 next week:wangfansonly:Guess who gonna be topless jogging in grey sweats :jazzyonit:

Prelude to 30

@Ooh Marty you single yet?