it's not like that everywhere. In Europe the girls there actually have game and hit on guys all the time. It's about the culture of each area which determines behavior of this kind. I don't mind initiating the convo but I've noticed a lot of women here play hard to get (or who the fukk knows, maybe they just didn't like me?) or are intentionally obtuse about their feelings towards you. I still think the key is to be yourself. I've noticed the girls I bag are ones that know how to hit on me in reciprocation.
I hit this gorgeous thick red head chick, she was really good at taking my flirtatious compliments and sending them back. Last chick I threw in the bushes just either didn't know how to flirt back or it wasn't in her personality or something. Again, take these observations for what they're worth, I'm by no means an expert on this shyt. I could easily be generalizing or biased via a small sample size