Solutions on dealing with heartbreak?

[Uncouth Savage]

Who the fukk cares what her colleagues think about him? Y’all nikkas and y’all egos smh

Once he seen she moved a nikka in, he should acted accordingly. He was still in denial angling for a way back in and made the situation embarrassingly worse

Your reputation matters sir.
One of the VERY WORST things a man can be known as is someone who abandoned his family

I made a post in the thread early on and told him to not drink
Then I saw a post with him saying he sobered up that day

There are certain things that can happen to a man that can send him down a dark road

I am glad the situation is sorted out
I am glad folks who know him and her are not believing he a bad person

All the other macho "I dont care I dont care" shyt means nothing
He is a coli poster, one of our brothers, I am happy he knows the truth and will recover

 

[BuckFilly]

EVERYBODY including his trusted friends were saying NOTHING was happening
she was telling his MOTHER they can work it out

fukk wrong with yall?
this not someone who made a mistake or some little shyt
she was ruining the mans reputation, mental health, and FUTURE

saying he should have just brushed it off is fukd up

what yall saying is he should have just "been a man" and not cry
fukk that

nikka if you call your mom and tell her that your bish moved another nikka in, is she encouraging you to stay, regardless of whatever the raggedy bish is telling her?

 

[fifth column]

EVERYBODY including his trusted friends were saying NOTHING was happening
she was telling his MOTHER they can work it out

fukk wrong with yall?
this not someone who made a mistake or some little shyt
she was ruining the mans reputation, mental health, and FUTURE

saying he should have just brushed it off is fukd up

what yall saying is he should have just "been a man" and not cry
fukk that

He should have been a man, cry alone and take the L. We all want instant gratification from everything when sometimes there is more important things to protect other than our ego, in his case it’s his daughter. He satisfied his ego temporarily but could have gotten his child’s mother fired which hurts the child. You want to win wars and not just battles

 

[BuckFilly]

Your reputation matters sir.
One of the VERY WORST things a man can be known as is someone who abandoned his family

I made a post in the thread early on and told him to not drink
Then I saw a post with him saying he sobered up that day

There are certain things that can happen to a man that can send him down a dark road

I am glad the situation is sorted out
I am glad folks who know him and her are not believing he a bad person

All the other macho "I dont care I dont care" shyt means nothing
He is a coli poster, one of our brothers, I am happy he knows the truth and will recover

Reputation matters, so show up at your baby mothers place of business and make a scene embarrassing yourself

 

[Uncouth Savage]

nikka if you call your mom and tell her that your bish moved another nikka in, is she encouraging you to stay, regardless of whatever the raggedy bish is telling moms?

That is a difficult question. There are grand kids involved. My mother is fair, so if she told my mom I left, mom might be angry at me.

And dont forget we dealing with a LIAR.

 

[BuckFilly]

That is a difficult question. There are grand kids involved. My mother is fair, so if she told my mom I left, mom might be angry at me.

And dont forget we dealing with a LIAR.

Lol nuff said if you have to consider whether the woman who birth and raised you would believe your baby mom over you. You got it my guy

 

[Uncouth Savage]

He should have been a man, cry alone and take the L. We all want instant gratification from everything when sometimes there is more important things to protect other than our ego, in his case it’s his daughter. He satisfied his ego temporarily but could have gotten his child’s mother fired which hurts the child. You want to win wars and not just battles

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO sir...fukkk nooooo
he a human being...a father...somebodys son....
This is someone he planned to marry.

He found out the truth. Did not go to jail. And has a plan moving forward. That is a win.
Plus if he has to go court concerning child support, he has a strong case against her.

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

Who the fukk cares what her colleagues think about him? Y’all nikkas and y’all egos smh

Once he seen she moved a nikka in, he should acted accordingly. He was still in denial angling for a way back in and made the situation embarrassingly worse

When people show you who they really are, believe them!

Dude thought that he can changed her and got smacked with reality across the face. Just another lesson that he needs to learn to hopefully to become a better person the next time he is in a relationship. These hoes are not going to change for you, either accept them for who they are or move on.

 

[Uncouth Savage]

Lol nuff said if you have to consider whether the woman who birth and raised you would believe your baby mom over you. You got it my guy

If I told her mother something, I would expect her mother to be fair also. That is how life is.

Now from everything I have read from thread starter, he a street guy.
I was worried for him. I am very very happy things worked out.

Fukk all that embarrassing shyt and not manly shyt
He did well

Now if he recorded the whole shyt and put it on facebook
LIKE I WOULD HAVE DONE
then you could call him petty

 

[Who Not How]

Sir she is a liar. Has lied to EVERYBODY. Willing to go to drastic measures to keep her lie going.
All the folks at work including her man thinks he ABANDONED his family

that had to be set straight
in front of everybody

imagine how many people thought he was the worst man alive?
he did the right thing

and I am very sure she expected him to be violent

 

[fifth column]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO sir...fukkk nooooo
he a human being...a father...somebodys son....
This is someone he planned to marry.

He found out the truth. Did not go to jail. And has a plan moving forward. That is a win.
Plus if he has to go court concerning child support, he has a strong case against her.

He didn’t find out anything that he didn’t already know deep down. Men and Women lie, cheat, tease, mislead, betray etc.. stop being so idealistic, life can be cruel, this is not a win

 

[Uncouth Savage]

He didn’t find out anything that he didn’t already know deep down. Men and Women lie, cheat, tease, mislead, betray etc.. stop being so idealistic, life can be cruel, this is not a win

Yes I admit, I am idealistic.
And have seen men get cheated on take back their women

How I clowned those men.
Until I had to made those decisions myself.
When everyone was saying "you stupid?"

Wanting a relationship to work. Wanting your family to work.

He had an idea things were not right, and went about to find the truth.
He did.

That is all that matters.

 

[fifth column]

Yes I admit, I am idealistic.
And have seen men get cheated on take back their women

How I clowned those men.
Until I had to made those decisions myself.
When everyone was saying "you stupid?"

Wanting a relationship to work. Wanting your family to work.

He had an idea things were not right, and went about to find the truth.
He did.

That is all that matters.

She had a whole man living with her so that’s a little more than an idea, can’t want things to work without taking accountability, he admitted that he ain’t move right with her recently.

 

[Uncouth Savage]

She had a whole man living with her so that’s a little more than an idea, can’t want things to work without taking accountability, he admitted that he ain’t move right with her recently.

Someone from work who I think she said lost his apartment
and he was told by everyone NOTHING was going on

And yes I am sure she was telling his mother and everyone else the things he did "recently"

What I am against is yall making it seem like he want too hard or embarrassed himself

She was to be a wife to him, now he can find someone better
That is a win

 

[Unbothered]

Try not to think about it .

When it comes to heartbreak, one must keep their mind occupied with optimism and hope for the future.