All of that you just pointed out is a result of white supremacy. I system that was designed to keep black people and their future generations at the bottom. This is why many black kids never get exposed to these things at an early age. Its not "excuses" like you try to claim. Who is gonna expose them to these things when the very people that gave birth to them weren't exposed in the first place? The only way to pass down knowledge and wisdom is to first acquire it. Now if a system was built to prevent you and your ancestors from acquiring this key knowledge, how can you expect them to pass it down to future generations? You're looking at this from a very simplified point of view and fail to understand the realities a lot black children face. I have actually taught high school kids from impoverished backgrounds and interacted with them. Moreover I have been a TA to many undergraduate and graduate level students in the past. I have seen these patterns unfold in from of me and had a front row seat. Im very disappointed in your reply reducing the struggles of our people into mere "excuses" when its clear as day that the playing field was never level to begin with.
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exposed to these things" shows (again) that someone on here has missed the point. Everyone gets exposed to the concept of problem solving. I said "PROBLEM SOLVING".
are you seriously asking me "
how people gain knowledge during their lives"? People gain information about things which they care about. Everyone does. And you cannot
force people to have an interest in things which they have no interest in. We are not programmable wind-up automatons where we blindly do
whatever we are told. There is some element of "what someone wants to do" buried in there.
If I tried to get kids to sit still all day every day for 16 hours looking at two red balloons, they wouldn't do it. Why not? Because it would not be interesting enough, intellectually stimulating enough, they might have more important things to do, etc?
what system is
stopping people from using the Internet in these kinds of ways? Even if they don't know, if they are told that "there is a way to influence your children for their own good" why do they even not care enough to even consider it? why are you suggesting that in the absence of being forced people will not look at options and that not-looking is justfiable.
It's an "excuse" because any one individual has autonomy to take action. It is partially under their own personal control. Especially in the age of the Internet. If you cannot learn, by yourself, in the space of a few
decades, what inputs you (in general) should or definitely should not give your child, then hey. In fact if you cannot work out that you need to have a positive
plan for your child, then hey. if you don't care enough to think about this or ask other people [in lieu of other things], then hey.
Your child asks you a question. There is a range of answers you could give. Some answers will shut them down. Some answers will fob them off. Some answers will encourage them to ask questions and encourage them to think about it. The path you take in
adulthood when you talk to people is, in the main, a personal choice. That is what I mean by rearing people to think. It is an everyday action and it costs nothing nut energy, time and forethought.
Now if the space of a decade or two of you cannot figure out that, that is how you have to treat children for yourself, or by looking it up. If in the space of many many decades you cannot figure out that, that is what you should have done and speak to your own (now adult) children or grand-children regarding that, they hey.
Just like with covid. WE sit here more than one year after the start of this and yet how many people have actually taken the time out to figure out what it is? How many could even tell you what the virus is? You would think that concern for you and yours would motivate you but for many it clearly has not, despite the fact that in the age of the Internet all of that information is out there and it is free. You act as if poverty has robbed everyone of their time. Meanwhile in reality
many are stuck at home during what would otherwise have been outside activities and do in fact have more time than usual.
How many people do you know who read up about covid, brought their family together and sat them all down to say "family because I care about you I have studied this thing. I want all of us to survive this so I have put together some facts and some ground rules. these are the facts. these are the rules. this is why. any questions.". How many give their family vitamin D supplements (which have been shown to be decisive).
UNIVERSAL TRUTH: People focus, worry, think and spend time on the things which worry them and the things which THEY THINK OR HAVE WORKD OUT ARE IMPORTANT (to them). And they do that whether they are rich or poor, whether they have means or not
It's an excuse and excuses do not help anyone. They just bolster the issues (covid
and this) and make the problems bigger than they otherwise would be.