I remember when I was in a relationship, and this chick was at the bus stop every morning and she was very attractive (a coli dime).
She started to talk to me after about a month, smiling every morning, deep inside I was starting to look forward to our talks and seeing her so much that I'd even go to the bus stop earlier
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We lived like two minutes away and we'd talk for like 15 minutes at the bus stop every morning and like ten minutes on the bus, we had so much in common more than my gf at the time.
Anyways we exchanged numbers but didn't text or nothing
, however one night it was like 10pm and she sent me a texthow shes bored, and if i wanted to come over and watch a movie :kony:. She lived two minutes away walking, I know that I could have torn that ish up and got away with it but I said no.
And that was it, I was in some fog I didn't realize until that point - on the road to infidelity but I deaded it, even changed my time at work so I never had to take that bus, and changed my number shortly thereafter.
What I'm saying is, even if you don't have the intent, your swimming in the water with sharks with a bloody nose, you can get caught up without even knowing it, because there is always someone out there, hotter, smarter, richer, that you will "click" with more.
Once that relationship your in becomes "stagnant", and routine, and the novelty of talking to someone new whose attractive plants seed if your not strong enough/wise enough you maybe saying sure I'll be right over
anyways thats my story