So Brehs, I'm Trying To Make The Transition From "Player" To "Boyfriend Material"

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Naw, I really think college was were I had the best chance to find a mate for life. I was busying fooling around too. :shaq2: When you get into the real, you got real jobs and shyt.


This is probably true... But seriously, who you are in college is NOT who you gonna be 10 years after.
 

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I always felt like I was already "Boyfriend Material" I mean I had my own place, car, Job, manage my funds well and all that stuff they like, My only thing is I just had a bunch hoes. Once I left the hoes behind and got focused the rest was easy..

I would say that this is me right now. But I don't lie to chicks though. I always try my best to tell the 100% truth, but even that still ends me up like :snoop:

I think it's probably just best for me to avoid any "hoe fukking". I would not like to go cold turkey, but damn :noah:

Why do people in college think a relationship is important.. Only thing you should be worried about is if my degree gonna get me a good job. Contacts, networking, all that before a relationship.

I got all that. :yeshrug:

then try to not have sex wit her so fast

but we both know its 2012 and that shyt aint gone happen lol

Seriously though, the next woman I seriously talk to, I will not have sex with her for a while. I'm going to avoid such at all costs for a while.
 

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I remember your font. You a hoe breh. I don't know breh, from the looks of it, you should be able to transition just fine. Just commit to whoever you like. From the way you put it, women really like you. Trying not to cheat is gonna be hell for you.

Bruh, when women like you a lot, it becomes hell for relationships...cuz you know you got options...so your patience for bullshyt is thin...and sometimes you leave before you should...

I'm trying hard to be a committed man...but it's hard :(

:sadbron:
 

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i thought duke was like a 25 year old or something. Yoiu in Gradschool or Youre only a senior in school>?
 

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Its hard bruh, I was on some playa shyt until I was about 26, 27. The routine was just getting old, running game until a chick lets me bone, putting her on the roster, coming thourhg on late nights and knocking her down for about 4-6 months. Once she starts talking about a relationship throw her in the bushes and find a new prospect.

Other than getting the p*ssy itself there really isn't alot of benefits, too much lying, spreading myself too thin...

I always felt like I was already "Boyfriend Material" I mean I had my own place, car, Job, manage my funds well and all that stuff they like, My only thing is I just had a bunch hoes. Once I left the hoes behind and got focused the rest was easy..

Afterwards, I realized how much time I had wasted trying to knock down hoes, time on the phone, going to see them, going out, all that shyt. If you spend that time improving yourself, it won't be hard to become "boyfriend material"

The frist step and the hardest, it to quit lying to these hoes. I mean totally. I didn't even realize how naturally I used to to lie to females about the small shyt that didn't even matter. Its true that the truth hurts but it prevents more drama in the long run

thats how i been feeling lately

i aint out here fukking a thousand hoes i aint gone boost for the internet
but at the same time i be feelin like im selling myself short my nikka
like i be having to switch up my swag to fukk different type of hoes

some hoes wanna laid back nikka, some wanna hood nikka, some wanna get money nikka, some wanna nice guy

the shyt too much man
its to the point where all of them get treated the same
like i go through the motions when i meet a bytch

i wanna bytch to come up to me
what these hoes gone offer me?
 

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LMAOOOOOOOOO... ayo Zay, why does your rep say "BrothaZay received that work"

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Cuz i got that work

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i thought duke was like a 25 year old or something. Yoiu in Gradschool or Youre only a senior in school>?

I'm a senior, but I'm in an advanced degree program. It's confusing. Lol.

I remember your font. You a hoe breh. I don't know breh, from the looks of it, you should be able to transition just fine. Just commit to whoever you like. From the way you put it, women really like you. Trying not to cheat is gonna be hell for you.

:dead:

That's exactly why I've been avoiding relationships. I've never had a relationship where I've been faithful, even with girls who were very good friends of mine. I'd rather not do it all than to cheat, cause I don't wanna hurt nobody or break my word on anything. All of my ex-girlfriends are pretty fukked up when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex, mostly because of me.

I'm gonna wait for a little though. If I wifed a girl up now she'd catch so much drama. I would not want that. :snoop:
 

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You'll know when you really get tired of random women and stop entertaining the bullshyt that comes with messing with folks that really aint about shyt. Your mindset changes and soon its not even a question on how do I make this transition, you'll naturally make it. Its where I'm at now.

The first step is realizing how empty the shyt really is. That seems to be where you at now. Next step will be kinda rough though.
 

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Bruh, when women like you a lot, it becomes hell for relationships...cuz you know you got options...so your patience for bullshyt is thin...and sometimes you leave before you should...

I'm trying hard to be a committed man...but it's hard :(

:sadbron:

I was terrible when I had numerous quality options. That why relationships in never lasted nor did I care. I miss college, there is never gonna be a time where you are going to be around so many options and they aren't co-workers :snoop: . Don't get greedy and end up :flabbynsick:
 

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You'll know when you really get tired of random women and stop entertaining the bullshyt that comes with messing with folks that really aint about shyt. Your mindset changes and soon its not even a question on how do I make this transition, you'll naturally make it. Its where I'm at now.

The first step is realizing how empty the shyt really is. That seems to be where you at now. Next step will be kinda rough though.

It ain't natural till it officially happens.
 

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It ain't natural till it officially happens.

Life situations and how you look at them will make them that way. One day you wake up and the shyt you thought was fun feels empty. You don't actively make that decision so I think its natural. Part of maturing.
 
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