I don't want to be any woman's "boyfriend" per se, but this shyt is hard brehs.

At this point, I'm just fukkin' out of boredom/routine.
I've been settled on this decision for a couple of weeks, but
I'm discovering that it's not very easy to break out of a lifestyle you've been living for around 7 years.
I am annoyed with random women hitting up my phone, I'm annoyed with random women knowing me before I know them, I am annoyed with the angry texts/phone calls, I'm annoyed with silly rumors. I'm just

all around.
I could never have a girlfriend and manage to keep her around in the midst of all of this so I have decided that I am going to make some lifestyle changes, just trying to figure out how to properly strategize these moves right now.
I've had the same number since 8th grade and from like second semester freshman year (college) up until this summer, I decided it'd be smart to just hand out hella business cards to people (females)
so I have an assortment of females I don't really fukk with like that hitting me up (big fukk up). I would like to change my number, but I also do not want any good contacts losing my information plus, I am in the midst of a job search. The cards also had my main email on them as well. Also, I know that even if I changed it, the new number would still manage to find it's way around anyway. I don't give people my AIM screen name and even that shyt be findin' it's way out. Low key thinking about changing that as well.
I even started a new Facebook,
but that one got swarmed within a matter of days as well, but not as bad as the old one. I reached past the limit some kind of way on my first Facebook. I would delete it, but again, that's too many contacts to lose and it is a great tool for promotion. My Twitter is pretty straight. I have a lot of followers, but I'm not on it enough to the point where it effects anything.
Not really interested in dating females on campus. At this point I can't tell if most are genuinely interested or if they are looking for a status come-up or because they think I have some kind of money, minus a few exceptions. I talk with this one girl from school, but she is not "black" and that kind of concerns me, so I don't think I will ever make it serious.
I'd actually prefer to date a woman who is not familiar with me at all.

I'd keep a lot of things about myself private from her so as not to hype myself up or anything like that. I don't have any details about myself on my new Facebook and I can't add anymore people on my old FB with all the info, so there's no way she'd be able to see that stuff
My main problem is that
I would very much so like to hold on to the social status I have right now, just without all of the added female drama from females who are not in my family. My mom and dad met in college and I feel like I have slightly disappointed them with my actions/behavior.

My little sister goes to school with me and she is starting to give me the

face because of the way other females treat her upon learning who she is
I can't wait 'til I graduate