So Brehs, I'm Trying To Make The Transition From "Player" To "Boyfriend Material"

[ThugLife]

Nice humble brag

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Stop fukking bytches. You will never change as long as your doing the same thing. If you make it your business to only interact with women you feel deserve your attention, then you will be able to make a change within yourself.

 

[BruhMayne]

I've witnessed many guys do it.

You're making it more than what it is

The fact that you've been with plenty girls before is only gonna make you appreciate the "wifey" material chick even more once you settle down

Spoiler

the spirit of the hunter is still gonna be within you forever. You're gonna have to fight that shyt bruh

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Nice humble brag

[Jay-Z] It's the Gift and the Curse [/Blueprint]

I actually find myself low key jealous of dudes who can hold it down with a female. That's a very admirable trait, IMO.

 

[cleanface coney]

But yeah, I'm genuinely tired. I never thought it would happen but



I be tryin' breh. They don't really fukk with me. I think if I lied about my age, I'd have more success. I've done that before and it worked. I can be pretty mature for my age. But that was just for fukkin'. That lie couldn't hold up in a relationship.

What do you mean by "off brand"? There are some chicks I would never take home to my mama.

naw dont lie about yo age cuz you can get caught up
hoestly it depends on the female
some older chicks just wanna young nikka
some aint never had a young fly nikka before cuz they was ugly/lame in highschool

offbrand is a girl who dont know she fine or attractive
like she dont go to the club, dress slutty, caught up with the trends
materialistic

she prolly a bookworm or she a homebody

 

[ThugLife]

[Jay-Z] It's the Gift and the Curse [/Blueprint]

I actually find myself low key jealous of dudes who can hold it down with a female. That's a very admirable trait, IMO.

You not foolin me
You prolly sittin at your computer like

 

[cleanface coney]

Stop fukking bytches. You will never change as long as your doing the same thing. If you make it your business to only interact with women you feel deserve your attention, then you will be able to make a change within yourself.

honestly you right my nikka

if you want to meet a girl and keep it genuine

then try to not have sex wit her so fast

but we both know its 2012 and that shyt aint gone happen lol

 

[#1 pick]

It's a lot harder to be a player and grimey then being a good dude.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Im in a relationship now and my only rule is I wont cheat unless the girl im cheating with is finer than wifey. Its hard to change but fukk it im 24 and not trying to be tied down to these hoes yet. I think after a while all that playing around trying to be the man gets tiring and a dude can only handle one womans bullshyt as oppose to a bunch of womans bullshyt. Men dont commit they just change their mindset and see things differently.

 

[L. Deezy]

Why do people in college think a relationship is important.. Only thing you should be worried about is if my degree gonna get me a good job. Contacts, networking, all that before a relationship.

 

[SuburbanPimp]

Its hard bruh, I was on some playa shyt until I was about 26, 27. The routine was just getting old, running game until a chick lets me bone, putting her on the roster, coming thourhg on late nights and knocking her down for about 4-6 months. Once she starts talking about a relationship throw her in the bushes and find a new prospect.

Other than getting the p*ssy itself there really isn't alot of benefits, too much lying, spreading myself too thin...

I always felt like I was already "Boyfriend Material" I mean I had my own place, car, Job, manage my funds well and all that stuff they like, My only thing is I just had a bunch hoes. Once I left the hoes behind and got focused the rest was easy..

Afterwards, I realized how much time I had wasted trying to knock down hoes, time on the phone, going to see them, going out, all that shyt. If you spend that time improving yourself, it won't be hard to become "boyfriend material"

The frist step and the hardest, it to quit lying to these hoes. I mean totally. I didn't even realize how naturally I used to to lie to females about the small shyt that didn't even matter. Its true that the truth hurts but it prevents more drama in the long run

 

[BruhMayne]

Its hard bruh, I was on some playa shyt until I was about 26, 27. The routine was just getting old, running game until a chick lets me bone, putting her on the roster, coming thourhg on late nights and knocking her down for about 4-6 months. Once she starts talking about a relationship throw her in the bushes and find a new prospect.

Other than getting the p*ssy itself there really isn't alot of benefits, too much lying, spreading myself too thin...

I always felt like I was already "Boyfriend Material" I mean I had my own place, car, Job, manage my funds well and all that stuff they like, My only thing is I just had a bunch hoes. Once I left the hoes behind and got focused the rest was easy..

Afterwards, I realized how much time I had wasted trying to knock down hoes, time on the phone, going to see them, going out, all that shyt. If you spend that time improving yourself, it won't be hard to become "boyfriend material"

I was gon make a thread on thread on this. But as a committed dude do you still participate in target practice?
You're in Dallas so you seeing the same badd females I see

 

[#1 pick]

Why do people in college think a relationship is important.. Only thing you should be worried about is if my degree gonna get me a good job. Contacts, networking, all that before a relationship.

Naw, I really think college was were I had the best chance to find a mate for life. I was busying fooling around too. When you get into the real, you got real jobs and shyt.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

You not foolin me
You prolly sittin at your computer like

I wish. My boy's girl be comin' over and cookin' him that good food. I be on the side askin' for a plate like They be havin' fun and shyt.

I can't think of any woman I'd want to do that with without being on the edge.

naw dont lie about yo age cuz you can get caught up
hoestly it depends on the female
some older chicks just wanna young nikka
some aint never had a young fly nikka before cuz they was ugly/lame in highschool

offbrand is a girl who dont know she fine or attractive
like she dont go to the club, dress slutty, caught up with the trends
materialistic

she prolly a bookworm or she a homebody

Ok. Got cha. I don't mind a woman who dresses nice though. I actually need that.

The fact that you've been with plenty girls before is only gonna make you appreciate the "wifey" material chick even more once you settle down

I can't wait

 

[#1 pick]

I don't want to be any woman's "boyfriend" per se, but this shyt is hard brehs. At this point, I'm just fukkin' out of boredom/routine.

I've been settled on this decision for a couple of weeks, but I'm discovering that it's not very easy to break out of a lifestyle you've been living for around 7 years.

I am annoyed with random women hitting up my phone, I'm annoyed with random women knowing me before I know them, I am annoyed with the angry texts/phone calls, I'm annoyed with silly rumors. I'm just all around. I could never have a girlfriend and manage to keep her around in the midst of all of this so I have decided that I am going to make some lifestyle changes, just trying to figure out how to properly strategize these moves right now.


I've had the same number since 8th grade and from like second semester freshman year (college) up until this summer, I decided it'd be smart to just hand out hella business cards to people (females) so I have an assortment of females I don't really fukk with like that hitting me up (big fukk up). I would like to change my number, but I also do not want any good contacts losing my information plus, I am in the midst of a job search. The cards also had my main email on them as well. Also, I know that even if I changed it, the new number would still manage to find it's way around anyway. I don't give people my AIM screen name and even that shyt be findin' it's way out. Low key thinking about changing that as well.

I even started a new Facebook, but that one got swarmed within a matter of days as well, but not as bad as the old one. I reached past the limit some kind of way on my first Facebook. I would delete it, but again, that's too many contacts to lose and it is a great tool for promotion. My Twitter is pretty straight. I have a lot of followers, but I'm not on it enough to the point where it effects anything.

Not really interested in dating females on campus. At this point I can't tell if most are genuinely interested or if they are looking for a status come-up or because they think I have some kind of money, minus a few exceptions. I talk with this one girl from school, but she is not "black" and that kind of concerns me, so I don't think I will ever make it serious.

I'd actually prefer to date a woman who is not familiar with me at all. I'd keep a lot of things about myself private from her so as not to hype myself up or anything like that. I don't have any details about myself on my new Facebook and I can't add anymore people on my old FB with all the info, so there's no way she'd be able to see that stuff

My main problem is that I would very much so like to hold on to the social status I have right now, just without all of the added female drama from females who are not in my family. My mom and dad met in college and I feel like I have slightly disappointed them with my actions/behavior. My little sister goes to school with me and she is starting to give me the face because of the way other females treat her upon learning who she is

I can't wait 'til I graduate

I remember your font. You a hoe breh. I don't know breh, from the looks of it, you should be able to transition just fine. Just commit to whoever you like. From the way you put it, women really like you. Trying not to cheat is gonna be hell for you.