Single mothers are a used material for beta males

[AITheAnswerAI]

I know you keep forgetting, but I think you've been an idiot since kumbaya. What I look like debating with a beta?





I can't take you guys seriously.

I knew this statement would bring the betas out, watch how many times I get quoted. And all the dudes will have a history of being chumps.

Now you're deflecting, your arguement is a weak strawman at best. Keep fukking with ugly frumpty dumpy mud duck looking bytches breh

 

[MikelArteta]

I know you keep forgetting, but I think you've been an idiot since kumbaya. What I look like debating with a beta?





I can't take you guys seriously.

I knew this statement would bring the betas out, watch how many times I get quoted. And all the dudes will have a history of being chumps.

how im i a beta?

 

[Suicide King]

Now you're deflecting, your arguement is a weak strawman at best. Keep fukking with ugly frumpty dumpy mud duck looking bytches breh

This is not a strawman tactic. I don't do strawman because it makes the convo go in circles. I'm straight up insulting folks. I'll call you a chump for 20 pages straight, I won't even try to analyze your opinion.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

This is not a strawman. I don't do strawman because it makes the convo go in circles. I'm straight up insulting folks. I'll call you a chump for 20 pages straight, I won't even try to analyze your opinion.

That's because your arguement is weak and I pointed out the flaws in it. What fukking young female who looks like something isn't going to be into superficial things? I mean you must be dumb ass hell to think otherwise.

 

[havoc]

no one said single others are not more screwed up or less screwed up than regular chicks

however single moms have more baggage, ala a child, ala a baby daddy and his family.

here's a question

two women

Both are the same height
both are the same weight
both make teh same amount of money
both live on their own
both have a car
both are very beautiful

however 1 has a 3 year old child
and the other does not

which one would you choose first to date?

This is easy to answer. I'd pick the lady who has her mind right.

 

[Suicide King]

That's because your arguement is weak and I pointed out the flaws in it. What fukking young female who looks like something isn't going to be into superficial things? I mean you must be dumb ass hell to think otherwise.

No, its because I think you are an idiot. I can tell you that I feel you are an idiot for 20+ pages, because this is my impression. I trust my instincts. Continue on your chump ways and try to change my opinion.

 

[Grew_Up_Hella_Early]

No they werent. When she fell pregnant she went to him immediately and he said to her abortion is no option. He told her and reassured her everything will work out that they will find a way to make this work. That he wont leave her then out of the blue he left.

Good u was able to forgive em,I forgive mine but would tell em to keep it movin if he asked for forgiveness....seems like he was indescisive like I am

I didn't want a kid but me and my baby mama knew each other for a while and I told her not to have an abortion and kill my baby anyway,an abortion is different when you care about the female and see she's a good woman bcuz u have some sort of attachment to the baby as crazy as it may sound...but id quikly pay for an abortion for a chick who ain't shyt.

I think a lot of dudes do that,and have good intentions at the time they swear they'll be around,and say "I ain't have no pops I would never l eave my own kid"...but if u didn't want a kid and decide to keep it anyway as a male u takin a chance askin her to keep it not realizing you cold chage your mind long term but its too late...and if u a female you takin a chance believing what that man is saying.

Personally I hate hearing about women killing mens babys who tell her that he wants to keep the baby though.

I could never imagine running out on my daughter,but even my pops was with my mama for about 15 yrs before he ran...was around for my two sisters then up and left when I was a baby and got with a new chick and started a family...he still visited for a while when his mama was living and mad him visit,then she died and we ain't seen or heard from homie since...pops if u out there eading this you ain't shyt nikka but for puttin me in the game


It was a different time back in the day too where women I don't think put nikkas on child support,for one cuz I think it was easier to run away...but for two it just wasn't used as the revenge tactic its used as today by bitter women,women just picked up and kept it movin...but bitterness comes in women of all forms single or not....hopefully u find a nice single woman with no kids like I did...but just wait til u decide to make her a single mother by leaving...she can then BECOME your bitter ex baby mama...so what's the difference?u stuck with a bitter bytch who once was that great single woman for 18 yrs...and she's raising your daughter or son to be a bitter bytch bcuz u turned they mama to a bitter bytch simply by leaving even if u did it nicely...the man dating a single mother at least got the option to leave at any time...unless u never plan on having kids forever you might find yourself in a miserable position no matter how well u try to plan this shyt out.

You can't win fellas or ladies,just at least try to make the right decisions and hope for the best.

 

[Elle Driver]

I have many friends that were raised in a two parent home that have had the worst childhood. That associate marriage with fighting, bickering, separation, listening to their parents bytch about their other parent, to reconciliation only to be put through the same crap. They dont want to get married. I might be biased because i only had one parent in my life but that wasnt my mothers choice it was my so called fathers choice. Child support is nothing if the father or mother isnt present in their life. I would burn the money to have had him in my life. To see me graduate from high school and college. To see my acceptance letter into University, to have been there at the most important times in my life.

Thats the mistake many males do, they believe that its the money that makes a child happy but its not. Maybe it helps the mother with the costs of bringing up a child but as a child grows they need that emotional support that approval from both parents. That overrides any materialistic thing.

Basically.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

at people ITT comparing not wanting to date single moms with excusing fathers ducking out on their responsibilities.

 

[Reckless]

Stop being so judgemental, single mothers are the strongest women. Besides most women wouldnt be single if there were no dead beat dads that run from responsibilities.

Not true. My son's mom is a single mom. But I didnt run. We weren't together when she got pregnant and we never got together. But I see my son all the time and provide financially...yet, she is still a single mom.

 

[Rosie]

Not true. My son's mom is a single mom. But I didnt run. We weren't together when she got pregnant and we never got together. But I see my son all the time and provide financially...yet, she is still a single mom.

Kudos for you! You are a father and I applaud you for not running out on your responsibilities. Your child will be a better person for having you in his life. You may not see it now but one day he will thank you for not bailing and I'm sure he gives you just as much joy as you give him. The point I have been trying to make is that not all single mothers are classless hoes and that many men duck responsibility by leaving.

My fathers absence has affected me and what men dont realise children want parents present in their lives. Ideally yes together however as you grow up you realise that you want your parent there even if your parents arent together as a couple. At least it was like that for me.

Good u was able to forgive em,I forgive mine but would tell em to keep it movin if he asked for forgiveness....seems like he was indescisive like I am

I didn't want a kid but me and my baby mama knew each other for a while and I told her not to have an abortion and kill my baby anyway,an abortion is different when you care about the female and see she's a good woman bcuz u have some sort of attachment to the baby as crazy as it may sound...but id quikly pay for an abortion for a chick who ain't shyt.

I think a lot of dudes do that,and have good intentions at the time they swear they'll be around,and say "I ain't have no pops I would never l eave my own kid"...but if u didn't want a kid and decide to keep it anyway as a male u takin a chance askin her to keep it not realizing you cold chage your mind long term but its too late...and if u a female you takin a chance believing what that man is saying.

Personally I hate hearing about women killing mens babys who tell her that he wants to keep the baby though.

I could never imagine running out on my daughter,but even my pops was with my mama for about 15 yrs before he ran...was around for my two sisters then up and left when I was a baby and got with a new chick and started a family...he still visited for a while when his mama was living and mad him visit,then she died and we ain't seen or heard from homie since...pops if u out there eading this you ain't shyt nikka but for puttin me in the game


It was a different time back in the day too where women I don't think put nikkas on child support,for one cuz I think it was easier to run away...but for two it just wasn't used as the revenge tactic its used as today by bitter women,women just picked up and kept it movin...but bitterness comes in women of all forms single or not....hopefully u find a nice single woman with no kids like I did...but just wait til u decide to make her a single mother by leaving...she can then BECOME your bitter ex baby mama...so what's the difference?u stuck with a bitter bytch who once was that great single woman for 18 yrs...and she's raising your daughter or son to be a bitter bytch bcuz u turned they mama to a bitter bytch simply by leaving even if u did it nicely...the man dating a single mother at least got the option to leave at any time...unless u never plan on having kids forever you might find yourself in a miserable position no matter how well u try to plan this shyt out.

You can't win fellas or ladies,just at least try to make the right decisions and hope for the best.

No one is ever ready to have kids. If a man is in his teens and 20's I understand but when you have a man that is in his early to mid 30's like my father was you would think by then he would have had some semblance of a brain attached to his spinal cord and some balls to step up. I try to not be angry towards him but I am. In the end he affected me more than my mother. My mother has moved on from his departure but it has remained with me and at times I blame myself. This is what adults dont realize children blame themselves, and although my mother always reassured me it was him and not me the stigma remains.

 

[Suicide King]

My fathers absence has affected me and what men dont realise children want parents present in their lives. Ideally yes together however as you grow up you realise that you want your parent there even if your parents arent together as a couple. At least it was like that for me.

I know I'm not the first one to tell you this, if a father breezes he never cared. Probably did you a favor, cause he probably was only gonna do more damage. A lot of brain power is being used to run away from the truth. Loyalty and honor is a pretty basic quality, but you not going to find it in everybody.

 

[mortuus est]

You kneegas fukking baby mums that aint yours, applude you guys

 

[Rosie]

I know I'm not the first one to tell you this, if a father breezes he never cared. Probably did you a favor, cause he probably was only gonna do more damage. A lot of brain power is being used to run away from the truth. Loyalty and honor is a pretty basic quality, but you not going to find it in everybody.

truer words have not been spoken. If a person can run off on their child they have no morals in my books and they can preach of being a christian all they want. How you can abandon your own flesh and blood is beyond me.

 

[Raava]

Why are most of you assuming, the mother would want you to raise their child and the father is not in the child's life? Why if the father is in the child's life they have to be sleeping with one another? So much stereotyping. Is every single mother an automatic hood rat and the father a deadbeat? Do most of you all really believe that the only reason and time these situations happens?