Single mothers are a used material for beta males

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Maybe the issue here isnt single mothers but rather irresponsible males that cannot step up to the plate and take care of the seed they created. I have seen many so called christians that bible bash you and they themselves have children out of wedlock that dont assume the responsibility they should and leave it all up to the woman.

So tell me again how the man in these stories come out as heros? more like zeros!!
come on now, the man may have neglected to put his seat belt on but the woman was the one driving the car
 

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truer words have not been spoken. If a person can run off on their child they have no morals in my books and they can preach of being a christian all they want. How you can abandon your own flesh and blood is beyond me.

Yeah, all you can do is cherish what you have, and not worry about what you didn't.

I can understand people throwing hate, anger, and frustration at a messed up situation, but if you do it forever it is harder to enter the next phase of your life. I meet women with daddy issues, and the impression I get is they are stuck in limbo between adulthood and childhood. They never find that harmony.

Getting wisdom and understanding is the next step after hate, anger, and hurt.
 

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I have never SERIOUSLY dated a single mom but from what I seen. Most of these women are immature and still club hop and they use grandparents to baby sit more often then you think.There are some who do their thing,independent work hard. in school etc.However The part where the"Beta" Male or nice guy lose is with the women who have children under age of 5. A woman who has a child under age of 5 although she can SAY she is single,she ISNT. The baby daddy is still her man PERIOD. Sad to say a man doesnt have a shot with a single mom unless she is divorced or child's father isnt alive. As for childs father being a jail,thats a situation you DONT want.
 

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I have never SERIOUSLY dated a single mom but from what I seen. Most of these women are immature and still club hop and they use grandparents to baby sit more often then you think.There are some who do their thing,independent work hard. in school etc.However The part where the"Beta" Male or nice guy lose is with the women who have children under age of 5. A woman who has a child under age of 5 although she can SAY she is single,she ISNT. The baby daddy is still her man PERIOD. Sad to say a man doesnt have a shot with a single mom unless she is divorced or child's father isnt alive. As for childs father being a jail,thats a situation you DONT want.
you forgot to add or if the father is not in the picture.
 

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come on now, the man may have neglected to put his seat belt on but the woman was the one driving the car

No both are at fault. A woman assumes the responsibility primarily because she bond with the child through pregnancy. Statistics say that men are visual creatures and most men regardless if they are married or not tend to bond after the baby is born and have one on one contact with their child.
 

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children of single moms will always :cape: if you speak the truth about it, no one wants to admit that sadly their mom made horrible mistakes in choosing who to reproduce with
 

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children of single moms will always :cape: if you speak the truth about it, no one wants to admit that sadly their mom made horrible mistakes in choosing who to reproduce with
This here just shows how immature you are. An adult would not throw responsibility on one person, it does take two to tango.
 

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No both are at fault. A woman assumes the responsibility primarily because she bond with the child through pregnancy. Statistics say that men are visual creatures and most men regardless if they are married or not tend to bond after the baby is born and have one on one contact with their child.
women make every single decision leading up to sex, they choose who, where, when, and why to have sex.

men only have words, some men are gifted with words but the choice is still the women.

if a women allows herself to get knocked up by some nikka that would dip out then i blame her for her poor choices just like i would a man that knowing got with a slut
 

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This here just shows how immature you are. An adult would not throw responsibility on one person, it does take two to tango.



if i met a woman at say a club, we start to date , i sleep with her raw and contract hiv.

who would you blame?

you would blame for making a poor choice of not getting to know the person, not knowing her history and failure to protect myself for the consequences that can occur from having unprotective sex.


But right a adult would not throw that responsibility on one person it takes two to tango right? :jawalrus;
 

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My instincts always show me :scusthov: face when I learn that a woman is a single mother. It's the biggest turn off, besides wack looks of course.

I feel like I am near a trash can when in the presence of a single mom. You must be a fukking worm to feed and play with another's man child and fukking that p*ssy which was thrown into bushes.

This shyt is fukking disgusting. :scusthov:
thats good if the non single mothers giving you more play, when you get older, you know who is "around"

but yeah some welcome it...

know a dude, and thats all he dates and budgets for them
 

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if i met a woman at say a club, we start to date , i sleep with her raw and contract hiv.

who would you blame?

you would blame for making a poor choice of not getting to know the person, not knowing her history and failure to protect myself for the consequences that can occur from having unprotective sex.


But right a adult would not throw that responsibility on one person it takes two to tango right? :jawalrus;
i would blame her through and through. If she did that its up to her to assume the responsibility to either let you know or not to have unprotected sex. I would say the man is the victim here and shes gutter trash.
 

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women make every single decision leading up to sex, they choose who, where, when, and why to have sex.

men only have words, some men are gifted with words but the choice is still the women.

if a women allows herself to get knocked up by some nikka that would dip out then i blame her for her poor choices just like i would a man that knowing got with a slut
Men are human and have a functioning brain that logic that she drives the car has no bearing on me. I dont believe it I think its an excuse men have.
 

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Yeah i said it in another anti-single mom thread. It's my way of helping the community. I help them by buying their kids the things they need, being somewhat of a father figure to their kids and helping them find jobs and maybe suggest they look into college.

In a way, you're right. Better end up helping the kids of single moms, before they end up robbing you in the future :russ:
 
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