Most times the father is nowhere to be seen. There's never an excuse for not being in your child's life, period. Too many absentee nikkaz.
Single mothers are a used material for beta males
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Most times the father is nowhere to be seen. There's never an excuse for not being in your child's life, period. Too many absentee nikkaz.
most women know the kind of men they are dealing with before they get knocked up.
lets not pretend most of these men became deadbeat overnight.
I need some honesty here
This is true. They want that thrill they get from fukkin with the thug or "bad boy", and they want the challenge of trying to change him. Problem is, ol boy aint sticking around for all that and dips the fukk out. Now you're stuck with a kid because you had immature and unrealistic aspirations with this dude.
My mother is a single mother after my so called father decided it was too hard to deal with the responsibility of a child. She worked, took care of me, put me through college bought a house not only for herself but for me as well. You need to be of a stable mind and emotionally strong to bring up a child. Lets hope one day you are able to find a woman like that because I can already tell your judgemental self will be just another so called man that will blame an accidental pregnancy on the woman and you will tuck your penis between your legs and run for the hills.
i don't even remember the last time i had sex without a condom (don't even give me the condom breaks excuse).
I don't know your situation, I need to hear your fathers side of the story before I can trust what you just said.
Most women lie also did your mom take him to court? if she didn't that's her problem.
She was afraid of it coming back of him not being the father
no he didnt even when paternity was proved. I looked him up no long ago and all he did was cry and admit to me that he failed as a human being and he was at fault. He gave my mother the wrong impression that he would be there for her and he would assume responsibility of me and claim me, even after the paternity was proved he did squat. Not all single mothers breed for child support or welfare there are some very responsible decent women that were done wrong by the father of their babies. Its wrong to categorize single women as used material, useless, worthless and any other negative description ignorant people place them in.so your dad didnt pay any child support?
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Not all women and both my parents are to blame for not using protection. I dont blame my mother or father for their carelessness then again I wouldnt be here if they werent. Besides we are talking 20 something years ago.
I know the story from both my parents. I am in the process of building a relationship with my father at my mothers request. She has taught me to forgive.
The fact that your mom didn't take your pops to court makes your story highly suspicious.
Most single women are itching to file for child support
How is this shyt still going on. Like 
i don't even remember the last time i had sex without a condom (don't even give me the condom breaks excuse).
I don't know your situation, I need to hear your fathers side of the story before I can trust what you just said.
Most women lie also did your mom take him to court? if she didn't that's her problem.
She was afraid of it coming back of him not being the father
Paternity was proved. Not all women are whores. In my case my father is a dead beat, my mother might be able to forgive however its taking me more will to do so. The way I see it if he can insert his penis in a vagina with no protection then he can assume responsibility. If he doesnt then he is a dead beat human being. I have no problem calling him this until he can prove me wrong.