Signs your girl doesn't respect you

[LionofJudah]

So what did nikkas do before there was currency


They hunted, killed, fought, etc... Too bad we don't live in that world anymore. In fact, we live in a world where a woman can get thrown thousands of dollars a night by shaking her ass while you strap up your fukking boots everyday and go earn a living...


You defeat the white mans society by being your own fukking man, earning your own fukking money and getting to a point where you can pay yourself. If your lady makes more money than you, than it's your fault for allowing her to walk around the house like she owns you. Making more money doesn't mean paying more bills or that a man isn't making any money either. Either leave that chick and let her get with someone else who is just as shallow as she is, or act like a fukking real man and stay/support her but not allow her to treat you any less than a man. In fact, if you got a chick that will act that way because she makes more money than you then you already failed.

If I'm an IT and my girl is a doctor who makes 50k more than I do, but we both make over 100k then where do you see the problem? It's a different time, women can make equal if not more but they are still women.


And that still doesn't explain why nikkas who are the breadwinners still get disrespected by their women.

And just to add, if nikkas was really on this head of the household shyt, then they wouldn't want their woman working AT ALL. It worked in the 50's and prior. But that's not what they want. They want a woman to make money, just not more money than them so their precious ego won't be fractured. To me, that's the definition of a bytch. And they say I'm less of a man because it doesn't faze me? shyt reminds me of that Martin episode when he couldn't take Gina making more money than him.

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[LionofJudah]

I feel that...I just don't think there is a logical debate on the subject itself. But it seems there is amongst black men.

I was just curious to know how any person living in this world can somehow skip over the "white man's currency" as if its a choice like "what kind of sandwich do I want."

Peace

I didn't bring up the white man, he did. That's how that part of the topic began.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

And just to add, if nikkas was really on this head of the household shyt, then they wouldn't want their woman working AT ALL. It worked in the 50's and prior. But that's not what they want. They want a woman to make money, just not more money than them so their precious ego won't be fractured. To me, that's the definition of a bytch. And they say I'm less of a man because it doesn't faze me? shyt reminds me of that Martin episode when he couldn't take Gina making more money than him.

Thats exactly what it is...


I think it's a real issue with nikkas too. They want they chick to be dependent on them so she won't leave them, more likely to put up with their infidelity, or some extra shyt. So the more money they make, the more secure they feel about their relationship...

When in reality, she's probably fukking around on them anyway because she's a gold-diggin whore who is smart enough to realize you're not the richest nikka on the planet. Probably not even the richest nikka in your neighborhood, but yet they need money to equal confidence/success

 

[LionofJudah]

Thats exactly what it is...


I think it's a real issue with nikkas too. They want they chick to be dependent on them so she won't leave them or some extra shyt. So the more money they make, the more secure they feel about their relationship...

When in reality, she's probably fukking around on them anyway because she's a gold-diggin whore who is smart enough to realize you're not the richest nikka on the planet. Probably not even the richest nikka in your neighborhood

Exactly, it's sad really.

 

[kevm3]

You get respect by demanding it. If a woman senses you have a weak character and are prone to let things slide, she will hone in on that and try you. It's not necessarily about money, although it does play a factor. There are several of these rich guys get broken in half and disrespected by their woman as soon as she gets comfortable and has him 'locked-in'. It's what what you have. It's what you think and what you do. If you carry yourself in a certain way and don't allow women to exercise dominion over you, then you will eventually get that respect.

Signs a woman doesn't respect you? she keeps around all those 'male homies'. she constantly yells on you or gets loud in public. she's willing to put her hands on you. if a woman senses she can 'pull that' on you, she will.

 

[usopp]

when she doesn't have tha decency to get outta her chair or take out her dentures fukk you grandma!!!!

 

[saint25225]

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[O.T.I.S.]

Exactly, it's sad really.

Yep

Oh, and I hope yall nikkas don't live by military bases, college towns, or anything. If you too insecure to let a chick work and make more money than you, or letting her disrespect you in any way shape or form, then she's probably cheating on you..


A LOT..


like getting tossed up hardcore porno style. Them housewives with ritchie rich, insecure douche husbands got a lot of time on they hands

 

[mcdivit85]

Lastly, there seems to be this idea that dudes who have money are somehow intrinsically weak or allow their women to walk all over them. Dudes been watching too much reality TV or reading too many online gossip sites. That's not real life...the most domineering men that I've ever seen have been men with money who were leaders. And the most submissive women were with men who were breadwinners AND leaders...not that "she make 50k more than me but I'm still the man cuz I got a dikk" sh#t.

I'm talking dudes telling their wife "Jane, shut up" with a straight face and not even mad at her...just on some matter of fact tip. Oh, and their wife shut up and didn't even make a face. Now, how many dudes who make less than their chick AND have always made less than their chick can do that and it be all good? We already know the answer.

No, being a leader and being a man is NOT about money. Those characteristics are self-evident and can garner an adequate level of respect from a woman. However, if any man truly thinks that he will get the utmost of respect from his woman while he is financially child-like in comparison to her, then I have the Eiffel Tower on sale for 40% off this weekend only.

Eh, I'm done with this one. For all the dudes who think they're winning with their chick making way more than them, then your cake is waiting for you.

Peace

 

[Ronnie Lott]

I don't know if this has been said yet. But if your bytch talks to u crazy in front of your homies or your family ,then that bytch doesnt respect u at all

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Lastly, there seems to be this idea that dudes who have money are somehow intrinsically weak or allow their women to walk all over them. Dudes been watching too much reality TV or reading too many online gossip sites. That's not real life...the most domineering men that I've ever seen have been men with money who were leaders. And the most submissive women were with men who were breadwinners AND leaders...not that "she make 50k more than me but I'm still the man cuz I got a dikk" sh#t.

I'm talking dudes telling their wife "Jane, shut up" with a straight face and not even mad at her...just on some matter of fact tip. Oh, and their wife shut up and didn't even make a face. Now, how many dudes who make less than their chick AND have always made less than their chick can do that and it be all good? We already know the answer.

No, being a leader and being a man is NOT about money. Those characteristics are self-evident and can garner an adequate level of respect from a woman. However, if any man truly thinks that he will get the utmost of respect from his woman while he is financially child-like in comparison to her, then I have the Eiffel Tower on sale for 40% off this weekend only.

Eh, I'm done with this one. For all the dudes who think they're winning with their chick making way more than them, then your cake is waiting for you.

Peace

I could be wrong, but I was brought up to believe women don't like insecure ass nikkas


Feeling threatened by what a woman makes screams insecurity... Which Is why successful women probably mess with thug ass nikkas I'm guessing.

It sounds like weak minded nikkas needing to be with even weaker minded women to keep control of a household.

Why would I ever have to tell my woman to shut up? I don't think I've ever had to do that and I've always been the breadwinner. What situation would you have to be in where you would tell her to shut up.

I think it's this need to be the alpha male ass nikkas who are usually the most insecure anyway. Can't stand to see PEOPLE who they view inferior to do better than them... Sounds familiar, black people?

And still is not explaining how these bread winning leaders still end up getting disrespected in their own household.


Abraham Lincoln was a leader, Martin Luther King, fukk even president Obama. Despite them being the breadwinners in their fam, do you think Obama had a problem with Michelle making better money? Or, let's say, you think Obama would just say "stfu Michelle lol " and everything be cool?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

And just to add, if nikkas was really on this head of the household shyt, then they wouldn't want their woman working AT ALL. It worked in the 50's and prior. But that's not what they want. They want a woman to make money, just not more money than them so their precious ego won't be fractured. To me, that's the definition of a bytch. And they say I'm less of a man because it doesn't faze me? shyt reminds me of that Martin episode when he couldn't take Gina making more money than him.

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[marcuz]

this old nikka living in the 1950s

im under 30 but i agree. the 50s produced a much higher quality of black men and women

 

[marcuz]

I didn't bring up the white man, he did. That's how that part of the topic began.

and i'm glad i did, because it shows what type of stupid shyt nikkas are on. "i dont care about the white mans currency, im waiting for everything to collapse" these are the nikkas black women have to depend on? i get it now, black women go get you a white man cus these nikkas is retarded

and @TheStripper, why co-sign men making less than their women? what benefit does it offer besides a little bit a control? funny part is your first insult towards me is that i'm broke. women love to pretend they dont care about the money until they do

 

[marcuz]

Yes it is. Its all good until things get rocky and then the "we, us and ours" start turning into the "me, my and I's." Peeped game early, so I never got caught up in that kind of thing in a relationship, but I've seen it time and time again. F#cking and coddling a man is not on the same planet as respecting and submitting to a man.

Its the difference between a woman washing your clothes because you're like a man-child(a la Baby Boy) who needs her help versus a woman washing your clothes because she sees you as a king who's worthy of having his woman prepare his garments. Too many men, especially black men, don't realize this until things get rough in the relationship, and she starts to tell him what she really thinks about him as a cub ill-prepared for this world of lions.

**waits for the "not if your d#ck game is A1 tho" comments**

Peace

its sad that only a handful out of maybe hundreds of posters understand this

then again, black men are acting like women at this point. looking for a woman to provide for them