Signs your girl doesn't respect you

[marcuz]

I think @LionofJudah might have a point as far as women making more money than you. Just because she makes more money than me doesn't mean she has more money than me. It's not about how much money you make, its about how much you can keep. She can make 130 k and you make 60 k, but if she blows all the money and your stacking 30 k who is in the better position. Antoine walker made over 100 million dollars and has nothing to show for, hell probably every poster in this forum has more money than him. So yea under this capitalistic system money is important but if you manage it right it doesn't matter if ya chick is making more than you.

i really dont know how to tackle this either. in your scenario, why does the woman have to automatically be frivilous with her money? how about the nikka making 60k is still piled up in debt and the chick earning 130k is frugal with her money.

even still, the chick burning through twice as much income DEFINITELY isnt going to respect you when it comes time to lean on you to carry the weight.

 

[EA]

If she doesn't understands that you're not always going to agree with each other's viewpoint
If she gets upset when you do things to elevate your status above hers
If she only wants to go out when it suits her
If she refers to you as her 'friend' when talking to her parents
If she looks at things as "Her way or no way"
If she expects you to show an interest in things she likes but doesn't reciprocate when you wanna do/show her something.

 

[marcuz]

earning less money than your woman is a really sore subject for black men. i wonder why friends are so eager to tear down the idea of the natural family structure. is it because we're lazy and dont want to network? is it because black men max out their ambition at p*ssy? is it because nikkas always heard their dads say "go ask your mother," or is it because they didn't have a father at all?

either way, i notice friends are creating hypothetical situations where the woman is a whore, prostitute and gold digger, when YOU'RE in a better financial position. but when shes the bread winner, it's just love, right? because clearly she loves you for YOU. so why wouldn't these ladies love you for you, if you were in a better financial situation?


reminds me of the time a coli poster got on tinychat, talking all that "imma man, i run my house hold" shyt. only for his wife to start punking the life out of this KING on live stream; she literally put him on suspension from the internet.


but yet, y'all kings, in her castle. :todd:

 

[BrothaZay]

She doesnt introduce you to her friends.

Doesn't apply. I don't care how you try to spin it, a woman who respects her dude will not MENTION her past sexual experiences to him

If she says anything bad about you dikk or sex game

Her phone has a password and you dont know what it is.

When you don't respect yourself

- She has no problem being "flirty" and physical with your friends/other men in front of you
- She curses you out in public
- She hangs up on you abruptly
- She pushes the toothpaste from the middle of the tube

If she interrupts you or hangs the phone up on you. Two simple signs she doesn't respect you.

When She Doesn't Look You In The Eyes Anymore - If your girl no longer looks you in the eyes, then most likely you've lost her respect. When your significant other respects you, she will hold eye contact with you and will look deep into your eyes. However, if she no-longer respect you, she will do everything possible to keep from looking you right in your eyes, and not only that she's most likely cheating on you, ladies tell me if I'm wrong.

she won't let you drive her car

Running up and hugging dudes



I see that all the time

Signs a woman doesn't respect you? she keeps around all those 'male homies'. she constantly yells on you or gets loud in public. she's willing to put her hands on you. if a woman senses she can 'pull that' on you, she will.

These are the only good quotes in this thread. The rest are on some joke shyt, or just dumb.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I dont know... I guess I been around pimp ass nikkas that thinks it's a good thing if a chick brings cash back to you. Black men in the 50's were a better breed of man/woman but i dont know, was it because men made more money? Or was it because they were stronger individuals who went through shyt and stood for shyt collectively? Y'all nikkas is saying that nikkas is playing a female role when these breadwinners is just as insecure, which is a females trait, and some are still being disrespected despite.

And idk... I don't care if a chick makes more than me. And I've had both my parents in my life and never played a female role.Never allowed a woman disrespect me in a relationship and not check her on it, because I know I don't have to be in shyt.

earning less money than your woman is a really sore subject for black men. i wonder why friends are so eager to tear down the idea of the natural family structure. is it because we're lazy and dont want to network? is it because black men max out their ambition at p*ssy? is it because nikkas always heard their dads say "go ask your mother," or is it because they didn't have a father at all?

either way, i notice friends are creating hypothetical situations where the woman is a whore, prostitute and gold digger, when YOU'RE in a better financial position. but when shes the bread winner, it's just love, right? because clearly she loves you for YOU. so why wouldn't these ladies love you for you, if you were in a better financial situation?


reminds me of the time a coli poster got on tinychat, talking all that "imma man, i run my house hold" shyt. only for his wife to start punking the life out of this KING on live stream; she literally put him on suspension from the internet.


but yet, y'all kings, in her castle. :todd:

so I'm guessing y'all lil minds, if a woman makes more money then it's her castle, right? Because she's paying all the bills, mortgage, food, etc?


That's where y'all sucking at. Regardless if my chick makes more money, all that is going to be taken care of by me anyway. It should be regardless, right?

Step your pimpin games up brehs, I don't need a woman to do shyt for me but treat me like a man that I deserve to be treated like. If not, she can kick rocks and take her income with her

 

[saint25225]

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[marcuz]

I dont know... I guess I been around pimp ass nikkas that thinks it's a good thing if a chick brings cash back to you.

yeah, thats were we differ. pimps aren't real men to me, they're ho nikkas that abuse and manipulate women.

Black men in the 50's were a better breed of man/woman but i dont know, was it because men made more money? Or was it because they were stronger individuals who went through shyt and stood for shyt collectively? Y'all nikkas is saying that nikkas is playing a female role when these breadwinners is just as insecure, which is a females trait, and some are still being disrespected despite.

what makes you think those who go out and really earn are insecure? or just as insecure as the guy who's making less than his woman? once again, you take whatever guy you want to prop up, and give him 100k more, is he not the same person but with more resources?

And idk... I don't care if a chick makes more than me.

most black men dont care, no surprise here.

so I'm guessing y'all lil minds, if a woman makes more money then it's her castle, right? Because she's paying all the bills, mortgage, food, etc?

if she's paying all the bills, mortgage, food, etc. it IS her castle, wtf

That's where y'all sucking at. Regardless if my chick makes more money, all that is going to be taken care of by me anyway. It should be regardless, right?

Step your pimpin games up brehs, I don't need a woman to do shyt for me but treat me like a man that I deserve to be. If not, she can kick rocks regardless of her income

y'all nikkas listen to too much tariq nasheed. do you, PIMPIN. i'd rather earn mine than bully (or game) a female out of hers

 

[Ain't That Something]

nikkas can deny it left and right if ya want too. Money equals power better yet wealth equals power no matter what society ya in. Believe all this I lay the pipe right, my manhood ain't attach to my money, I demand respect and whatever blah the fukk blah ya done convince ya' selves off as to why your woman is dominating you financially. Wealth is power, name me one organization that was ran by the poorest nikka in it and I will admit I was wrong and shut the fukk up, untill then I'm waiting ...

 

[mrken12]

earning less money than your woman is a really sore subject for black men.

Any man from any race is going to feel the same way about the topic.

However black women are the worst when it comes to the whole breadwinner topic because their heads have been gased up with the "independent woman" propaganda.

 

[marcuz]

nikkas can deny it left and right if ya want too. Money equals power better yet wealth equals power no matter what society ya in. Believe all this I lay the pipe right, my manhood ain't attach to my money, I demand respect and whatever blah the fukk blah ya done convince ya' selves off as to why your woman is dominating you financially. Wealth is power, name me one organization that was ran by the poorest nikka in it and I will admit I was wrong and shut the fukk up, untill then I'm waiting ...

nikkas are clueless about how power actually works. it's sad because even black women get it. it's just nikkas on an island, alone, holding their dikks talking about "MY MASCULINITY! MY SWAGG, MY dikkK"

 

[marcuz]

Any man from any race is going to feel the same way about the topic.

yeah but we're the only race that's accepted it as the status quo

However black women are the worst when it comes to the whole breadwinner topic because their heads have been gased up with the "independent woman" propaganda.

as they SHOULD. hell, dealing with a bunch of dummies who dont even understand the power of money, i dont blame them!

 

[O.T.I.S.]

yeah, thats were we differ. pimps aren't real men to me, they're ho nikkas that abuse and manipulate women.


what makes you think those who go out and really earn are insecure? or just as insecure as the guy who's making less than his woman? once again, you take whatever guy you want to prop up, and give him 100k more, is he not the same person but with more resources?



most black men dont care, no surprise here.


if she's paying all the bills, mortgage, food, etc. it IS her castle, wtf




y'all nikkas listen to too much tariq nasheed. do you, PIMPIN. i'd rather earn mine than bully (or game) a female out of hers

You obviously looked at my post and saw what you wanted to see
First, I was saying that everything is going to be paid by me REGARDLESS, her income is extra. Don't live beyond your fukking means. It's like when you get a roommate, don't get a apartment that you can't afford to live in yourself.

I know pimps now that don't have to beat women. But with your primitive thinking, telling the chick to shut up or acting like nikkas in the 50's... Who would smack their women up regularly, is ok to you. But as long as they aren't pimps...

And nah,, you're just an insecure human being, a female trait. You scared that your chick making more than you is disrespectful. Not if you already handling your business as a man, then it shouldn't matter how much she gets paid. The rest is help or extra....but you don't think like that because you insecure

And I don't listen to no one, I had black male role models who made me aware that chicks don't like insecure nikkas..

 

[mrken12]

yeah but we're the only race that's accepted it as the status quo

According to who? Overall there are still more black men with high salaries than black women. However, black women are the ones who pursue the guys not making as much to inflate their own egos.

 

[marcuz]

According to who? Overall there are still more black men with high salaries than black women.

this is true, men make more than women as a collective. but our gap is literally a couple of thousand.

even still, in the context of men dating up and women dating down. that is the status quo

 

[mrken12]

this is true, men make more than women as a collective. but our gap is literally a couple of thousand.

even still, in the context of men dating up and women dating down. that is the status quo

Notice how you said dating. Most guys aren't going to marry those women making more. And vice versa for the women dating the guys making less.