if a women isn't excited by your presence and interactions you need to bush her lol.
Signs she’s settling for you
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Devilinurear
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She had me listed in her phone as this motherfukker
Have you been being annoying at all, OP?
Perhaps your desperation to make her chase you is apparent by your actions.
Also you mention this is “one of” the girls you’re seeing. Why do you place women in competition when ultimately you KNOW one is gonna lose and potentially be heartbroken?
Perhaps your desperation to make her chase you is apparent by your actions.
Also you mention this is “one of” the girls you’re seeing. Why do you place women in competition when ultimately you KNOW one is gonna lose and potentially be heartbroken?
It’s not being insecure, the fact is you can’t be everyone’s type. Like I said above I already had a roster and narrowed it down to two. Tbh I should’ve bushed this girl earlier but she was so bad lol but my main girl is bad too, difference is she’s damn near obsessed with me while the girl I bushed acted like she was doing me a favorwhole thread insecure as fukk
Brandsdale
Big Yella
70% of TLR got some kinda fukkin quirk lmaoBrah for real seek therapy.I swear your post history is
Amo Husserl
Superstar
True...
I seen some things.
Dimes can get wise when they brick and find love with dudes they would have settled for a couple years ago.
That equal grade point spot on... equality go both ways though...
I gotta duck dimes from ten years ago because they bricked.
Time somethin' else boy, I tell ya.
bourgeoisie tall freak
Superstar
you used to other girls chasing you but you still aren't with them.
maybe your priorities aren't in order..... or like you said "your ego"
maybe your priorities aren't in order..... or like you said "your ego"
Peter Popoff
AKA Petty Pimpiń..🤑
From personal experience, sometimes it's the dudes (or women) that's overselling themselves then get disappointed from delusions of grandeur.
That humble pie makes them reminisce over the good ones they undervalued.
Once you know your true value and can find the middle ground of what to accept and overlook (i.e., a little overweight/underweight, has a gap/underbite, loves cats, etc..) you'll truly be blessed. They'll bring peace.
I have friends that's in there 40's, bitter and single, still trying to relive their past without looking in the mirror and what can build their future. They're scared of settling. To them it's failure.
Alternatively, they could end up with a beautiful nightmare (a
) that affects their health (mental, spiritual, physical).That woman that OP is referring to is on the opposite side of that mirror especially if they're young.
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These are really weird, vague, gaslighting replies. What the fukk do either of these even mean?
threattonature
Veteran
Yeah as cliche as it sounds you can often tell by the look in their eye and their demeanor when they are around you. When they REALLY fukk with you or are into they light up around you, their whole energy changes when they see you. You can see a spark in their eye. I always feel bad for dudes who have never been with a woman who looks at them like that.
I’ve seen women who are late 30s, 40s
Who once was in their late teens , 20s chasing after the rappers, dope boys, the so called live nikkas and now they have a little degree , better job/money now has all of a sudden become these women who not so called settling and u have to be making a certain amount of money, have this certain look and style, etc
Remember these are the same women who spread those same legs open to nikkas with no future, no steady job/benefits, and used and played but they want to wipe that passed away and now want to rebrand themselves as this go to woman
U nikkas better wake up
Who once was in their late teens , 20s chasing after the rappers, dope boys, the so called live nikkas and now they have a little degree , better job/money now has all of a sudden become these women who not so called settling and u have to be making a certain amount of money, have this certain look and style, etc
Remember these are the same women who spread those same legs open to nikkas with no future, no steady job/benefits, and used and played but they want to wipe that passed away and now want to rebrand themselves as this go to woman
U nikkas better wake up
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bourgeoisie tall freak
Superstar
it's plain english.
like how a lot of guys like to say about women that think she has a preference "i need a rich man to buy me things".... but the majority of people in the world are working class and a lot of broke ninjas are in relationships. is that gaslighting to point out that flaw in logic?
people think they want it one way, but it's the other.
as far as the OP specifically, he is there first hand so he would know the vibes better. but just cuz a girl isn't all over you doesn't mean she doesn't like you as much. some people just aren't affection and are used to the other person initiating. OP himself says he is used to girls all over him, so maybe the girl is used to the same
but what is a fact is that those girls he claims were all over him are not in the picture now so who cares.
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nah, he's not wrong on this. he's just experiencing a woman who may see him as one of a few options. he's not wrong. she ain't for him frfrBrah for real seek therapy.