Should the fatherless blame their Mom for not being wise enough to choose a solid Man?

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Uhhh no nikka, I know guys who sell drugs that are at every football game, every ballet recital, every parent teacher conference and making sure their kid is getting straight As every marking period. What someone does for money in this country especially as a black man has no bearing on their fathering skills.

Not all drug dealers are crazy, immoral people.It's some good folks out there trying to hustle, but it's still a shaky foundation.

That lifestyle will have a good dude away from his kids sooner or later.It will have some bearing on their fathering skills.

 

[Kaypain]

@KTP

Keep ya head up breh

I'm confused....

Why you so upset? You really don't have a father do you?

It hurt seeing all those men going in the back with your moms didn't?




It aint my fault bruh.

I posted a picture of me and father at my College graduation


He said I didn't have a father and I disproved that.

His response was going at my shoes? (which are Jordans)


I don't know wtf he's talking about now?

whatever gets you a plat thread I guess

 

[Kaypain]

I see a lot of Fatherless people blame everyone in world for their issues except themselves and their mom. Is it time for the fatherless to ask their Mom why she couldn't keep a decent man around? Why the TV, Rappers and the streets had to raise them?


@KTP Had to watch man after man going to the backroom with his mom. He never learned how to ride a bike. Sits on the toilet to piss. Dude is all fukked up. And is mad at anyone with a father.

I'll give you a pity dap

 

[StickStickly]

I have seen people that come from two parent homes do the exact same thing, blame others for their problems (check White people).

OP doesn't really believe that himself though, he just wanted to take shots at @KTP

White kids will have two parents- a dad with a great career who pays their way through college and a Mom who taught them how to read at 2 and made homemade dinner every night and they kiss and hug each other and send them to Sunday school every week and they will still find a way to blame Mom and Dad.

 

[Serious]

The same men who blame the woman for getting pregnant are the same men who purposely seek out low self esteem no father around type of females just to get easy sex from them. I've seen guys right here in the locker room brag on taking advantage of damaged women.

that 80/20 rule

 

[Serious]

White kids will have two parents- a dad with a great career who pays their way through college and a Mom who taught them how to read at 2 and made homemade dinner every night and they kiss and hug each other and send them to Sunday school every week and they will still find a way to blame Mom and Dad.

Careful now. The family dynamic is currently changing. There's a growing population of single(divorced WW)....

 

[InfinateOpulance]

It appears my comment burned your soul.

If you are a woman who makes poor decisions it’s okay to own up to them.

You’re only lying to yourself if you choose to ignore and acknowledge stupid decisions.

Pray for me then.
That's what Christians do right?

 

[GodsPerspective]

9 months


And are you ok?

No bb I'm not.

I'm just tired of hoes and your male sidekicks. shyts frustrating to see

 

[AkilinaArina]

I can tell you're white.

 

[Shorty K]

The black community will forever be trash until women take 100% responsibility for what they allow in their bodies.

 

[UncleTomFord15]

I can tell you're white.

Wanna make a ban bet sir

 

[Rawtid]

It’s soley on the man. There are people whose dad’s lived with them and their dad’s weren’t shyt.

 

[MaxPain]

Every thread this nikka makes backfires

 

[AkilinaArina]

Wanna make a ban bet sir

It's ma'am to you, and im black unlike you Uncle Tom.

 

[AkilinaArina]

Not all drug dealers are crazy, immoral people.It's some good folks out there trying to hustle, but it's still a shaky foundation.

That lifestyle will have a good dude away from his kids sooner or later.It will have some bearing on their fathering skills.

Not saying it's the best thing for a father to be but some men who are into stuff like that lead that life completely separately from their children and their household. I'm talking real life not cookie cutter messageboard talk. This happens everyday especially in poor areas.