Should the fatherless blame their Mom for not being wise enough to choose a solid Man?

[channelblond]

you weirdos be so butt hurt by my thread. Like holding grudges and followed me. Reading my old post. Lmao. too funny.

My life is cool, 50k to 100k to whatever, I know how to live, love and laugh at loser like you. Money helps me, but it doesnt make me. I have pretty girls before i had a car.

Only a broke dusty lame would be so frustrated with something someone post on a forum.

Reading your old posts, when did I do that ? I commented on your threads because it was placed on the front page.

You called me broke, so I said lets do a ban bet who is broke then.

I got nothing against you, I love to see another brother doing his thing....which you are obviously doing

Maybe we just had misunderstanding

 

[agpxknt]

The black community will forever be trash until women take 100% responsibility for what they allow in their bodies.

yea, thats just not gon fukkin happen
gotta find another way

 

[Shorty K]

yea, thats just not gon fukkin happen
gotta find another way

Big facts. It's why I have next to no faith in the black community. The sickest part is that they got agents like @Draje telling them that their bodies aren't their responsibility further confusing the women and keeping them from taking full control of their responsibilities and fixing the community.

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

It's a failure across the board. You run out on your baby then you're worthless. On the other hand nikkax know when they man's ain't shyt from the jump so to see women struggle with making that call until it's too late is inexcusable

 

[William F. Russell]

They say they want accountability but when it's time for them to be held accountable, they don't want anything to do with it.

 

[Wear My Dawg's Hat]

Why is there always an assumption that Mom was solid herself to begin with?

 

[paperbag]

Show me ONE case where a dude up front told a chick he ain't shyt and he's gonna run off, and shorty still let him skeet in her.

 

[intruder]

Sure but we feel you're hiding behind your success stories to cover up/bandaid other wounds, brother.
Aint no shame or judgement here. We've all done it to some degree because we've all been hurt
And we all find refuge in our success stories on some "fukk the world" type shyt to cover the wounds. If it makes you comfortable we can all share our stories and open up together. NoHomo

I'm all for it bruh. My life is pretty good. My house that me and my dad renovating is paid off. Money good, hoez, cars.



Really i think it's a sad for a kid to not grow with a father. Real talk. Its killing our community.

@Stuntone ,

How's your relationship with your mom?

https://goo.gl/images/3Nfpd3

 

[NoChillJones]

What percentage of women are having kids with loser men they know aren't going to be around? I'd say more than 50% So that's way too many and it's killing our community.

Believe that women out here willingly getting knocked up KNOWING that the man will be a dead beat and abandon their own child.

At some point BLACK MEN we have to take accountability for the "hard on hoes" culture we champion and too many of us abide by. Sure its some dust bucket ass women out here. But if a man abandons a woman and the child, that's not really on the women.

You can't excuse that man's cowardly actions and then tell the woman......."you should have chose better"....

Thats ruining the community. Grown ass men who are so worried about what black women are doing and essentially demanding they be punished for the misfortunes our young boys are going through, while not chastising our fellow brothers who run away from the responsibility that should be theirs and theirs alone. RAISING THE CHILDREN THEY CREATE......

Off my pulpit.............bunch of disgraceful ass nikkas in our generation I tell you.....

 

[InfinateOpulance]

Believe that women out here willingly getting knocked up KNOWING that the man will be a dead beat and abandon their own child.

At some point BLACK MEN we have to take accountability for the "hard on hoes" culture we champion and too many of us abide by. Sure its some dust bucket ass women out here. But if a man abandons a woman and the child, that's not really on the women.

You can't excuse that man's cowardly actions and then tell the woman......."you should have chose better"....

Thats ruining the community. Grown ass men who are so worried about what black women are doing and essentially demanding they be punished for the misfortunes our young boys are going through, while not chastising our fellow brothers who run away from the responsibility that should be theirs and theirs alone. RAISING THE CHILDREN THEY CREATE......

Off my pulpit.............bunch of disgraceful ass nikkas in our generation I tell you.....

Couldn't have said it better myself...

 

[semicko82]

By the time you put all the pieces together and have a full understanding of your parents mindsets they're going to be to old to beat them up about it.


If Ya mama pushing 50 and you berrating her about shyt she did at 20 or as a teenager..........? The man in the mirror may need the examination.

They should be took to task. They bought a life in this world

 

[semicko82]

Believe that women out here willingly getting knocked up KNOWING that the man will be a dead beat and abandon their own child.

At some point BLACK MEN we have to take accountability for the "hard on hoes" culture we champion and too many of us abide by. Sure its some dust bucket ass women out here. But if a man abandons a woman and the child, that's not really on the women.

You can't excuse that man's cowardly actions and then tell the woman......."you should have chose better"....

Thats ruining the community. Grown ass men who are so worried about what black women are doing and essentially demanding they be punished for the misfortunes our young boys are going through, while not chastising our fellow brothers who run away from the responsibility that should be theirs and theirs alone. RAISING THE CHILDREN THEY CREATE......

Off my pulpit.............bunch of disgraceful ass nikkas in our generation I tell you.....

Women still choose who they have sex with no matter what happens

 

[paperbag]

Believe that women out here willingly getting knocked up KNOWING that the man will be a dead beat and abandon their own child.

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If a man wont marry you, he probably doesnt want to take care of you and a child. This was agreed to female policy for thousands of years, why is it so hard to understand now?

 

[Mowgli]

They should be took to task. They bought a life in this world

It will get you nowhere and typically is just used as an excuse for personal problems you're unable to resolve

 

[Wear My Dawg's Hat]

Thank you for further perpetuating the cycle that we're in by recycling the narrative that got the generation that adheres to it in this mess. Your mindset is a real asset to cac supremacy in keeping single mother rates growing and the community in chaos.

Chaos it is.

The same folks who once told us that marriage is a suffocating, patriarchal, outdated institution for women, are now cautioning men not to "run out" on their kids (whatever that means...).