Should I target fat girls when I'm thirsty?

[Dwolf]

So how did you know it was a life story?

How indeed

 

[Dameon Farrow]

If you want to target bigger women, go do it and see if it is easy for you. Most females are insecure though tbh not just bigger women. They just have an insecurity that might be more obvious to the public eye. All you're doing is exploiting a weakness. You find that in any female and you are good to go regardless of how she looks. Most full time pimps will tell you that advise for free.

@A Woman's Opinion yes people tend to be resentful of accolades they feel they should have received from Jump Street. And in a perfect world men would show off a female regardless. But I'm the type of dude to be totally honest(older I get the more I realize people in general and especially females respond better to full blown honesty), having a good looking woman on a dude's arms is a damn good look and some dudes will react to that accordingly. It isn't really so much about how others' view you. Not entirely. I feel better driving my car when it's washed and wheels have that shine to them than when it's dirty. It isn't so much how others view my car. If they like it, cool. I just feel better personally. That isn't really fair(nor is it the best comparison ever but it gets the point across) but life really isn't the fairest of all time either.

 

[YaBoy]

Sadly, my love life was much better before. Much better. I have someone in my life now who is great. But after weight loss I really went through it, ya know?

I can't believe how important looks are to men, and how differently men treat women they are attracted to. (which is sad and wrong, because you should be respectful and a gentleman to ALL women. NOT just the ones you're attracted to.

Don't get me wrong, I have always been a good dresser and funny. I have always had a lot of "friends". But treated me different when I lost weight.Things as simple as men running to hold doors open for me, and greeting me more. Giving me extra stuff at a store or food spot. Never having to buy my own drink at the bar. Slow rocking to a song in the club, and then you look up and it's about 2-3 guys around you trying to make eye contact with you. (When you're used to no one really bothering you.) It's weird. I am not used to men liking me for how I look. They liked me for who I was before. I prefer that. It is harder now to sort through a lot of the "riff raff" you get when your options open up.

THEN, when you finally get a guy you like, and he doesn't trust you or is insecure, because he thinks you got ten other dudes. lol Men you reject hating on you. Men not being able to take "NO" for an answer, so you have to be "mean" to guys or have an attitude to make the man STOP liking you in order to get them to leave you alone. lol You can't be too nice, because then they think they have a chance. Or worse, they go around telling people they "talk" to you, and be lying. (or straight up confused) Oh yeah, the pretty girl struggle is real. lol

I lost about 50 lbs, and luckily I didn't get too many stretch marks. That's what I was afraid of. lol

The guys from my past I still have great friendships with today. My first love and I are still cool, and I am really cool with his wife too. Another guy I was seeing for years off and on is like one of my brothers best friends, he is like family to me. The other one is currently in jail, but we ended on good terms, and we catch up whenever we can. (I am cool with his baby mother too. lol) It was rough at first, because some of them wanted me back after my weight loss and felt entitled to me, because they cared for me before. (I almost had to get a restraining order on one of them. It got rough, but eventually he accepted it was OVER. I had just outgrew them.

Didn't expect you to type this much
So would you rather be fat again?

 

[mrken12]

Hell no. Guys like that are part of the problem and the reason why fat chicks are full of themselves (don't ask how). These enablers and chubby chasers (who aren't engaging in much of a chase

) are giving them false confidence.

 

[ignorethis]

A pretty chubby bytch usually got a lot options as well, so weight ain't the most relevant factor.

A ugly fat bytch, yea, but you could still get curved, cause even they have options.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Didn't expect you to type this much
So would you rather be fat again?

For health reasons, and because I really love the gym now... NO!

But for the purpose of not attracting all that superficial foolishness, and what I look like NOT being the focus... YES!

I think Oprah secretly sabotages her weight loss journeys for this purpose too... She wants the focus to be on who she is, and what she says and does....not her looks, or what she's wearing. Putting all the focus on your looks, body and clothes is for STUPID women who don't have anything else to offer. (Draya)

Yes, I type a lot. I think some men on this site need full insight from an honest woman. I know there are other girls on this site, but I intend on being completely open.honest and fair.

 

[el_oh_el]

Yes

Truly depends on how fat tho..some whales can NOT get it

 

[mrken12]

A pretty chubby bytch usually got a lot options as well, so weight ain't the most relevant factor.

A ugly fat bytch, yea, but you could still get curved, cause even they have options.

Examples?

 

[mrken12]

For health reasons, and because I really love the gym now... NO!

But for the purpose of not attracting all that superficial foolishness, and what I look like NOT being the focus... YES!

I think Oprah secretly sabotages her weight loss journeys for this purpose too... She wants the focus to be on who she is, and what she says and does....not her looks, or what she's wearing. Putting all the focus on your looks, body and clothes is for STUPID women who don't have anything else to offer. (Draya)

Yes, I type a lot. I think some men on this site need full insight from an honest woman. I know there are other girls on this site, but I intend on being completely open.honest and fair.

 

[Kenny West]

For health reasons, and because I really love the gym now... NO!

But for the purpose of not attracting all that superficial foolishness, and what I look like NOT being the focus... YES!

I think Oprah secretly sabotages her weight loss journeys for this purpose too... She wants the focus to be on who she is, and what she says and does....not her looks, or what she's wearing. Putting all the focus on your looks, body and clothes is for STUPID women who don't have anything else to offer. (Draya)

Yes, I type a lot. I think some men on this site need full insight from an honest woman. I know there are other girls on this site, but I intend on being completely open.honest and fair.

I've read this before. I don't understand why so many chicks come to this site thinking they finna enlighten us uncouth masses with your opinions but do ya thing shawty. Your posts are actually aight.

Try not to get driven off here before march I don't think it'll last

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

I've read this before. I don't understand why so many chicks come to this site thinking they finna enlighten the masses with yall opinions but do ya thing shawty. Your posts are actually aight.

Try not to get driven off here before march I don't think it'll last

I won't. I will not type such personal stuff, but I will be detailed in my opinions and how I came to them.

I am not here so much to change anyone's opinions or "enlighten the masses", but I think a woman's voice is necessary in these "barber shop like" atmospheres.

Just like males voices are needed places like LSA.

 

[mrken12]

I won't. I will not type such personal stuff, but I will be detailed in my opinions and how I came to them.

I am not here so much to change anyone's opinions or "enlighten the masses", but I think a woman's voice is necessary in these "barber shop like" atmospheres.

Just like males voices are needed places like LSA.

No they aren't.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

No they aren't.

 

[Rich Spirit]

fat girls

have some damn dignity