I'm normally all for blaming men, but I've personally seen women talk to their men like he's nothing, mush him in the forehead and he never says anything.Like I said most dv issue start with a couple fighting. But due to history the man is always looked at as the one at fault.
Girl I used to be friends with broke her dude's finger and he sent her head flying through a wall. She called me all upset and I'm like that man's finger is broken!!