Shedding light on the ugly domestic violence epidemic in the black community

[Victoria Wade]

DAMN!Are we not worthy?I hate how everyone is so damn dismissive of us.And not to victim blame but I have notice that black men from the hood such hoodlums,thugs,gangters,bad boys,ballers are prone to be evil abusive a$$holes.I really think black women should avoid these types of a$$holes,and not run behind them,like they tend do.

 

[Spike Tarantino]

It's still less likely to happen if you don't date a thug and date a nerdy dude.

You are also more likely to die in a plane crash if you get on a plane. Doesn't mean the pilot should have been drunk. The pilot is the cause, not the passengers.

It shouldn't be happening, period, on that I'm sure we can agree.

 

[bcrusaderw]

Bill O'Reilly is that you??

You going to address @7Revo for saying the exact same thing?

 

[Samori Toure]

Not reading ignorant comments in here. RIP to the victim,Very sad case.Another thing so called "Restraining Orders" DONT work in these type of cases, and whats more ridiciolous is courts saying "Stay 30 yards away".....lets not ignore the courts when it comes to this too.These victims are never truly 100% protected by the courts unless they are given security 24-7. Im not gonna touch the topic if she should have chose better doesn't matter she cant defend herself.Sad situation....
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That is the thing with domestic violence; it is not a real issue for the Courts. The dude kept beating on her, because they never really locked his ass up. A lot of people could be spared abuse and even been still be alive today if the Courts and for that matter the legislature dealt more harshly with abusers. First of all they need real time, because this letting them out jail shyt just makes the matter worse. Secondly, abusers need intensive counseling while incarcerated, because if they don't get counseling then they are probably just going to become serial abusers after being released.

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

I have never said that. They do, but like you yourself said the thugs are a much higher population.

And same 4 hoodrats and ratchets

 

[wickedsm]

That's another WEAK, DEFEATIST, COP-OUT, statement that gets tossed around, that I absolutely abhor with every fiber of my existence.

It literally IS THAT SIMPLE.

And if the woman doesn't leave when the opportunity presents itself, I have ZERO sympathy.

Okay I get that you and some other posters feel that th ed woman who doesn't leave deserves no sympathy.
We've heard that the victims are at fault, stupid and pick the wrong men.
got it.

I would like to know what are your feelings about the abuser.

 

[Blackout]

You are also more likely to die in a plane crash if you get on a plane. Doesn't mean the pilot should have been drunk. The pilot is the cause, not the passengers.

It shouldn't be happening, period, on that I'm sure we can agree.

Yea when you go with dangeruous dudes is like flying a plane blindfolded.

Hood mentality dudes don't even hide that they are dangerous yet we got women going with them

Yes it shouldn't be happening period but since this isn't a perfect world we must try our best to not run right into it.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

That is the thing with domestic violence; it is not a real issue for the Courts. The dude kept beating on her, because they never really locked his ass up. A lot of people could be spared abuse and even been still be alive today if the Courts and for that matter the legislature dealt more harshly with abusers. First of all they need real time, because this letting them out jail shyt just makes the matter worse. Secondly, abusers need intensive counseling while incarcerated, because if they don't get counseling then they are probably just going to become serial abusers after being released.

That's what im saying. Practically assault and all they do is tell the abuser "stay 30 yards away".... its not like they tell them to stay away and you will go to jail for life.Its more 30 yards or some ridiculous sentence

 

[Blackout]

You going to address @7Revo for saying the exact same thing?

Sorry miss but I don't say what you say

 

[agnosticlady]

Lol you don't have to be in anything to speak on it apparently. You have so much second hand experience, you should really think about writing a book for those who like to experience things vicariously through others.
You think that person that never owned a bank will ever know how to run one?
They can write all the books about investing or saving money they want but they can never put out a first person narrative about owning a bank.
I suppose they can always interview and actual bank owner tho

Mmhmm ok

 

[Spike Tarantino]

Yea when you go with dangeruous dudes is like flying a plane blindfolded

Yes it shouldn't be happening period but since this isn't a perfect world we must try our best to not run right into it.

That's the point. Nerds are beating/abusing women too.

It should be viewed as wrong, period. No one should be hurt that way, no one is more worthy than protection than anyone else.

If you can't understand, this is the impasse. I respectfully agree to disagree with this specific bullshyt line of thinking you appear to endorse.

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

Women

Mostly black

Like men who hit them
Its a masculinity thing

If you were a woman. Would you want a man who would walk all over ,scream at, hit, etc without him standing up 4 himself

Dont think so

Unless hes not killing her or putting her in the hospital

Putting ur hands on ur chick is required sometimes

 

[Blackout]

That's the point. Nerds are beating/abusing women too.

It should be viewed as wrong, period. No one should be hurt that way, no one is more worthy than protection than anyone else.

If you can't understand, this is the impasse, I respectfully agree to disagree with that specific bullseye line of thinking.

Miss nerds are still less likely to be abusive than hood mentality dudes.

So if you want to avoid domestic violence it would be better to be with a nerd than a hood dude.

That's something that you fail to understand

 

[Starski]

A lot of you victim blaming the women sound like cacs who victim blame black people when they get shot by cops

Both victim blaiming....


Further proves a theory i got going on.

 

[thirdeye]

Miss nerds are still less likely to be abusive than hood mentality dudes.