She sacrifice her 20s to build long term wealth. She worked 60-80 hours/week. Would you?

[BrehWyatt]

either y’all don’t care about a chick’s accomplishments thus you will support her and be subject to losing money in divorce or you actually should care what she makes as she brings her own shyt to the table and doubles up y’all money

I care about what my potential wife accomplishes and what she earns.

But when it comes to choosing a mate there are things I'm likely to value more than a woman's earning potential/reality or educational level. I'd be surprised to see any of that $ as it is (though I'm sure women spoil their men out here).

Being completely honest, I know my stance is not the smartest approach but that's where I am on the matter.

 

[feelosofer]

Women who are beautiful AND accomplished AND humble about their shyt. Women who actually know HOW to relate to a man and play a role in a relationship. Women who have emotional maturity and can express themselves eloquently without putting people down. Women who ACTUALLY take personal responsibility and don't go blaming everyone for their problems. Women who can actually cook real food. Women who want to stay in shape. Women who want to build assets WITH a man and develop a working relationship that's mutually beneficial.

What makes you think this woman could not possibly possess those qualities?

 

[Biscayne]

i honestly feel bad for her. plenty of self-made millionaires out here with families.

oh, she made her money off gentrifying folks in Philly? While bragging about not having a family? interesting.

Booststrapism and browbeating black ppl. You can already tell which side of the political aisle she's on.

 

[Biscayne]

Working 80hrs a week on a 15/hr job is unrealistic. They'll allow you to get that kinda overtime for a couple of weeks at most. Either way, depending on the job, you might be too tired to even be able to do 80/hr per week for more than a few weeks anyways. Very ambitious but unrealistic Tweet.

 

[The M.I.C.]

because shes a woman that isn’t married which is a very negative thing on the coli. If this was a man the coli would be like “ to that man, hope he doesn’t get married”. It’s crazy how this site is against marriage, rejoices in the fact that marriage rates are dropping but still expects women to be married

Her arrogance is unbecoming.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Meh. As with all these social media posts, the key is balance.

 

[Kenyan West]

Man, I can't knock anyone working 60+ hours a week at a well paying gig in their twenties to get that bread. And if you can do that shyt for a decade without any major health problems? Mad fukkin props.

I mean, what's the alternative? Nikkas who say "man you got to live your life!!!!" ain't doing shyt except lounging around, partying and debauchery. Id wager that the majority of people criticizing her aint got shyt to their name frfr.

Yes, this woman gave up the majority of her twenties, but she's still young. She's set for life because of the work she put in.

If I could go back to my twenties, I'd for sure do some more working instead of what I did, was waste time with partying, nightlife and ratchet beetches.

At 30+, we got more fun experiences and more wasted cash than her. She had less fun experiences, but a shyt load of properties and 1 milly in the bank. Can't hate.

Now ideally, you want to strike a balance between handling your biz srs and "enjoying your life," but that's unrealistic. People who do that successfully are very rare. Gotta sacrifice one or the other.

You wanna do what's smart? Or do you want to do what's fun?

 

[MF budz]

Salute to her. Can’t hate on it. Wish I would’ve grinded more in my early twenties.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

I care about what my potential wife accomplishes and what she earns.

But when it comes to choosing a mate there are things I'm likely to value more than a woman's earning potential/reality or educational level. I'd be surprised to see any of that $ as it is (though I'm sure women spoil their men out here).

Being completely honest, I know my stance is not the smartest approach but that's where I am on the matter.

how is this the case? you got a woman bringing home a good salary = afford better/bigger house or house in better neighborhood, can have two or more cars, can take (better) vacations, if necessary, can send your kids to private school, eat out at better places, higher quality groceries, better gifts, bigger savings and retirement accounts and overall better economic standing...how are you not seeing/benefiting from her money in this case?

you know what, i'm out

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Her arrogance is unbecoming.

Right, nobody likes people who got they face up their ass.

 

[jwonder]

I love how the women in this thread talking all this shyt. I haven't seen too many people at all bash her accomplishments.

The MAIN thing talked about is her arrogance and obnoxious attitude.

So I'm guessing men can't be turned off by someone bragging about what they have. And you know she does it all the time since she is looking for internet clout.


But only women can be turned off by that type of behavior right

 

[Hugs]

You already know she's going to be obnoxious if you date her.

 

[Htrb-nvr-blk-&-ug-as-evr]

Accomplished, but still just a Philly rat....you can tell that by her Twitter. Not even remotely professional, cursing and shyt.

 

[BrehWyatt]

how is this the case? you got a woman bringing home a good salary = afford better/bigger house or house in better neighborhood, can have two or more cars, can take (better) vacations, if necessary, can send your kids to private school, eat out at better places, higher quality groceries, better gifts, bigger savings and retirement accounts and overall better economic standing...how are you not seeing/benefiting from her money in this case?

you know what, i'm out

The comment in parentheses afterward is what I meant (though I'm sure women spoil their men out here).

Outside of better gifts or occasionally being catered to, the rest of that stuff you mentioned is largely a part of being an adult who is on top of their shyt.

Besides, I wouldn't want to be in a living situation that suddenly becomes not affordable in case something happens to one half of the equation. If I/my partner can't do it on our own in case one of us goes down, I don't want it -- nor would I want to put my woman in a situation where she had to do the heavy lifting financially. So if things went the way I wanted them to, I'd be able to afford all the entirety of a comfortable lifestyle whether or not my partner lifted a finger to help ensure that.

If this is the case ... where exactly am I benefiting from her success if everything we got, I could have done it by myself? It's a serious question. Tell me what I'm missing because if there's a perspective I'm not seeing, I'd love to be shown it.

 

[DaKidFromNoWhere]

Working 80hrs a week on a 15/hr job is unrealistic. They'll allow you to get that kinda overtime for a couple of weeks at most. Either way, depending on the job, you might be too tired to even be able to do 80/hr per week for more than a few weeks anyways. Very ambitious but unrealistic Tweet.

My homeboy did it for 7 months making $18 and double time on Sunday so it is not unrealistic
They changed the department he was working in to weekends off so now he working 60 hrs a week.