to that man, hope he doesn’t get married”. It’s crazy how this site is against marriage, rejoices in the fact that marriage rates are dropping but still expects women to be married 
because shes a woman that isn’t married which is a very negative thing on the coli. If this was a man the coli would be like “
If you read the thread title it's clear what I'm asking.Would I what, OP? Like, what are you asking?
If you're asking would I go the route she did (go build wealth without having the student loan shyt holding me back), well yeah. It's more advantageous for men to build wealth and have their shyt together. Once that happens (and assuming you care for yourself decently enough or better), the women will come.
Would I date the chick? Depends on what else she has. It's great that she's got money, educated, no debt, good work ethic, etc. She should be proud of that.
But there's a thread on here somewhere that basically explains that the average dude does not give that much of a fukk about how professionally accomplished a woman is when it comes to choosing a mate. Not saying that's why she posted but I'm just saying my reaction is
C's gets degrees (for all I know she was Dean's List/Valedictorian), but will that degree help you care for, nurture and encourage me while I'm out here fukking with society and all that on my way to success?
People talk shyt.
Would I what, OP? Like, what are you asking?
If you're asking would I go the route she did (go build wealth without having the student loan shyt holding me back), well yeah. It's more advantageous for men to build wealth and have their shyt together. Once that happens (and assuming you care for yourself decently enough or better), the women will come.
Would I date the chick? Depends on what else she has. It's great that she's got money, educated, no debt, good work ethic, etc. She should be proud of that.
But there's a thread on here somewhere that basically explains that the average dude does not give that much of a fukk about how professionally accomplished a woman is when it comes to choosing a mate. Not saying that's why she posted but I'm just saying my reaction is
C's gets degrees (for all I know she was Dean's List/Valedictorian), but will that degree help you care for, nurture and encourage me while I'm out here fukking with society and all that on my way to success?
either y’all don’t care about a chick’s accomplishments thus you will support her and be subject to losing money in divorceOBVIOUSLY, when you have someone of the opposite sex being presented in a message board for men, men are going to evaluate whether they'd want to date her or marry her. That's ultimately what matters to us. Her wealth? Great for HER, but ultimately... it is just for her and her alone.
If the tables were turned and some successful dude was being profiled on Lipstick Alley, women would want to know his relationship status/is he gay/ is he single/ does he like white women... I bet her does with his gay lookin' ass
We give this woman her props... great for her! She's wealthy! But this wealth she is enjoying... is she going to share it with a black man? Does he have to be a man of equal or greater "value"? That's usually what sisters demand.
That's the difference between highlighting successful men and women. When men achieve this type of wealth, they're expected to share that with a woman... or women... and get married... so she can live comfortably. Until there's a divorce. And she runs off with half of the money he worked so hard for. This is what men gripe about.
Women on the other hand... they accomplish success. But they're slow to share it. Because the expectation is for the guy to make more money.
or you actually should care what she makes as she brings her own shyt to the table and doubles up y’all money
and you can never really experience the stuff that was normal on your 20s as a 40 year old
