Some men dont want to assume their role as providers and want to live life as perpetual children dependent on a woman.Men who don’t value marriage or family want a tell a woman she should have Ali’s marriage and family so her husband and kids can benefit for her hard work not because of her happiness.
but hate when women and kids take advantage of them financially. Can someone help me make sense of this.
Ideally the man would care for his wife and children with what hes earned and the woman would contribute to the pot with the husband making the financial decisions with her input.
But again since so many men dont want that role their leadership skills in terms of how the money is handled is questionable and undervalued.