She Broke that Nikka Cam Newton down to Particles! Keep Her Away from Nick Cannon

[Gloxina]

“I’m comfortable in my abandonment” - nick cannon . @Gloxina is right many black men gotta hold this L. I’m childless tho. Always wrap it up before I smack it up.

We got the lowest marriage rates, highest out of wedlock rates, and now we got prominent Black male entertainers talking about why it’s ok to produce 8+ kids w/various women in various households out of wedlock.

Literally, purposely birthing kids who will never grow up in households watching a wife and husband —MOTHER and FATHER— interacting together. So they are purposely producing children who will go out into the world not experiencing and witnessing what an actual intact family is, further contributing to the problem we are currently having in Black American culture.






I mean, the call is coming from inside the house.



Cam, Nick and the men defending them are putting this dysfunction on display for the WORLD.
I…I don’t think brehs understand how this looks

 

[jay83]

We got the lowest marriage rates, highest out of wedlock rates, and now we got prominent Black male entertainers talking about why it’s ok to produce 8+ kids w/various women in various households out of wedlock.

Literally, purposely birthing kids who will never grow up in households watching a wife and husband —MOTHER and FATHER— interacting together. So they are purposely producing children who will go out into the world not experiencing and witnessing what an actual intact family is, further contributing to the problem we are currently having in Black American culture.






I mean, the call is coming from inside the house.



Cam, Nick and the men defending them are putting this dysfunction on display for the WORLD.
I…I don’t think brehs understand how this looks

I will say negativity and crazy stuff like this does get more traction. LeBron damn near a billionaire and hes building with a family.

I just hate that entertainment era and athletes with fame go this route for the world to see. But if she were to interview a regular dude with one family it wouldn’t be any views as well.

 

[Gloxina]

You make valid points but respectfully the bolded aint stopping shyt. It is different for him because he can flat out say "I aint tryna get married...just let God bring the babies" and women--intelligent, beautiful, option having women--will still line up to buss it wide open for him. No different from how Draya got herself another sponsor. These people are outliers though. Most men cant just spew that BS Cam is spewing and get results.

With black folks, we gotta look at why families have been broken. Why is the structure not in place. Its way deeper and more intentional and insidious. Black folks didnt just hop on boats, get here, and say "fukk family (and economic) structure". shyt has literally been stripped and undermined every step of the way.

Those of us that know better gotta do better and stop with the finger pointing. Women and men both be on some fukk shyt. There is no separating the two. But nobody wants to be accountable and everybody wants to ride for their side instead of coming together. And again this is way deeper, more intentional, and insidious. Its plenty of black family pods and content creators promoting love and togetherness but those aint going viral. Its this. Its Kevin and his disciples. We have had a lot of BS done to us and still being done but we gotta stop being complicit in our destruction.

Oh you are absolutely right!

But this is holding both side accountable.

The main attitude in our community is that the out of wedlock numbers are solely women’s fault because we can get pregnant.

We aren’t the only ppl who have sex outside of marriage.
Other groups teach their sons to not create b*stard babies.
Do what you do, but don’t get the girls pregnant.

Not that I’m an advocate of abortion but- Them white and Asian dudes will lean on a girl and press her to get an abortion if they slip up. Black culture says to have the kid and poof- baby daddy leaves and repeats the same cycle with more women.

Black culture doesn’t say “Hey man, you know you ain’t staying with that girl. Just put a condom on”.

NOW that discussion is beginning because these two men who are reproducing like bucks on a plantation are being called out.

 

[Gloxina]

This man truly called manipulating women a superpower.

Getting women to sleep with you when you are a celebrity selling dreams is about as much of a superpower as getting a lap dance from a stripper

He doesn't even realize that both parties are preying on each other. Dumb nikka

THANK YOU!!!!


Which is why she said that Nick, Cam and the women they attract are all low functioning!! They got money, they look good, but that’s all they are!!
They’re too blinded by their material success to get it.
Only birds are signing up for their circus because those chicks just want a check!

 

[Spliff]

Packed up Cam.
Packed up Nick.

She need to get in a room with KountryWayne to complete the trifecta.

I’d say Future but he doesn’t gaf.

 

[Fani Willis fan]

Packed up Cam.
Packed up Nick.

She need to get in a room with KountryWayne to complete the trifecta.

I’d say Future but he doesn’t gaf.

Kountry Wayne actually realizes what he did was stupid, it’s just too late to fix it. So he’s accepted overpaying which can at least help prevent the baby mamas from becoming spiteful and poisoning the well.

 

[lib123]

We got the lowest marriage rates, highest out of wedlock rates, and now we got prominent Black male entertainers talking about why it’s ok to produce 8+ kids w/various women in various households out of wedlock.

Literally, purposely birthing kids who will never grow up in households watching a wife and husband —MOTHER and FATHER— interacting together. So they are purposely producing children who will go out into the world not experiencing and witnessing what an actual intact family is, further contributing to the problem we are currently having in Black American culture.






I mean, the call is coming from inside the house.



Cam, Nick and the men defending them are putting this dysfunction on display for the WORLD.
I…I don’t think brehs understand how this looks

Facts. I would also love to see Dr. Bryant interview BW who justify the current out of wedlock situation. Some common excuses I hear from women are pointing out the worst examples of two-parent households (eg abusive) and juelzing by saying wives can become single mothers too if their husband’s die.

 

[Gloxina]

Packed up Cam.
Packed up Nick.

She need to get in a room with KountryWayne to complete the trifecta.

I’d say Future but he doesn’t gaf.

And that’s the thing.



At least he’s living his truth and honest with his trash ways.


Nick Cannon is literally BRAGGING about tricking women.


Nikkas ain’t seeing this for how insane it is.

 

[NYC Rebel]

I came up with a father who had multiple wives due to him being a Yoruba prince.

My siblings were scattered about, with me being the eldest. I knew little about them until my father’s passing. Some of these men don’t think about the aftermath they put on their children. I always think about it. Ain’t shyt sweet about it.

Nothing.

 

[Space Cowboy]

The same black men I see hating Kamala every day are the same black men I see defending Cam. I truly think these men hate black women. What confuses me is he’s married to a black woman and he’s posting shyt trying to defend Cam or put him in a good light.

 

[lib123]

 

[FieldMouse51]

thats my QB1


Cam dumb as hell though I'm not asking him relationship advice

 

[FTBS]

Oh you are absolutely right!

But this is holding both side accountable.

The main attitude in our community is that the out of wedlock numbers are solely women’s fault because we can get pregnant.

We aren’t the only ppl who have sex outside of marriage.
Other groups teach their sons to not create b*stard babies.
Do what you do, but don’t get the girls pregnant.

Not that I’m an advocate of a prison but- Them white and Asian dudes will lean on a girl and press her to get an abortion if they slip up. Black culture says to have the kid and poof- baby daddy leaves and repeats the same cycle with more women.

Black culture doesn’t say “Hey man, you know you ain’t staying with that girl. Just put a condom on”.

NOW that discussion is beginning because these two men who are reproducing like bucks on a plantation are being called out.

But is this really holding them accountable? Is this gonna stop Nick or Cam from impregnating someone? Is this gonna stop the next irresponsible man and woman from fukking raw? Is this starting a discussion of how to address the issue or more of the same us v them?

Unplanned, single parent kids are in every community. We have been pushed as the face and allow that to be. Go to any school, you will see single moms and grandmas/papas of every race.

Its been normalized throughout our culture. Nobody is teaching anybody anything, accept to shirk responsibility and blame others (not directed at you, speaking generally).

Plenty of men, with nowhere near Cam or Nicks resources are held accountable by child support. Plenty others are in their kids lives. Study after study shows that black men are the most involved fathers. We cant let propoganda and some rich nikkas with issues overshadow that.

Can we do better? Yes. Is Cam getting a viral moment gonna do anything to assist with that? I dont believe so.

Appreciate the dialogue with someone else who is invested in this issue.

 

[King Poetic]

Nothing is going to change

U think any woman on a LARGE SCALE IN OUR COMMUNITY is going to either go for the regular 9 to 5 dude who makes 45/50/60 k a year and is a good man

Or they going to pick a entertainer/athlete who makes high 6/7 figures and despite having 4/5/6/7 kids by different women to have a kid with..

We all know the answer to that

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Study after study shows that black men are the most involved fathers

So which one is it…. ? nikkas are responsible for broken homes in the community or nikkas are the best father of any race?