She Broke that Nikka Cam Newton down to Particles! Keep Her Away from Nick Cannon

[O.Red]

See-A few of y’all see it tho. This is the only reason why the women are in here giving our 2 cents.

The out of wedlock birth rate can never be fixed if we have a decent percentage of Black men who think this way.

Older men with this mentality were once younger men with this mentality. I keep saying it: Young Black men are not socialized by Black culture to want marriage and children born in one household. This is the mentality a lot of Black girls encounter. We talk about marriage and compare Black college girls to White college girls, but those White colleges girls are all being proposed to by White college guys. Where’s the large grouping of young Black men who are buying engagement rings and proposing before they are 30 themselves?

Look at this thread. Read through this shyt. Lol

Cam is not an anomaly in this community.

And again- he put the mentality on display for the WORLD.

Ok there's some slippery shyt going on in this thread. This is another one of those situations where anything negative said about black men is accepted without any due diligence and the discussion because just another black men ain't shyt pow wow

For starters people are often too willing to make Cam Newton/Nick Cannon's the face of the black man so let's start there. The hyper sexual irresponsibility of black men has been overblown and is not representative of reality. The truth is the MAJORITY of black men in America are childless. We're talking hard numbers. And that majority is not incels either. Nikkas fukkin but nikkas have been strapping up at a very high rate over the past two decades

The baby mama factory black man is pushed in the media as the default black man when the truth is he's a minority, but that minority, but that minority is a large chunk of why the majority of black women have a child or children There's always cries for men like Cam to be better, but you don't 8 kids without mutual agreement. Why do these discussions always hard stop at the decision making of these women? How does a woman become baby mama 2-8? And we know Cam is rich but we know nikkas with no money and just as many kids

This is a lot like racism topics where black folks are fighting tooth and nail to make white people nicer. These topics are huge black men gaslights because it's making all black men the scapegoat for the actions of a few who were fukkin willing participants. What are we really talking about here?

So your point about "fixing the out of wedlock birthrate" are mute because no one's even willing to discuss the relevant factors. The majority of black men are single and childless, and a good amount of that majority are making high five to six figures, and those men don't want to be married. Why is that? But no one ever answers this question honestly

You talk about black college girls comparing themselves to white college girls but that topic always gets ugly because when "What are those white girls doing to get proposed to?" comes up it's crickets or pronouncements about what "I won't do"

Black folks, black MEN and WOMEN, too often complain about not getting the prizes in a game they're not willing to play, and that's why this thread and most of these discussions are bullshyt

Even for all the praising of this women in op, she's doing all this fancy shrink speak and finger wagging to an unmarried man when she's unmarried herself. If nikkas can call Kevin Samuels a hypocrite for doing the same thing why not her?

 

[Gloxina]

Ok there's some slippery shyt going on in this thread. This is another one of those situations where anything negative said about black men is accepted without any due diligence and the discussion because just another black men ain't shyt pow wow

For starters people are often too willing to make Cam Newton/Nick Cannon's the face of the black man so let's start there. The hyper sexual irresponsibility of black men has been overblown and is not representative of reality. The truth is the MAJORITY of black men in America are childless. We're talking hard numbers. And that majority is not incels either. Nikkas fukkin but nikkas have been strapping up at a very high rate over the past two decades

The baby mama factory black man is pushed in the media as the default black man when the truth is he's a minority, but that minority, but that minority is a large chunk of why the majority of black women have a child or children There's always cries for men like Cam to be better, but you don't 8 kids without mutual agreement. Why do these discussions always hard stop at the decision making of these women? How does a woman become baby mama 2-8? And we know Cam is rich but we know nikkas with no money and just as many kids

This is a lot like racism topics where black folks are fighting tooth and nail to make white people nicer. These topics are huge black men gaslights because it's making all black men the scapegoat for the actions of a few who were fukkin willing participants. What are we really talking about here?

So your point about "fixing the out of wedlock birthrate" are mute because no one's even willing to discuss the relevant factors. The majority of black men are single and childless, and a good amount of that majority are making high five to six figures, and those men don't want to be married. Why is that? But no one ever answers this question honestly

You talk about black college girls comparing themselves to white college girls but that topic always gets ugly because when "What are those white girls doing to get proposed to?" comes up it's crickets or pronouncements about what "I won't do"

Black folks, black MEN and WOMEN, too often complain about not getting the prizes in a game they're not willing to play, and that's why this thread and most of these discussions are bullshyt

Even for all the praising of this women in op, she's doing all this fancy shrink speak and finger wagging to an unmarried man when she's unmarried herself. If nikkas can call Kevin Samuels a hypocrite for doing the same thing why not her?

By the age of ~40 close to 80% of brehs have at least one kid.
There isn’t some large swath of grown ass men out here who are childless lol

And high 5-6 figures?? What’s the percentage of brehs who make that? Not many because we have the lowest median salary in this nation. Black folks are the brokest in this country, so we don’t have to tailor this to the 6 certs 6 figure subset.
And the white college girls are doing the same thing as any other girl trying to get married- they are dating and falling in love and making it clear they want marriage.
Ain’t no young girls out here saying what they “won’t do” for their man That’s when women get jaded down the road.


Majority of these girls aren’t doing anything beyond the normal stuff girls do with their boyfriends.
White and Asian cultures in general make it clear that their young men need to be preparing for marriage. You can see the same in African cultures.
Y’all talk about shame, but Black culture doesn’t shame Black men for anything.
The condition of the hood, having kids out of wedlock, etc. Black women get shamed by a certain age or if they have more than one kid out of wedlock, but y’all don’t get shamed by Black society.
And look, I’m not saying we don’t have room for improvement, but culturally- no. On a grand scale our young men are not out here pushed to be ready to propose at 26-30.
I’ve said it before, it happened in my family, but they were on top of their sons to knock out grad school, be homeowners and be in a position to afford an engagement ring by 30/31. But that isn’t typical experience in our community. It used to be, back when we had the highest marriage rates.


I mean dawg— this site is the home of “GMB”, and most of these dudes ain’t being facetious!
____________________________

The ultimate point is women have to peep game and not fall for it, but men need to wrap it up if they know they don’t want kids.



This Cam interview is going viral because his cavalier attitude is NOT new. What’s new is someone looking men in the eye and saying that a man having multiple babies is as unappealing and dysfunctional as a woman being a babymomma.
He thought it was different for him cuz he’s rich.

 

[lib123]

By the age of ~40 close to 80% of brehs have at least one kid.
There isn’t some large swath of grown ass men out here who are childless lol

And high 5-6 figures?? What’s the percentage of brehs who make that? Not many because we have the lowest median salary in this nation. Black folks are the brokest in this country, so we don’t have to tailor this to the 6 certs 6 figure subset.
And the white college girls are doing the same thing as any other girl trying to get married- they are dating and falling in love and making it clear they want marriage.
Ain’t no young girls out here saying what they “won’t do” for their man That’s when women get jaded down the road.


Majority of these girls aren’t doing anything beyond the normal stuff girls do with their boyfriends.
White and Asian cultures in general make it clear that their young men need to be preparing for marriage. You can see the same in African cultures.
Y’all talk about shame, but Black culture doesn’t shame Black men for anything.
The condition of the hood, having kids out of wedlock, etc. Black women get shamed by a certain age or if they have more than one kid out of wedlock, but y’all don’t get shamed by Black society.
And look, I’m not saying we don’t have room for improvement, but culturally- no. On a grand scale our young men are not out here pushed to be ready to propose at 26-30.
I’ve said it before, it happened in my family, but they were on top of their sons to knock out grad school, be homeowners and be in a position to afford an engagement ring by 30/31. But that isn’t typical experience in our community. It used to be, back when we had the highest marriage rates.


I mean dawg— this site is the home of “GMB”, and most of these dudes ain’t being facetious!
____________________________

The ultimate point is women have to peep game and not fall for it, but men need to wrap it up if they know they don’t want kids.



This Cam interview is going viral because his cavalier attitude is NOT new. What’s new is someone looking men in the eye and saying that a man having multiple babies is as unappealing and dysfunctional as a woman being a babymomma.
He thought it was different for him cuz he’s rich.

Good points. Also I've noticed a lot of these men with baby mamas ironically have mothers (many of whom were BMs themselves) that make excuse after excuse for their sons trifling behavior and often demonize the women ("She decided to have the baby", "She knew his situation", etc). That has to stop too.

 

[Gold]

She gave Nick that work too

Wow, Nick is actually more childish than Cam

 

[jay83]

Wow, Nick is actually more childish than Cam

It’s amazing how they even got to the level they are at considering their maturity.

 

[Gold]

It’s amazing how they even got to the level they are at considering their maturity.

This man truly called manipulating women a superpower.

Getting women to sleep with you when you are a celebrity selling dreams is about as much of a superpower as getting a lap dance from a stripper

He doesn't even realize that both parties are preying on each other. Dumb nikka

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

This is why I smh at men, especially, black men that think this way. Every black man in my family, aside from my 23 year old brother and an out of sorts uncle, are married. They didn’t think about the burden of marriage and they certainly didn’t think having a bunch of out of wedlock children was better than being married. Most of them married in their 20’s including my parents, who did eventually divorce but my father was a very active parent in all of our lives. His responsibility never changed just because he was no longer with my mother.

What kind of mindset is that to create a bunch of broken homes because you fear commitment but yet the biggest commitment you are willingly and consenting to is having a child? You can divorce a woman or she can divorce you, but you can’t ever divorce your children.

These men and women willingly participating in this type of mindset do more harm than good for the future of their children.

 

[VertigoKnight]

He’d never do it. But I’d love to see her do someone like Future.

8 kids and 8 baby mommas.

 

[Eternally Jaded]

Yeah like I said, he knows who to add to his harem of dumb baby mamas

Getting her bewtyhole rearranged to please a man

The same man who said he's being patient waiting for his wife while playing house with her

Now im not gonna champion Cam's stupid low impulse control parenting but I will say this about that clip you posted...

If she's not blinkering like a Vegas 4th of July concert by the end of it, Cam is selfish and doing it wrong.

They need more lube, more buildup, more relaxation and she'll be the one coming back to the bedroom with ASTRO/Pjur or whatever she likes best.

There's a spot in the nani you can pressure from the other road, that'll take her to the mountaintop, and when you add in clitoral manipulation, she'll go OFF...if she's comfortable enough.

Sad thing is he's ruining her for whoever follows him after he breaks up with her, associating these poor sexual experiences with the act, rather than her subpar partner.

And yeah, she shouldn't have told that.

None of the world's business.

 

[Gold]

This is why I smh at men, especially, black men that think this way. Every black man in my family, aside from my 23 year old brother and an out of sorts uncle, are married. They didn’t think about the burden of marriage and they certainly didn’t think having a bunch of out of wedlock children was better than being married. Most of them married in their 20’s including my parents, who did eventually divorce but my father was a very active parent in all of our lives. His responsibility never changed just because he was no longer with my mother.

What kind of mindset is that to create a bunch of broken homes because you fear commitment but yet the biggest commitment you are willingly and consenting to is having a child? You can divorce a woman or she can divorce you, but you can’t ever divorce your children.

These men and women willingly participating in this type of mindset do more harm than good for the future of their children.

Yep, these brehs just playing dumb.

They know EXACTLY what Dr Bryant is talking about. They've seen people married for 40, 50 years, building strong bonds with their children and grandchildren, treating their wives with respect, managing a single, whole, united household.

They know exactly what high functioning behavior (in terms of relationships with women) looks like. They just want to pretend like they are high functioning too, even though none of those characteristics are present their lives. Everything I know about Nick Cannon as a bf, father is the result of him getting aired out for clown behavior by other people.

They thing is, she's not insulting them for having kids out of wedlock or running away from commitment. She's just saying "based on your actions, this is who you are" And she's right, this is who they are, they have even said as much.


So I don't know what the problem is. Just own it, this is who you are..
I have more respect for a man who says "i'm a fukk nikka " then a fukk nikka who wants to pretend he's not.

Same way I have more respect for a thot who knows she's a thot vs a thot who wants to pretend she's some puritan saint

 

[Fani Willis fan]

I noticed a lot of the redpill is furious about this shyt, saying it has no merit at all

 

[FTBS]

By the age of ~40 close to 80% of brehs have at least one kid.
There isn’t some large swath of grown ass men out here who are childless lol

And high 5-6 figures?? What’s the percentage of brehs who make that? Not many because we have the lowest median salary in this nation. Black folks are the brokest in this country, so we don’t have to tailor this to the 6 certs 6 figure subset.
And the white college girls are doing the same thing as any other girl trying to get married- they are dating and falling in love and making it clear they want marriage.
Ain’t no young girls out here saying what they “won’t do” for their man That’s when women get jaded down the road.


Majority of these girls aren’t doing anything beyond the normal stuff girls do with their boyfriends.
White and Asian cultures in general make it clear that their young men need to be preparing for marriage. You can see the same in African cultures.
Y’all talk about shame, but Black culture doesn’t shame Black men for anything.
The condition of the hood, having kids out of wedlock, etc. Black women get shamed by a certain age or if they have more than one kid out of wedlock, but y’all don’t get shamed by Black society.
And look, I’m not saying we don’t have room for improvement, but culturally- no. On a grand scale our young men are not out here pushed to be ready to propose at 26-30.
I’ve said it before, it happened in my family, but they were on top of their sons to knock out grad school, be homeowners and be in a position to afford an engagement ring by 30/31. But that isn’t typical experience in our community. It used to be, back when we had the highest marriage rates.


I mean dawg— this site is the home of “GMB”, and most of these dudes ain’t being facetious!
____________________________

The ultimate point is women have to peep game and not fall for it, but men need to wrap it up if they know they don’t want kids.



This Cam interview is going viral because his cavalier attitude is NOT new. What’s new is someone looking men in the eye and saying that a man having multiple babies is as unappealing and dysfunctional as a woman being a babymomma.
He thought it was different for him cuz he’s rich.

You make valid points but respectfully the bolded aint stopping shyt. It is different for him because he can flat out say "I aint tryna get married...just let God bring the babies" and women--intelligent, beautiful, option having women--will still line up to buss it wide open for him. No different from how Draya got herself another sponsor. These people are outliers though. Most men cant just spew that BS Cam is spewing and get results.

With black folks, we gotta look at why families have been broken. Why is the structure not in place. Its way deeper and more intentional and insidious. Black folks didnt just hop on boats, get here, and say "fukk family (and economic) structure". shyt has literally been stripped and undermined every step of the way.

Those of us that know better gotta do better and stop with the finger pointing. Women and men both be on some fukk shyt. There is no separating the two. But nobody wants to be accountable and everybody wants to ride for their side instead of coming together. And again this is way deeper, more intentional, and insidious. Its plenty of black family pods and content creators promoting love and togetherness but those aint going viral. Its this. Its Kevin and his disciples. We have had a lot of BS done to us and still being done but we gotta stop being complicit in our destruction.

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

See-A few of y’all see it tho. This is the only reason why the women are in here giving our 2 cents.

The out of wedlock birth rate can never be fixed if we have a decent percentage of Black men who think this way.

Older men with this mentality were once younger men with this mentality. I keep saying it: Young Black men are not socialized by Black culture to want marriage and children born in one household. This is the mentality a lot of Black girls encounter. We talk about marriage and compare Black college girls to White college girls, but those White colleges girls are all being proposed to by White college guys. Where’s the large grouping of young Black men who are buying engagement rings and proposing before they are 30 themselves?

Look at this thread. Read through this shyt. Lol

Cam is not an anomaly in this community.

And again- he put the mentality on display for the WORLD.

Facts! Dap + rep

 

[BandOfGypsys]

He really stuck to the script cause that's really the logic nikkas use. "Kids are a blessing" "I just love kids" "The Bible says be fruitful and multiply". All bullshyt!

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

She gave Nick that work too

“I’m comfortable with my abandonment” - nick cannon . @Gloxina is right many black men gotta hold this L. I’m childless tho. Always wrap it up before I smack it up.